Showing posts with label Submissive Men. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Submissive Men. Show all posts

Thursday, June 4, 2015

In Person I Found You Very Innocent.....

"In person I found you very innocent.....different from the unspeakable things you write about." Hearing these words I immediately thought of the internet porn images of dominant females and how men, especially young men have been indoctrinated in the mind set that dominant females walk around with thigh high net stockings, corsets under their clothes and a cane and whip in each hip pocket. That we bark out commands and humiliate men in a disrespectful and degrading manner as the worms they are. My perception of the men I allow into my life is far from the image of a worm.

I'm a multifaceted woman with a full life. I work a Monday-Friday job during the day, write at night and April thru September I have a seasonal job on the weekends. My treat is connecting with my friends on Fet, perving their pics and loving their writings. I occasionally get out for some impact play with friends, networking with other doms and there's the continuous vetting of curious subs. (I have yet to find a match.)

Yes I have the corsets, thigh highs, canes etc... I love it all. What I write is inspired from my life if not taken straight from a moment in time. I have said many times, "Don't let my kindness be taken as weakness." I've been told, "You're very caring, kind hearted and gentle with a sweet voice. Respectful, innocent and passionate." My response is; Thank you. But I do question the 'innocent' description.  ::Smile::  Maybe what they see is the wonder that is still in my eyes and the hope that people are honest and truthful. Does that somehow translate into me not being dominant?

A man's surrender to me must be a compelling willingness and urge on his part to trust me with his inner being. I'm a treasure hunter for the gold within. The beauty that lies underneath the male swagger. Cruelty, brutality and ruthlessness is not in my nature. And I choose to be very picky with the men I allow into my life. My dominance over them must be inspired by who they are and naturally draw out of me the desire to own, control and rule over them with a firm but gentle hand. Which is why I find casual play boring and uninspiring. It's just not for me.

So..... If you ever make it to the place where we meet in person, keep in mind you're going to meet the woman first. And this woman is looking to see if the man within you can draw out the desire in me to dominate the man who longs to surrender.

And don't let my 'innocence' fool you. ::Wink::

~Vista~

Thursday, May 21, 2015

Gladiators and a Secret Quest for Ownership.

Gladiators: Spartacus
Former gladiator and an accomplished military leader was one of the escaped slave leaders in the third Servile War, a major slave uprising against the Roman Republic. There are many claims that he died during the final battle but it's also reported that his body was never found.

Hmmmm. His body was never found......

This lets me spin so many erotic fantasies in my mind. I have this draw toward a man such as Spartacus. A trained gladiator, warrior and military man. I never see myself as a follower/fan of his exploits but as warrior/queen during that time who watched and admired him in his battles in the Roman arena. A woman of her own power who finds in this gladiator; intelligence, creativity, strategic leadership and a raw sexual power that matches her own yet willingly would surrender to her passions and pleasures. That his body was never discovered because he found his way to his queen's bedchamber in the dead of night, laid his weapons at her feet, knelt and bowed his head to the floor saying that only she was worthy of his surrender. There would be no other. Under her protection he lived out his days by her side as her devoted squire by day and lover by night. I like my ending far better than what the truth may be.

Worthy of his surrender. Damn I like the thought of that!



Tuesday, May 19, 2015

When His 'No' to Pain is a 'Yes' to You.



Most of the subs I've played with have been pain sluts of one degree or another. Dreaming of the lash of the flogger or the sting of the cane they wiggle, squirm even yelp at the strike. But still their asses reach out for more and they take pride in the remaining welts, bruises and marks.

But what of the sub that wants no part of pain? No part of Impact play. And yet there is a stirring deep inside his soul to say 'Yes' to you. He winces when he thinks of your cane. Slightly trembles when you talk of the swing of the flogger and the rhythm you feel as it slides across his skin. Yet at closer examination his cock is hard and dripping; his stomach, full of anticipation.

His desire to please you.....to see the pleasure spread across your face, the delight in your eyes when his surrender is complete is far greater than any pain inflicted on his flesh. Each sting of the hand, bite of the tail and burn of the cane reaches beyond his skin and penetrates his soul.

