Pegging Prep for Virgin Territory.

Arrived in CA last Monday around noon.  That gave NB and I lots of time throughout that day and into the next morning to get reacquainted. He was glowing and grinning when he picked me up at the airport.  It was nice to see his desire, lust and passion for me had returned. To ensure his reaction to my arrival was stirring....I had quickly changed before meeting him into a black and white pattern dress with a pleated skirt that would move with the slight wind that was blowing. Once in the car and driving to where we would stop for lunch, NB moved his right hand over to my left bare thigh, squeezed and slowly made his way up my leg. I smiled and leaned back in my seat knowing to his delight what he would find. He moaned as he found no panties.  I was bare, warm and wet as his fingers found their way home, caressing my sex and then slipping inside me.  NB is a big man with big hands and long, wide, soft fingers. His skin is like velvet and when they find their way home deep inside me I instinctively wrap my warm folds around them never wanting that wonderful feeling to end.  There is a chemistry between people that can either repel or attract.  The chemistry between us has always been incredibly strong.  His touch, where ever it lands on or inside me is a feeling as if my body has waited for him all my life.  Waited, longed and yearned for his touch.

We left for Vegas Tuesday afternoon and arrived around 6pm.  The next few days were filled with his business activities, sight seeing for me and losing money at the slots!  And lots of food!  We tend to eat more when on trips!  Don't we all.  Each night was filled with our intimate sexual activities and not falling asleep until 4am.  All along, in the back of my mind, was pegging!  He didn't know what I had planned and I was waiting for the right time when I knew he would be relaxed and ready to follow my lead.  Wednesday night we decided to stay an extra day.  We were tired and just wanted to sleep in and spend the next day leisurely together then take in a show that night, heading back to CA on Friday.  I smiled with our decision knowing this would fit perfectly into my plan! :)

Thursday morning arrived and we woke up around 9am after another late night of play.  NB was warm and relaxed with no meetings or calls to attend to. We snuggled our warm, naked bodies together as his head rested on my breast, his mouth finding its way to its nipple.  While he happily suckled and me running my fingers through his hair I brought up my plan.  I knew he was in the perfect frame of mind to accept.

"Baby...Do you remember our talks about how much I need to have all of you?"

"Mmmmmm...yes." He mumbled through his filled content mouth.

"I know it makes you nervous when I talk about taking your beautiful ass... but god, how I need to do that." I kept holding him close to my breast, while still running my fingers through his hair. "I need to have all of you.  I crave to have all of you. I need to see you surrender everything to me. Trust me with your most vulnerable, intimate parts."

"Mmmmm...." He kept suckling and holding me tighter for security, but nodding his head in agreement.

"But you need to be prepared before I take you with my strap-on.  I need to train you to relax so that you can fully enjoy it when I do."

He let go of my breast and wrapped his arms tightly around me.  I was already drifting into a very lovely Domme space feeling his surrender melting around me.  A rush of warmth flowed over me as NB moved from lover to submissive and I as the woman he worshiped.  As he went into the bathroom to wash and prepare for his new adventure I got out my supplies to lay on the night stand.  Gloves, lube, (pineapple), anal plug with insert-able bullet, condom for plug and combination cock ring and harness.  Although I had wanted to be dressed in my Domme attire, I didn't want to give him time to lose the space he was now wonderfully in or the feel of the moment.

I first had him lie on his back.  I laid over him, resting my body against him, holding his face in my hands, kissing, loving and relaxing him as I slowly moved down his body with reassurance that all will be well.  I reached for the cock ring and harness and slipped the ring over his member. NB has big balls, which I love, and it was a challenge to gather them up and get the harness around them. But after multiple tries I finally was able to click it together on the last snap.  My hands moved around his thighs, along his inner thighs and then along his shaft and balls.  Massaging, licking, sucking, enjoying what was laid out before me. NB laid there watching, breathing and responding with soft moans.  I then told him to roll over onto all fours and display himself for me. As he did I reached for the lube, gloves, anal plug and bullet.

