Saturday, July 26, 2014

Saturday Eye Candy!

To celebrate Saturdays and that we all need a diversion or two, here are a few of my a favorite Eye Candy today from my tumblr site! http://sexualdestinies.tumblr.com/


Today is not about the Eye Candy of their Body, but the Eye Candy of their Soul.   I love when you prove to me over and over again what a pretty little slut you are. Do it again!


Show me who you are ... again.


And again.....


And again.

Wednesday, July 23, 2014

Show me your beauty

 The lovely KP

Show me how lovely you are.  Reveal your secret desires to me. Unfold the hidden images that dance around in your thoughts and forget about your surroundings. I know they are there.  Those thoughts you've hidden from the world.  You've offered me your vulnerability, now close your eyes, breathe and feel life expand with each breath.  Listen to how your breathing changes as your skin responds to each touch of your hand. Softly, then firmly and with purpose your fingers roam over your flesh arousing, teasing as random images start to float in and out of range of your mind's eyes. 

The brush of my breath floats up your neck.  The only sound you hear in a silent room is me whispering in your ear......" Show me....."

~ Vista

I love it when they lose awareness of their surroundings!
KP

Tuesday, July 15, 2014

e[lust] edition #60 ~ Enjoy!

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Photo courtesy of Chintz Curtain


Welcome to Elust #60 -

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you're looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it'll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #60? Start with the rules, come back August 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

Shame Hurts
Of Cocks and Cunts: The Language of Erotica
 #RealBodiesAreSexy

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

I may never suck another cock, but I'm still
The sofa  

~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~

*You really should consider adding your popular posts here too*

All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!  

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

My Aftercare 
YKINMK but My Kink is Not YOUR Kink either 
Nerds, Pervs, and Jeffrey Dahmer
Sex Is Simple. That's Why It's So Complicated 
Cuckolding. The Step Child of BDSM? 
What Is A Man's Role At A CFNM?
Happily whipping Jesus 
What are your views on the ethics of kink?
FetLife and The Single Gal 
How Porn and BDSM Helped Me

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Tall guys! You're a bunch of sick perverts! 
In Which I Fuck Up and My Uterus Saves Me 
Why Is There So Much Shame?
Birds do it, Bees do it... 
Little Lower Layer 
Wooing, pursuing, romancing a dominant woman 
Sexual Freedom. Why Do I Feel I Need to Hide. 
Our Age Gap Shouldn't Be Your Insecurity 
Advanced kegel: stroking with only PC muscles
Impress your lover with these oral sex moves

Sex News,Opinion, Interviews, Politics & Humor

The Hashtag Activism...It Burns It! 
Sex Worker Etiquette 
Rant Break: SCOTUS and Hobby Lobby Rage 
Subs Need Classes Too!

Erotic Fiction

A Flight Attendants Secret 
Relentless 
Sit 
Festival car park fun
Private Performance 
And The Band Played On 
Consequences Part One

Blogging

A warning for erotic writers and sex bloggers 
Bloggy, Soggy, and Sexy

Erotic Non-Fiction

Don't Ever Make Me Wait Again 
Words

Poetry

Satan's String - a Lusty Limerick

Writing About Writing

Writing Erotica for Trans Readers Pt 1



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Tuesday, July 8, 2014

Not Any Sub Will Do.



Especially those pesky demons that hold you at bay!  You know they taunt you, condemn you and threaten to expose you!  So bring them along, and expose them, lay them at my feet. I'm not afraid and would love to see them silent before me.  BUT..... In order to do that, you must first know yourself.

Awwww... There's the qualifier! It's not enough that you want to be submissive. That you want to surrender and fantasize what kind of delicious torment I may inflict upon your yielded body. Your desire to surrender to me really is not my trigger!  There are men lined up around the block who want to do that...for themselves.  If they're honest! Your hunger for that, does nothing for me.

What moves me?  It's the torment of your demons that wrestle with you at night when the room is dark and all you can hear is your own breathing.  Images flash across the screen in your mind and try as you might to look away you find your hand sliding up and down along your shaft and give yourself to the orgasm building deep at your base and balls.  Secrets you've not whispered to anyone, let alone a woman. You cum hard and while your seed dries upon your fingers and across your stomach, you turn your head away and mumble to yourself, "That's the last time."  Your statement is weak and your demons laugh once again at your pitiful resolve.

But I see beyond them. Beyond their taunting of you and I look upon the man who longs to live fully and be accepted.  I see your strength and how they try to beat you down in shame.  Come to me. Bring those blowhards to my door and watch them snivel in the corner as I celebrate every decadent part of you.  As I set you free and we both revel in their silence!  The shame they once held over your head as a banner will now become a flag of victory in your hand. Along with me, you will celebrate who you are, how you're wired and find yourself strong, yet weak when my eyes gaze your way.