His desire to be owned by you, trained by you, intimately known by you is his quest.

This man...... reaches into my own soul. His hunger feeds me.

Saturday, May 9, 2015

Saturday Eye Candy!

To celebrate Saturdays and that we all need a diversion or two, here are a few of my a favorite Eye Candy today from my Tumblr site Sexual Destinies!

Today's theme: Men in Rope!

I love seeing men tied in rope and it's becoming more of a trend much to my delight! I lead a group on FetLife titled: 'Men in Rope'. It's only 2 months old and growing in numbers. Riggers and male rope bunnies abound from around the world. A great place to network and perv on lovely sights. Check it out! Click on the link above.

And drop by my profile and spread some love if you want to see me up close and personal. :)
Click here:    ~ Vista










Thursday, May 7, 2015

Looking for a Few Good Men!

And when I say a few good men, it would be nice to have a few to choose from! My definition of a man is a male over 40! Until then they are 'boys' in training. There are always exceptions to that definition. I've met a few that stray far from it. Mature beyond their years. Others I've known never break through training camp! Being that 'older' women have been the rage for a while I've had my moments of enjoying the attention of a younger man. I do enjoy looking at them and when I find one I like, playing with them...but the attraction wanes quickly for I yearn for the maturity of a man.

A man who understands his own sexuality. Comfortable in his skin. Full of wonder, awe and adventure. Understands that 'cock into pussy' is not the ultimate goal! That there are many mile stones of pleasure along the way. A man who has learned the road map of a woman's body and especially the woman he now desires. A man that is open and responsive to my definition of pleasure.

Newbies in D/s and younger men have become my 'Kryptonite'. They drain me with their inability to commit to a decision. To follow through with their words and think thoroughly through promises before speaking them. Their excitement and enthusiasm can be contagious as adrenalin pumps through their brain and cock. I take the risk, because hell why not...look at them! But the disappointment in their inability to pull the trigger on their own wants and desires has left a bad taste in my mouth.

So in the effort to keep my heart from becoming jaded I'm swearing off men under 40! To clarify: Those who I have a personal face to face, R/L connection with. In wisdom I should probably cut it off at 50...but men are just starting to come into their own in their 40's! I'm not turning my back on that. But I am swearing off newbies of ALL ages! Just no patience for them! Damn! A woman just wants to have what she wants without the damn drama! I don't want to 'break' someone in; explain about my kinks and help them discover theirs.

I want men that are well versed in their dark ways and have a desire to discover how their demons play well with mine.

So where are the healthy, intelligent, adventurous, handsome, physically fit, mature dark souls that won't run from but to my dark playhouse?

Looking for a Few Good Men.


Yes!  Put the young ones behind glass to enjoy until they reach 40! 

Sunday, March 29, 2015

His Beauty Shatters Me

He's quiet now. Still shivering, not from being cold but from the adrenalin and sensations still rushing through his body. I have his head against my breast, his body across my lap curled around me. Pressed into me. A blanket covers him, my fingers run softly through his hair. There are no words now, only the sound of his breathing and sighing as he goes through the process of joining me consciously. I give him all the time he needs to come back to me. I want him to relish the journey. I want him to greet whatever feelings he encounters and let them speak to him. I want him to acknowledge whatever fears may have arisen and meet them face to face. I pull him closer. Pressing the side of his face into my breasts, feeling his lips moving along their softness. His eyes are closed...drifting in the safety of my comfort. His body periodically twitching as he unwinds.

My mind wanders over the scene that just finished. His body responsive to every touch, swat, lash and sting that came his way. I remember when we first started to play together how he was reserved and acted tough to show me he could take a lot. It took time to convince him I was more interested in breaking his shell not hardening it. I already knew he was a man, a good man and a strong man. When the cracks in his armor started to appear the intensity of our scenes increased. His body started to reach toward me for more. Every sigh, whimper, moan and yell became music to my soul and fuel to my swing. It was his invitation to dig deeper, to claw at the exterior of his shell until his soul was laid bare before us both. Finally the tears started to flow and I knew we hit hidden treasures. It was always his goal...to learn to cry again.