His head was down, cradled in his hands, legs spread, ass up and waiting.  Before I did anything more, I ran my hands over his smooth ass, kissed it, gave it soft bites and ran my hands over the small of his back and cheeks again.  I was in a very happy place.  Seeing him present himself to me. Willingly, desiring to bring me pleasure. I poured some flavored lubed down along the crack of his ass and rubbed it in, making sure it ran all the way to his opening. I smoothed it into his cheeks and down along his crack just brushing along his opening, teasing and loving every moment. Also letting the lube drip along his balls that were hanging and massaging the lube into them while reaching up to his shaft and sliding my hand along his flesh.  I reached for the glove and maneuvered my hand inside and grabbed more lube. After pouring more along his crack to his opening, I began to massage his opening with one of my gloved fingers.  He was so tight!

"Baby, breathe...relax and concentrate on how you feel. Get lost in the sensation of feeling."

"Yes." He softly replied with his head still buried in his hands.

I took my time.  Just as I told him I would.  Slowly I worked my finger around and around until he started to relax and finally one finger was able to slip in.  OMG...So tight!  I thought to myself, I hope I'm able to even get the plug in at all.  But I kept at it.  I was determined to achieve what I had set out to do.  To have him completely surrender to me. Finally two fingers and I knew he was ready.  He felt so good.  So tight.  I put the condom over the plug.  (I always do whether its a plug or the dildo for my strap-on...It makes clean up so much easier!)  Because it came with the insert-able bullet it had a nice hole I could put my finger into to guide it along inside him.  Love it!  Slowly first just the tip, then more and more.  All along I'm rubbing his cheeks, kissing them, fondling his cock and balls, asking him how he is doing and telling him what a good job he is doing and how happy he is making me. Then finally... it's all the way in as he moans with the sensation.  I grab the bullet and insert it into the plug and push the button to turn it on.  A small low hum is heard.

More moaning as I move the plug in circles inside him and in and out hitting every nerve found there along with his prostate.  I kissed and nipped at his round cheeks while I continue to fondle his cock and balls.  I then had him clench his anus muscles and had him move on to his back, keeping the plug in place. I reached down and found it had started to slip out a little and gently moved it back in place.  Now on his back I could see his face and really tease and play with him. His nipples are very sensitive and I had a great time pinching, rubbing, biting and sucking on them while I continued to fondle him.

I had this wonderful playground before me and enjoyed every inch of it!  Not wanting to over use his canal the first time I finally removed the plug gently from his hole and removed the cock ring and harness. I was so wet and ready for him.  I needed to feel his power and strength around and through me. I climbed on top of him as he thanked me for being so gentle. We kissed, touched, explored the landscape of each other and made love.  His vulnerable surrender still washing sweetly over me.

The preparation for those who are not sure how they'll feel about pegging is vital in earning their trust. Now NB is relaxed and very open to me exploring his opening anytime we play and I look forward to when he comes to visit for the holidays because he's coming to me and I'll have everything with me.  Harness and all!  I'm excited to take this next step with him.

My ex-sub was experienced with anal play, so I never had to do any prep with him and we had a wonderful time.  There are many men who have no problem with this kind of sexual play.  But there are those whether they be Dom or sub who have their own reasons for saying no, or are nervous when you bring it up. It's exciting to me when you have a partner who at first was reluctant and now through the trust of your relationship agrees and you have the opportunity to open another world to them.  Expanding the pleasures to share with one another.  Damn I find that exciting!

Cheers for more men who love pegging!!!!

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Preparing for Pegging Adventures!

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Early Monday morning I fly out to meet NB in CA, then we drive out to Vegas on Tuesday for some business he has there, back on Thursday to CA and home again for me Friday. We have some light plans.  I know we'll take in a show while in Vegas and have lots of time for play and probably little sleep!  We tend not to sleep much when we are together!  I believe it's all the time we spend apart and his surprise when he wakes in the middle of the night and finds me there next to him. He immediately goes into explorer mode and I'm his treasure. But I have some surprises for him on this trip. We've talked about 'pegging' before. The topic intrigues him, excites him and makes him very nervous.  I love it!  We never seemed to have the time to get to it in the past.  And I'm going through major pegging withdrawals! The last time was back in June with my ex sub!