Now only I will make you tremble. Tremble with the knowledge that nothing is hidden from the one who loves to own you.



Tuesday, July 1, 2014

Cuckolding. The Step Child of BDSM?



I have found at times among the blogs I follow,  that the subject of Cuckolding seems to create the most judgmental discussions.  I am baffled why this is so.  It also baffles me why people bring it up as a topic and others chime in and condemn it when they have no professed experience or interest in Cuckolding.  I thought when I left the narrow minded vanilla world behind that I also left behind judgment and condemnation.

There are many aspects found in the alternative lifestyle of BDSM. Many things I don't understand, or have an interest in but I also know it doesn't matter what some people do together, whether it triggers me or makes sense in my world. My take has always been, if that is authentically who you are and you have found a person or people that feel the same... Hooray for you!  Enjoy!  Be happy!  What you do or don't do doesn't affect me one way or the other.  Just as what triggers me and those I chose to have in my life doesn't hinge on your understanding or opinion.  I can live with that.  Happily.

If you have followed this blog long enough then you know one of the reasons I started it 2 1/2 years ago was to shed some light and bring some flesh and blood to the subject of cuckolding.  Much of what is portrayed as cuckolding online is porn and fantasy. Hopefully what you have read here concerning the relationship NB and I had helped to shatter some of the misconceived ideas.

Bottom line.... Whatever wiring lives inside your sexual heart, it's about finding that counter-part partner that brings your fantasies to life.  It's the foundation between two unique people, their personalities, how they mix and what evolves out of that mixture.

The relationship that flourished with NB was built from the foundation of honesty, integrity, trust, deep intimacy and a love and respect for each other. Just as any other relationship should.  His demons played very well with mine!  ;)

Below are some other cuckold couples I follow and who are very different from what we had, yet the foundation is the same.  The men are always faithful.

http://mrsemmakelly.com/
Mrs Kelly's Playhouse - EM & Scott

http://mysexlifewithlola.com/
My Sex Life with Lola - HH & Lo

http://cuckoldletters.blogspot.com/
Cuckold Letters - Vanessa Chaland


Three very different blogs, yet all truthful and authentic to who they are as couples.

So, can we all agree that within the alternative lifestyle of BDSM, there are many thoughts and ways.  But as a people looking for freedom, can we please extend the same freedom and acceptance to others as we ask for ourselves.  If the subject of cuckolding threatens you some how.  Then you need to find out why.

For those I know who flourish in it....they know why it works for them.


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Sunday, June 29, 2014

Men are Hunters ... And other fables!


Let Me Make This Very Clear!

I was having a conversation with someone the other day and to his defense, he's very new when it comes to the D/s lifestyle.  We were talking about relationships, men and women and he made a comment which set me back and reminded me why I no longer associate myself with the vanilla world.  He said as a come back to some information I was sharing with him about a relationship, "Men are hunters."  It's probably good we were texting because he would not have wanted to see the look of disgust on my face when he said that.  My response back to him was, "That's BS!"

So, What the Fuck does that mean!  Really?!  The first thing that came to my mind was the 'cave man' hit woman over head and drag her away!  Or 'he needs to hunt you down, so play coy and don't be so easy to catch'.  I hate games and game playing is part of what is wrong in a society that has people living in the closet with their desires and existing in meaningless relationships because they got lost in some fucking role they thought they should play.  Men are not only hunters, but CEO's, plumbers, doctors, engineers.... It's a profession, career...nothing to do with relationships. To lump every man into that old patriarchal culture is BS!

Women have careers of many types including being hunters! I am a dominant woman and in the relationship/sexual arena I am the hunter. And whatever man I may be scoping out had better not play coy or any games with me.  I require honesty, vulnerability and surrender as they recognize who has them in their grip and why.  Male dominants can also be hunters.  It's about the wiring and makeup of the person, not the gender.

I hunt submissive men. It's who I am and who I'm attracted to. A beautiful man who is strong enough to know his desires and strong enough to relinquish his control of them to me. Not a doormat, but a pillar of masculinity longing to surrender.  He is drawn to my honesty, openness and trusts me with his secrets. Coyness and games from me are not what this man seeks.


It is I who captured you.


Be thankful that I wanted you in the first place.

Saturday, June 28, 2014

Saturday Eye Candy!

To celebrate Saturdays and that we all need a diversion or two, here are a few of my a favorite Eye Candy today from my tumblr site! http://sexualdestinies.tumblr.com/

Been a busy week, but have somethings in mind I'll be posting this week.  Until then.......


Sometimes seeing them locked in lace makes my mouth water.....


And this... Always makes my mouth water!


KP playing for me.... Yes everything waters.... ;)