Now, months later he lays in my arms, armor voluntarily left at the door. His words are softer, richer and full of his humanity. He eyes look deeper into my soul and recognize who we are together in this journey. His flesh beaten, tired and abused. His face stained with dry tears. The strength in his surrender to lower his guard, to trust me with the unknown that lives within him; priceless. His soul and spirit revived. He's more beautiful to me now than when we first met.

He carries my marks.

His unfolding beauty shatters my soul.




Thursday, March 26, 2015

The Window




He was two floors up and one row of apartments over when he first recognized those long lean legs of hers dangling from the patio chair. It had been five years since he had seen her. That was the last time they said good bye. There had been many good-byes and he thought they would keep dangling like her legs were now over the chair. But he soon found after weeks had gone by she was serious that time and she was gone for good.

She had been his first long term dom. Three years he served her and thought it would never end. But her job changed locations and she needed to move away. Now standing at the window watching her in a routine he was familiar with he knew plans had changed and here she was back in her old building. Did she think he had moved away also? Had she even tried to look him up? She always loved that bottom floor apartment that over looked the courtyard. The exposure from the morning sun warming her bare legs.

He felt paralyzed at the window as he watched her set her laptop on the patio side table and pull it close to her chair. It's where she loved to sit and write on warm sunny mornings.

Images of being there with her, sitting at her feet reading as she spun her erotic tales started to flood his thoughts. Memories of her reaching down to him every now and then to run her fingers through his hair. Pulling his head closer to her legs and wrapping them around him. Him slowly moving up kissing her inner thighs as he traveled. Knowing between her writing and the sensations he was giving her she was lost in her story.

Standing there against the window his cock grew as he remembered her smell, her taste and her touch. How her voice sounded, her moans increased and her breath became staggered when he buried his head against her mound, his tongue lapping and teasing her folds. "Gently boy." She would whisper to  him. The tapping of her fingers on the keys would begin to slow until he felt her lean back in her chair, her hands now circling his head. "Fuckkkkk",  softly falling from her lips.

He realized he was leaning against his window, his left hand around his dripping cock. The thought of quickly getting dressed and going to her was stopped as he heard her laughter flow up from her patio. He saw a hand reaching towards her, handing her a cup. The frame of a young man appeared and knelt beside her at her feet.

He watched as she wrapped her legs around him and felt an explosive orgasm rush through him imagining it was him there once again.




Saturday, March 7, 2015

Saturday Eye Candy Bonus! ~ The Boy!

The boy came home and saw today's post about him and as I suspected...he has no problem with me showing him to the world!  ;) Except his face of course. So Ferns you can stop tapping your fingers on the table. :)

I present The Boy:

Probably the most modest image I have of him. 


When he sent me this, I had a strong urge to tie his hands behind his back, hook him to a leash and pull him behind me all day at work. 


Just look at that perfect ass!


Hand on cock.  He knows me well. 

Saturday Eye Candy!

To celebrate Saturdays and that we all need a diversion or two, here are a few of my a favorite Eye Candy today from my tumblr site Sexual Destinies!

Recently I was contacted by a gorgeous sub boy who confessed to following my Tumblr and this blog for the last 8 months. (How many more lovely sub boys are out there doing the same? I always love hearing from those who follow me and learning how my writings have affected their lives.) He reached out to me after all this time because he is being relocated for work and is moving to my area. Hmmmmm We have been in contact everyday, emails, texts and in my quest to get to know him better he has flooded me with pictures that get this mistress's hands very itchy to explore all that has been revealed.

At first I felt at a disadvantage. He has had 8 months to journey through my most intimate thoughts and erotic musings. But it's also freeing that he knows my likes, dislikes etc and how they line up with his. This is not the first time I've been contacted. But it is the first time from someone who is moving to my location and as the days go by seems to have the potential to deliver what I've been looking for in a sensual submissive man. He's gorgeous, brilliant, articulate, romantic, sensual and devilishly slutty! Makes my pussy and heart swoon just thinking about what may lie ahead!