The problem for me is flying with my harness etc....in my luggage.  I've had friends who had their's taken during baggage inspection! When I fly, I hide my toys and what small amount of rope I bring (mainly para chord) all through my luggage to hopefully not draw too much attention from those 'elves' who go through your bags without you being there to make sure all contents are put back! I'd be livid if my harness was taken!  I like a sturdy harness that moves well with me and I paid good money for mine! So the harness will have to stay behind and the official pegging ceremony will have to wait until December when he flies out to see me for the holidays. But there are many other ways to prepare his virgin ass until then.  (*Big Smile*)

NB is still going through some personal transition time and hasn't been too open lately or feeling very playful.  (I'm looking forward to when he bounces back full time to the man I fell in love with.) So I'm hoping with all my preparation plans I have for him plus some other intriguing surprises, that it will help him find his mojo again.  Nothing like him seeing me in fishnet stockings, corset and toys in hand for him to rise to the occasion!  Oh...and lots of lube!

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Vanilla Pets and 50 Shades

Since NB has come back into my life I've had to re-evaluate some of my pets and see who will fit with our cuckold dynamic and who needs go their own way.  One of my pets that I haven't talked much about is Cub.  Cub is an adorable young man (hence the name Cub) that I met about 5 months ago and have had a few intimate lovely times with over those five months.  As adorable as Cub is, he's very vanilla.  The most Taboo thing he has ever done is to be with an older woman - me. He prefers older women and there were a few before me, but he had no idea what he was walking into that first time we met for coffee and his lovely cock was telling him already he needed me.

After many months of talking, I finally agreed to come to his place and it was very exciting.  He was filled with anxiousness, anticipation and a bit intimidated that this woman who was coming over knew what she wanted and how to go about getting it.  He had always been the one in the lead and I intrigued every little horny part in this young man.  After his nerves calmed down with his first orgasm...he settled into the role of a gracious lover and all was well by the time I left.

The second time we met I tried to introduce him into some very light bondage.  Now I love bondage, and wrapping rope around a very athletic, manly frame.  All along I had been talking with him, slowly easing him into more alternative ways of looking at sexual intimacy and his curiosity was there.  I went slowly to not set off his fight or flight mode and overload his vanilla cortex.  I was willing to put in some time to bring him along, hoping he would eventually find those triggers that make BDSM real, authentic and so satisfying!  Well although he looked wonderful in the body harness I had him wrapped in...I could tell it was doing nothing for him, which in turn does absolutely nothing for me!!!!  Ugggggg!!!!   I left that time already mentally crossing him off my 'pet' list feeling that it just was not in his wiring to step beyond his comfort level.

Then NB came back into my life and suggested I needed to give Cub one more chance and see how he would respond to the cuckold dynamic.  Ha!  I laughed!  "He'd run to the hills!"  But that same day Cub sends me a text...horny, hungry and wanting.  Hmmmmm.....

So last night I grabbed some paracord, massage oil, apricot lube and a butt plug just in case this cub was feeling adventurous and off I went to his place.  Now we had been discussing all day about anal play, which he had no experience in.  Another disappointment to me and my lovely strap-on!  But if I could relax him enough I wanted to be prepared with the plug.  ;)  Also I was going to tell him about NB and how things were going to be now and gage his reaction for possible future play.

The evening was all about getting him into a very submissive state, which didn't take long. I love having him strip before me while I'm still dressed, then walk around him and examine how well he has been treating himself.  After some bites and strong slaps on those round hard ass cheeks he has, and running my hands along his sides, down his chest and inner thighs I led him, cock in my hand, to his bed.   After binding his cock and balls with my paracord, oiling up his young frame and much torturous teasing and edging and finally bringing him to a place of climax it was time to talk about what laid ahead.

This is where 50 Shades of Grey comes in!  A great opening into the direction I wanted to lead him.  I asked him if he had heard of it.  Yes he had, but not read it.  I told him my take on it and how ridiculous of a book it was.  He said he wasn't surprised I felt that way, since he knew I was in the lifestyle but every other girl he knew swooned over it!  Ha! They all want to be bedded by Christian Grey!  My god... wait until the movie comes out!  What a mess!

Anyway....it was a great lead for me to explain to him more of my life and introduce the topic of NB, me and cuckolds.  I wish you could have seen his eyes and the expressions on his face.  I know his head was swimming as I lightly explained how the cuckold dynamic works for us. NB is faithful to me whereas I can have whomever I want, when I want. etc......  He smiled at that and I could see he was pondering how this could really be.