So in honor of the delicious boy coming into my life I'm posting images today that closely resembles those he has sent to me. They also closely resemble him! And who knows...maybe in the future if all works out you'll have the pleasure, as I have, of gazing upon his arousing frame. ;)


Wickedly handsome!


Beautiful offering!


Sensual and confident!


And yes.....tremendously slutty!  ;)

Saturday, February 21, 2015

Saturday Eye Candy!

To celebrate Saturdays and that we all need a diversion or two, here are a few of my a favorite Eye Candy today from my tumblr site Sexual Destinies!

Today is about submission and the motivator behind it. For some men, it's the objectification. For others into pain it's the endorphin released causing the rush they crave. Then there are those who desire to please even at their own discomfort at times. Many forms and motivators of submission. The important factor is that both dom/top and submissive/bottom understand the why and take the journey together. It's the understanding and authenticity that gives both parties involved the rush and pleasure they seek.


This is from the TV show Elementary. The male lead is a kinky masochistic detective and the woman his business partner. What is incredible about this gif is the look on his face as she is tending to a wound on his back. I haven't seen this scene yet but knowing the story line, he's an clean heroine addict so would not take anything to numb the pain of what she is doing.

Look at his facial expression! There's contentment, then a hint of a smile as he anticipates the coming pain, then the pain and deep breath as he licks his lips and bites in pleasurable agony! He is lost in her touch and sucking every detail of what she is doing to him. This is what makes me wet! Gawd!

Authenticity!


The desire to please.


Objectification.

Thursday, February 12, 2015

He Watched Her Play.


"Put my bag over there by the small table. Strip and bring me your collar and leash." 

He didn't like pain. Never liked pain or punishment. His only desire was to serve her, love her, cherish and worship her. Plant his body at her disposal even if it meant that privately there would be times she would inflict some pain on him. He was there to service her, love her, watch her and be owned by her. 

She had planned this night with another. She always had others that she played with publicly. And for months now had one primary that she was training. He needed pain, needed to be broken...she was drawn to give him all he needed. The discovery of what lied beneath the tough exterior of a man always brought the sadistic side of her out. But he had never watched her with another. Was uncertain of the reaction it would cause deep inside him. 

Work had kept him away from her and unexpectedly this night had opened up for him. So he tagged along. To serve. To finally watch. 

He placed her bag on the table and began removing his clothing. It was his first time disrobing in public. Out of the corner of his eyes he could see others busy talking, playing, lost in their own desires. A few were off to the side looking their way. He pushed their faces out of his mind and concentrated on why he was there. To watch. 

Naked, exposed he walked to her with collar and leash in hand and knelt before her. She leaned into him and placed the collar around his neck. The smell of leather from her black leather corset mixed with her own scent drifting from between her legs made his heart yearn for her touch. She clicked the leash to the ring on his collar and pressed his head against her crotch. Her fingers running along his shaved head. 

"Be a good boy and serve me well." She whispered in his ear and kissed his cheek. Then she turned toward the naked man she had tied to the cross before her. 

He soon found that would be the last of her attention towards him for the next few hours. With the exception of taking and handing her whatever implement she desired to use on her boy before her, her focus was on that man and his own heart rushed with longing each time she touched him tenderly between the assaults against his flesh. 

He watched as her hands would gently glide across the cheeks of his ass. Warming them, preparing his flesh for more. 

He watched as her fingers moved from his shoulders down his back leaving a trial of nail impressions behind. 

He watched as she swiftly moved the flogger across his skin as he flinched with each strike and muffled the sound of his pain. 

He watched her press her body firmly against his and reach around to twist his nipples, run her hands along the shaft of his cock and gather his balls into her hand. 

He watched as she whispered into his ear things that caused his body to sigh and surrender even further to her. 

He watched as the intimate scene between them continued to unfold. His mind fighting back his own insecurities that maybe he's not enough for her. He tried not to follow the thoughts that started to compare himself to the one on the cross that had her interest. Did she enjoy touching him more? Was the boy's cock more pleasing to her than his own? His own cock, aroused and yearning for her touch and attention. 

He closed his eyes for a moment trying to center his emotions and felt her hand on his shoulder. She reach for his chin and raised his lowered head. She pressed the flogger into his hand and he exchanged it for the crop. She ran her hand again over his head and down to his cheek. "Soon." She softly whispered and turned her attention back to the boy.

He watched and reminded himself that pleasing her was continually his goal. 

He watched and knew all that was being built up inside her would soon be released on him. 

Content... He watched her play. 



Friday, January 9, 2015

Earned Surrender.


I sometimes consider time my enemy. But when it comes to developing a relationship, time is my friend. When elements of D/s are part of that developing stage, time really is my friend! I seek intensity, passion, knowledge of a man's soul and desire for my company. There is nothing casual about how I go about developing a relationship. It's an investment of my time and energy both of which are highly valuable! And he should feel the same when it comes to his investment in me.

I have lost track of how many times I have heard of the shallow connection that couples allow to infect a once passionate union. The heat that brought them together has cooled under the weight of living day to day under bills, raising a family and commitments they have made to others. A faded memory takes the place of the hunger that never seemed to be satisfied, always leaving them continually hungry for each other. In that vacuum fantasies rise and the human heart longs for capturing once again a fire that makes them feel alive. Unless there is acceptance and love creating a safe place to share those fantasies a heart will search elsewhere. Such is the need of the human soul to feel passion and desire. With age comes the knowledge that true intimacy is being fully known. To be known is to be vulnerable and embraced completely.

To be vulnerable and embraced completely takes time. That's why time in that environment is my friend. Vulnerability needs to be on both sides. A dominant learning the communication style of her submissive and willing to be vulnerable in expressing her desires, needs and unfolding expectations. I say unfolding because each relationship is unique and for me the expectations evolve over time as the knowledge of each other increases.

All of this sets the foundation of Earned Surrender. Mutual respect and trust is the corner stone on which that foundation is laid. Pleasing one another, exploring and discovering the treasures, dark caves and bright spots. Seeing the weakness that lies in us all and embracing it with strength. As a dominant knowing there will be many times I want him to rise up and hold me, run his knowing hands over me, inside me and claim me as his own during times of emotional struggles on my part. The humanity between us never forgotten.

He feels my mouth, hands and fingers exploring him inside and out. His body reaches up for my touch begging me for more; to own him more, to take him more, to claim him more. My need for him grows as he opens up physically and emotionally filling my soul with his light and darkness. His revealing eyes express what many times his mouth is unable to speak.

This is the reward of time well spent. An ongoing surrender of souls between two and a commitment to keep the passion fresh with intimate knowledge.

Beautiful!

Sunday, December 28, 2014

Canadian Mist, Eggnog, Ginger Ale and You.




The smooth taste of his holiday concoction was still lingering on my tongue. Canadian Mist, Eggnog and Ginger Ale...surprisingly good and went down far to well. I could feel the warmth soothing me inside. It was cold and windy outside, but we had built a fire in the fireplace and mellow music played in the background. Low lights, candles, the evening was just right for seduction. I took another sip savoring the delicious taste as it past my lips. I held the glass with both hands, pressing it against my chest and closed my eyes.

"It's good. Really good."

I heard him get up from the couch and walk up behind me. I almost lost my balance as he pressed his thighs against mine. My knees buckled for a moment but he caught me with his hands over my hips and pulled me into him. He nuzzled his mouth into my neck then began kissing up to my ear and whispered, "How good?"

I started to answer when his left hand slipped down and covered my crotch. "Not as good as you." I whispered back.

My right hand slipped behind me and found the bulge of his cock through his pants. However strong he had poured that drink, my mind was drifting in slow motion. All I seemed to want to do was concentrate on his touch and what my hand was fondling. Both of our hands made their way to touch skin. He was hard and slick and I was on my way to soaking through my panties.