Well....after more discussion and leaving Cub with much to think about, I know it's just not in him to flow in the direction my life is taking now. Will I see him again?  I know I can, but I have no desire to.  It ran it's course.  Vanilla and kink can't walk together for very long unless one moves toward the other.  And for me vanilla was never and will never fill the need inside this Domme.

On the bright side my other pet who has been overseas (he was one of the Saturday Eye Candy shots! 8-25-12), will be home next month!  He knows about NB and is excited for the three of us to get together!  Oh he makes my heart beat so fast!  He is crazy, kinky, open and completely surrendered and willing to fill whatever place I have in my life for him. Pure music to this Domme's ears!

I leave you with this image below that reminds me of Cub's surrender last night.  He was delightful and maybe someday will come over to this side since he's had that first taste!

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Stress Reliever – Lubed Fingers

You walk in the door unsure of what awaits you.  Your only clue is that I said to ‘clear your mind’ before you opened the door to the playroom. You take a deep breath, shake your head and feel the troubles of the day roll off your shoulders and down your back.
 

You walk into the room, the lights are low and Enya is playing lightly in the background setting the atmosphere. You take this as a good sign, because you know it calms me and gets me into a wonderful erotic mood.

 

You see I have placed the upholstered bench of heavy wood, about three feet in length, equipped with a variety of restraining straps in the middle of the room.  The bench is long enough to accommodate the length of your torso from the top of your head to your pelvis. A shudder runs down your spine as you reach for the note I have left on the bench for you.

 

“I’m watching you.” You stop reading and look around the room trying to locate me. Then stop yourself, knowing that will cause trouble and go back to reading the note.

 

“You know better than to look around, pet.” You can feel the flush of heat wash over your body.

 

“With your head lowered, you are to slowly remove your shirt, then jeans, etc, place them in the corner of the room, grab your nipple chain and the cock harness on the corner table and put them on. Once on, you are to move to the middle of the room by the bench, kneel, hands clasped behind your back, head lowered and wait for me.”

 

I watch you from the adjacent room through the two way mirror I had installed during your last trip. I watch with admiration at your ability to follow my directions and your willingness to serve.  I watch your breathing;  your chest moving at first at a normal pace, then quickens as I allow 5, then 10 minutes to pass until I start to see a sheen of perspiration form on your forehead and along the middle of your chest. I know you need this. Your work load has been brutal and you need release.

My heart is also picking up its pace as I anticipate what the evening will bring. I move away from the mirror and walk through the doorway into the main playroom. You hear the click of my heels but don’t look up. You smell the faint freshness of my perfume and take a deep breath that I have arrived.

 

“Look at me.”

 

As you raise your head, your eyes travel up my legs dressed in black sheer thigh highs. Then up to my hips and torso barely covered in a black leather body harness; my cunt and breasts exposed through the leather straps. My hands are holding a chain in one hand and a crop in the other. My dark wavy hair falling loosely down my back and across my shoulders. My blue eyes piercing now into yours with deep passion and excitement. I say nothing more to you.

 

I lean my body into your chest, my bare warm breasts pressing into your face. You keep your hands behind your back as you move your face and take my right nipple into your mouth and gently flick it with your tongue, then draw the surrounding areola into your mouth.  I move the chain to the hand holding the crop and grab a handful of hair at the back of your head and move you to the left breast for equal attention. As I start to feel the wet stream of juice drip from my pussy along my thigh I push you back.  I don’t want to.  I’d rather keep you there for hours, but I have other things planned for the night.

 

I loop the crop into my harness and take the chain I’ve been holding and attach it to your nipple chain and then down to your cock harness.  I tug a little to make sure there is room for movement, but also tight enough for some strain. Your mind is already getting foggy as the smell from my pussy rises up into your nostrils.  You start to salivate and your tongue runs along your lips longing to taste my familiar juices. I reach down and with one finger swipe a trickle of juice running down my inner thigh.  You sigh as I start to move toward my mouth, but then bring my wet finger and run it across your lips. You hungrily take it into your mouth and lick the finger dry.

 

“Stand up pet. You’ve been struggling with some things deep in your soul and you need release. I know you and how to take you to that place. Will you follow me?”