"Let's go to bed." He whispered again in my ear.

That brought me back from my haze. I was not about to go into the bedroom as of yet. The living-room was perfect for drawing out the build up between us. I wanted him hotter, lost in lust and forgetting his name.

"No." I turned around, his hand sliding out of my pants. "I want to play here first. Go to the couch."

He laid down on his back as I finished off my drink. I straddled his legs and could feel the warmth of the whiskey rise again. With the fire crackling in the background and soft sultry music filling the air, my nerve endings throughout my body were heighten and I wanted to take my time touching him, undressing him...getting him lost in me. Both my hands moved over the fabric of his pants along the outline of his hard cock. His eyes were steady on me and there was a rhythm between us in our movements. He was tracking right along with me. His eyes locked on mine and his body moved slowly under my touch. The world faded away as I sensed this union of body, soul and spirit between us. I wanted to swallow up every delicious moment.

"Fuck..." He sighed. His head falling back against the arm rest of the couch, eyes closing. I pushed his shirt up to reveal his stomach and that trail that led to my paradise. My fingers lightly traced the muscles outlined before me, my arms moved across his bulge not losing contact. His flesh was warm and welcoming. Bending forward my lips met his skin and kissed every line and curve. I could feel the pulsing of his buried cock beneath me.

The rhythm between us continued. I moved back down to retrace his imprisoned cock and proceeded to unzip to set him free. Slowly the zipper moved down, my left hand covered the shaft that was now appearing. I held my hand over it and paused. I watched his face tighten as he tried to will me to set him free. His shaft was warm and hard beneath the silky flesh. I licked my lips and moved my mouth up his cock until the head was free and pressing against my lips.

"Open your eyes."

He lifted his head and again locked his eyes on mine. The head of his cock was covered in pre-cum, glistening. My hands moved to his hips and instinctively he raised his body for me to easily lower his pants, removing them completely. I watched as his cock pulsed up and down. The beauty of his hunger always increasing my own. I removed my sweater over my head and moved again up his thighs, my skin brushing against his. His balls fit nicely in my one hand and I pull them down. His cock bounced up toward me with each tug. My fingers collected pre-cum from his shaft and smeared it along his awakening anus. I continued to work his balls in my one hand as the middle finger from my other worked easily inside him. He was so open, so surrendered, so giving to me. Moments passed as I watched sensual pleasure wash over him. I moved up his frame until he felt my breasts surround his shaft and his hips moved trying to burrow in deeper among them.

I lingered there. No words between us. Only the sound of the fire and music filling the room. I felt suspended as our eyes spoke what our bodies desire. My right hand reached and touched his left cheek. The scruff on his face creating an arousing friction against my palm. My fingers moved up and wrapped themselves in the midst of his tousled hair.  My mind trying not to plan ahead, but to be present in the moment. My stomach moved over the tip of his cock and his legs wrapped around me, pulling me closer. As I moved near his face with my breasts, his eyes closed and mouth opened. The corners turned up in sweet anticipation. I traced one nipple along his eager lips.

My god...how I love tormenting that man!



Friday, December 26, 2014

When Your Power Flows to Me.




I approach our bedroom and pause before I enter. You're kneeling on the bed on all fours with ass beautifully position for the taking. You've been patiently waiting as I finished up some writing knowing it always takes longer than I had imagined. What was suppose to be 15 minutes at the most turned into an hour. Not a word from you and I wonder what has been playing in your mind while you knelt in preparation. Was it the thoughts of how many other times you had to wait and then what followed as I finally arrived?

I walk over to the bed and pick up my harness that's lying to your left. I hear you sigh and watch a shudder dance across your skin as you hear me slide it on and pull the leather straps through the rings. Before the final tightening I insert the cock you have advanced to. The biggest one you've handled. It's been lying to your left above your head but within sight. Has it been calling out to you with memories...I wonder.

Harness and cock secured, I grab some oil and dribble it along your spine down to the crack in your ass, then catch it as it falls and begin to warm your balls and cock with my hands. I crawl up along your back and you can feel the hardness of my cock pressing against you.

"Tell me boy, what have you been thinking while you've been waiting?" I whisper in your left ear. My tongue circling around it's borders; my warm breath sending shivers down your spine.

"You Miss. I've been thinking about you Miss."

"And..."

"And what you want to do to me."

I press my hips harder against you, the base of my cock pushing against your opening. "And what do I want from you boy? Tell me clearly."

"You want my strength Miss. You want to fuck me and take what belongs to you." Even now I can hear the trepidation in your voice. I know the anticipation has been building. Anxiety and apprehension heightening your sensations.

I lift up and now only my free falling breasts brush against your back. I move them back and forth in the midst of the oil. Enjoying the warm slick feeling between us. Your body finds its own rhythm and your ass reaches up to me in hunger. I feel your surrender start to flow. I move back, my hands following your beautiful lines down to your round cheeks. My thighs now pressed against yours, I take more oil pouring it down your crack and some along the head and shaft of my cock. My thumb presses against your opening. You lift up to reach it and I hear you whisper something.

"Yes boy? You said something?" My cock now teasing your hole.

"Please Miss. Please fuck me." There's moaning mixed in with your words.

One push and the tip pops in. You sigh and take a deep breath. I pour more oil along the shaft. "Come to me boy. Bring yourself to me."

I place my hands along your cheeks and open you wider. You grab the sheets in front of you for balance and gingerly push yourself down engulfing the cock. I wait for a moment letting your muscles relax against the invading object. Then slowly I start to move. In. Out. Building the sensation that begins to resonate through your body. I lean against you and reach around to grab your hardening cock. My hips and thighs rocking, my upper body barely touching you but enough that you feel my breasts brushing your back with each of my movements. My mouth only a few inches from your ear. Your body melting into mine. I sense your total surrender.

"You're a greedy little bitch, aren't you boy." You only respond with more moaning. Finally a "Fuck, yes Miss." Slips through your lips.

As I feel the heat increasing from your body and the slickness from your pre-cum sliding along my hand as it moves along your cock, I take in the power you release to me with your surrender. With each push into your inner regions I own more of you. Mark more of you. Understand and thrive off of you. I kiss the back of your neck before taking it in my hand and bring your head back to touch my mouth.

"Yes. A fucking greedy little bitch, but you're mine."



Friday, November 14, 2014

Leading with His Cock in Tow!

                                        I love how she wraps her hand around him.

It gets them every time. At least those that have been in my presence. Walking behind me. Gingerly; awkward in their steps; feeling off balanced as my hand is wrapped around their cock and towing them behind me. Always amazed that they willingly follow along. Being pulled by their manhood. Feeling vulnerable, overtaken and directed. Along with loving the feeling of being used, desired and objectified.

Come with me pet. I have plans for you and this cock of yours that truly belongs to me. Doesn't it pet? Belong to me? To tease, arouse, deny....all for my pleasure.

Stop talking and come with me. 


Don't back up on me pet. I'm just warming up.....


Saturday, November 8, 2014

Saturday Eye Candy!

To celebrate Saturdays and that we all need a diversion or two, here are a few of my a favorite Eye Candy today from my tumblr site Sexual Destinies!

It's been a blur of a week. It flew by and that is clearly obvious since I didn't post all week!  But trust me... It was a lovely week. ;)


I'm feeling playful...Join me? 


This reminds me of a beautiful man that is close to my heart. 


Firefighters ... Don't let them fool you. They are submissives in wolves clothing.  ;)

Thursday, October 30, 2014

Finding Shelter in the Shadows.



When I think of shadows I think of someone being guarded from the light. From the heat of discovery...but yet feeling the indirect warmth of the sun against his human form. Not quite hidden. There are small parts of the body visible, but only a trained eye could make it out. He feels safe there in the shadows, but also somehow involved in the activity he seeks. Vicariously he lives through his imagination, projecting himself into a reality of what is before him. Soon the watching isn't enough and vocally he makes himself known. Inch by inch he moves slowly into the light. He's encouraged by a hand reaching out to him, offering assistance and direction.