 

Your brow at first shows concern.  There has been an internal battle that you thought you were dealing with. But obvious it has caused concern and is starting to build a wall between you and your Mistress. You concede to her.  You take another deep breath.

 

“Yes Mistress. I’ll follow you.”

 

“Lie down on the bench and be still.” I order and I buckle a strap around your waist. I then move to the front of the bench and utilized the ones provided on the front legs of the bench to hold your wrists, effectively binding you there. Your knees are on the floor, and I move around to the back grabbing a folded fleece blanket and slide it beneath them, ensuring your comfort, and then strap your ankles down to the floor bolts provided for that purpose. Totally exposed, ankles wide.  I run my hand slowly over your ass cheeks and warm them with my hand. Then I run my hands along your balls and shaft as they hang along the back of the bench; still attached to the nipple chain. I give the chain a slight tug and hear you wince.  

I rise and move to the front of the bench and stand, where your face is turned toward me, your mouth inches from my thighs.  I reach down and run my fingers through your hair, pulling you closer to where my pussy is just out reach from your mouth. You can smell the heat and wetness already generating from there.

 

“Are you hungry pet?” I ask softly.

 

“Yes Mistress, very hungry.” Your voice is low. 

 

“But not hungry enough pet. Let’s see if I can fix that.”

 

I remove my crop from my harness and strike the top of your ass cheeks. I move along the side of the bench running my hand along your spine and once in position I strike your cheeks again. Alternating between the left and then the right; smoothing your back and then your warming cheeks in between strikes.

 

Once they are nice and flushed, I reach for the lube on the table behind me, drop the crop and pour the lavender smelling liquid into the palms of my hands.  I rub them together as I admire your colored cheeks. I move up behind you, in between your spread legs and start to apply the lube along your cheeks, and then dribble it along your ass crack. I let the lube fall onto your balls and dribble down your hardened shaft.  I hear your moans each time you move. The nipple chain pulling mercilessly on your nipples as your cock moves and throbs.

 

I admire the cock harness enclosing your balls on all sides at the end of the bench. I see your balls tighten as I start to move my lubed fingers and rub along your anus. You tighten your opening at my first touch.

 

“Pet….follow me…relax….” I tell you in a soothing voice.

You relax your opening and let my one, then two fingers find their way inside your heated canal. I continue to rub your cheeks and then move my hand along your tighten balls.  I loosen the harness at the base of your cock a notch, enough to let it move more freely. Your hips start to buck and rock as I begin to ruthlessly fuck your ass with my fingers and run my other lubed hand along your cock.

 

“Please Mistress,” Your voice is staggered, “I long to feel you, be inside you…”

 

“Not at this moment, pet.” 

 

I find the rhythm that I know you love as my fingers move across your prostate and your pre-cum is already staining the blanket beneath us. The sweat is beading down your spine as your hips buck up again, each time pulling on the nipple chain until you can’t hold out any longer and with one last buck you cum and cum and cum all over the blanket and my heels.

I slowly remove my fingers and reach for the wipes that are on the table next to me and clean your ass and my fingers.

 

“Naughty pet!” I admonish you as I walk to the front of the bench.  “Look at my heels!”

 

Your face is still flushed as you try to refocus your eyes and look down at my feet.

 

“You’ll clean those.  But first you must take care of me.”

 

I reach for your face and bring you and my pussy together. You can see that I have soaked the leather straps of my harness and my pussy and thighs are glistening with my juices. My fingers wrap in your hair and guide you as your tongue reaches out for that first taste. My head falls back at the warmth of your touch.  I’m hungry too.

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Saturday Eye Candy!

Starting something new today!  To celebrate Saturdays and that some Saturdays I have way too much time on my hands, here is my favorite Eye Candy today from my tumblr site! http://sexualdestinies.tumblr.com/

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This image has many of my favorite elements of play with a sub or pet. 

I love watching them masturbate for me.  I love seeing how much cum they can shoot and how loud and vulnerable they can be for me.  Cuffs!  Suggesting before or after bondage!  And ass play!  It must be my sadistic nature coming out, but I love seeing a man getting and/or taking a man in the ass!  Mmmmmmm  ~ I'm happy now!