He's lived so long with his fantasies that the light of exposure to his nature unmasked to another is frightening. Some find the compatible guide for their need and a journey begins of self discovery and acceptance. Some never find that guide. Others rarely leave the shelter of the shadows. The existence of the later group is lonely and their true identity hidden from the world. Those are the ones who put themselves in danger because they become a victim to the need and desire that continues to build until they rush out of the shadows with reckless abandon looking for any fix; at whatever cost. Later with head hanging down and soul empty they crawl back into the shadows. Any satisfaction dissipates quickly as once again humiliation and disgust settles in with the reality that they have placed themselves in danger for what they consider a base need. When the sun starts to set, the temperature in the shadows drops farther then it does for the rest of the world. So it seems. Isolated, cold and alone they swear never again to risk exposure. But their history knows better. There will be another time.

Some call these marks of life the traits of addiction. In this case sexual addiction. Is there really such a thing? Could the truth possibly be that not all people fit into what society calls the social norm? And that while trying to 'Fit In' they lose themselves? They already feel an outsider and fear keeps them from risking more rejection in seeking those who would accept them. Is this why the shadows are more desirable than speaking and discovering truths? More desirable than seeking those in their lives that would give them a secure place to dwell in the sun light? Is this not what a healthy life is about? To seek those who will say, "I accept all that you are and you are welcome here" ? Is that not the premise of an alternative lifestyle? And why do we even need an alternative? Who has defined 'normal'?

Communication without judgement, listening and hearing others; that to me is the sunlight. Openness, acceptance, wisdom, learning and the understanding of why we are the way we are; these are the true treasures of wealth. Finding a place to live a life full of the true expression of who lives within us. This kind of freedom releases creativity and brilliance because the whole person has emerged. Is that not a desire common among mankind? And if it isn't? Why isn't it?

Some say it is brave to think and live that way. I say life is too short to not live your own life. If you don't discover and live the fullness of who you are, who will? The world is waiting for YOU to show up. With all your beautiful flaws and uniqueness. Not a carbon copy of others. But YOU. Let's be brave together. Let us help each other out of the shadows.


Comfort ~ Acceptance ~ Wholeness

Wednesday, October 15, 2014

Finding You Beside Me....


It had been a restless night. The pattern of sleeping alone suddenly disturbed by any minor movements of your body next to me. The intensity of our relationship over the several months since we had met was still swirling through my being leaving trails of questions mixed with arousal on how long would the fire between us burn. "Hush", you would whispered to me at any sign of doubt rising. "Hush, baby, hush", you whispered in my ear and kissed your way back to my questioning mouth. "Hush". Then drawing me tighter into yourself.

Throughout the night I felt you reaching for me, your hands grasping at my breast as you wrapped yourself around me...enclosing me in your desires. Me whispering in your ear, "I want you sleeping inside me."; my words awakening your body to fulfill my hunger for you. Your cock slipping between my legs and finding it's home inside me once again. Me remembering as I back up into your warm body that only a few hours before it was you backing up against me as I took that beautiful ass of yours again.

And now morning has crept into our room threatening to shorten our time together. I slowly rise out of bed so not to disturb you. You continue to sleep in peace. I watch the shadows form and move over you lying naked, sunlight peering through the blinds. I study your half open sleepy mouth and smile at how it lavishly poured out attention from my neck, to my shoulders, breasts, hips and finally along my inner thighs until I pushed your head into me and felt that wet mouth and tongue pressing once more against my pussy. I memorize every part of you as my mouth starts to water and my need to taste you rises to cloud my judgement.

You shift in the bed and reach for me, eyes half open, "Baby?"

"Hush". I respond sliding in beside you. My hand finding it's way to your semi hard cock and warm balls. I wrap my hand around them and gently tug. "Hush, baby. Hush."

Morning can wait.