Wednesday, January 29, 2014

C'mere Pretty Boi.....

I recently acquired a new follower on my Tumblr blog named Stripped Naked. He fills my dashboard with erotic, lustful, naked pics of himself in varying positions. He fires my imagination. ;) He makes my mind race on the things I'd do to him in those positions. He makes my hands want to travel up and down his lovely torso; pull, yank, tease and lick that hungry cock that loves attention. 

I want to know what goes through his mind as he dreams up his next move; his next erotic scene. Does he think about what it does to those who admire his work? 

Keep sending me your soul boi... It makes me want to reach out to you and say, "C'mere Pretty Boi. I want you to feel my appreciation." 


These pics are from the Stripped Naked Tumblr blog. 






Sunday, January 26, 2014

Why I want your cock!

Warning!  Lots of cocks below!  ;),

Many times I read how some women don't appreciate men's cock, think they are disgusting and are not, at all, interested in them.  Well ladies, all the more for me then!   I think men's cocks are magical!

I do have some terrific dildos that are ever ready for me, but the flesh, movement and warmth of a man's cock can not be compared in the long run. I'm not one for large size cocks. (We're talking anything over 8") In fact when I see one posted on Tumblr (especially those showing 10" +!)  my first thought is to back away! Some can be down right intimidating. I'd rather have a thick average cock over a long slender one any day. I want to feel full and don't enjoy having my cervix plummeted!  Just my preference.

When I'm in a relationship, that man's cock becomes even more magical for me. It seems to take on the personality of it's owner and along the way becomes addicted to my voice, touch and feel. Mmmmmmm

Below are some reasons why I want your cock!


Look how innocent he looks. 
Then with only a look, touch or lick he starts to quickly come
alive!


I love how he flops out when you go commando. 
As if he's been waiting to show his desire for me.


How in great anticipation he dances with hunger and excitement when I play with him.


And how I know he loves to be teased and feel my flesh slide across him.
Building his overwhelming desire to slide inside me. 

Saturday, January 25, 2014

Saturday Eye Candy!

To celebrate Saturdays and that we all need a diversion or two, here are a few of my a favorite Eye Candy today from my tumblr site! http://sexualdestinies.tumblr.com/

A mixture of Eye Candy today. Including maturity, ink and cocks. ;)


Maturity...Mmmmmm  
The richness that comes in those eyes.  


Overall beauty and strength.  
Receiving that from him...Priceless!


A lovely form and image.  

Thursday, January 23, 2014

Sexual Compatibility!

No matter what the relationship is: Vanilla, F/m, M/f, M/s, BDSM, D/s or any gender blend; what holds a relationship together as a foundation is friendship. Enjoying the company of the other person, even if you're just 'hanging out' doing nothing special at all. You just enjoy their company. You feel relaxed and yourself in their presence. Laughter comes easy and you are blissfully unaware of any insecurities, weaknesses and failures you may have of yourself. Mix this with sexual compatibility and you have something priceless! Friendship is the foundation but sexual compatibility is an important building block that determines how high that fortress you are building goes.

The nurturing, trust and openness that comes from a strong friendship clears the way for communication that exposes all the dark and suppressed secrets. Here is where sexual compatibility is discovered and a beautiful journey begins that can last for many years.

I know of so many couples, especially married couples, that stay together for children or financial reasons but have found that they are not sexually compatible and at least one, if not both people, are lonely and suffering in the same house. I have been there and it is the loneliest of existence. So with experience under my belt I have learned and am determined in my soul to not find myself in that situation again.  The only way to ensure that is to live an honest and authentic life.

Two people meet and lust colors their attraction and sometimes out of fear of losing the other one agrees and goes along with their wants and desires or the other holds back on revealing their wants and desires out of fear of turning the other away. Fear of revealing our true nature will eventually destroy any intimacy that has developed. Compromising our sexual needs, desires and thinking 'love' is enough will eventually leave you thirsty and hungry for what you have been denied. You are no longer validated as important.  Your voice and needs remain unheard, unmet.

We must know ourselves and be honest with ourselves and others.  It's just not worth it to hide out of fear of discovery!  Your peace, happiness and fulfillment are yours to have. Live fully as the person you were meant to be.

If you're in a committed relationship already that is unsatisfying I'm not saying to abandon the ship! You have chosen your path and need to own up to it and live it out.  But if ever given the opportunity again to live according to the truth of who you are, then do it!  Until then, be honest with the partner you have and try to make it work in all transparency.

To those who are single.... Don't ever settle. The worst thing in life is to end up with someone who makes you feel alone. It's better to be alone and true to yourself than to live half of a life. I believe that once you know who you are and what you want, that the laws of attraction kick in and bring those of the same desires into your life.

I am hopeful for the future. We are all wired sexually in a unique way. It's the magic of finding those who are wired in a complementary way that brings the level of intimacy that I at least must have! I'm a passionate soul and must have that returned in a partner, plus much more! I love this saying below.  Intimacy born out of knowing and full surrender... Mmmmmmmmm




Saturday, January 18, 2014

Saturday Eye Candy!

To celebrate Saturdays and that we all need a diversion or two, here are a few of my a favorite Eye Candy today from my tumblr site! http://sexualdestinies.tumblr.com/

So ready for Spring to come!  I know it's still months away.  But here are some colorful images to warm all your private places as we wait!


Exhausted from a full evening of play.


I love the composition and colors of this image!


Bare chests! Spring come quickly!!!

Wednesday, January 15, 2014

e[lust] edition #54 ~ Enjoy!

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~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

How children will break UK Internet filters.
Submissive, Not Passive
When Sex and Disabilities Collide

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

Tribute to a Selfie
The Pawn

~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~

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Blogging

My 20 of 2013
Hello 2014

Erotic Fiction

Call Me Maybe
To Watch...
Holiday Travails
The third message
So You Want to Worship Me...Start Here.
Three Stories Up
Men in cages
Lucky Mascot - Huddle: Sex With Sporty Queers

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Sex Toys Storage: Hiding from People
SexyLittleIdeas -11 Annoying yet Sexual Dares
His PTSD Cheated on Me
Cum
You're Art but I'm Not
Anger and intimacy
Among a Sea of Submissives
Object
My experiences with unwanted intercourse

Erotic Non-Fiction

Phoenix lies and gets herself in trouble
The Storm Behind the Calm
Why I eat your pussy
Light My Fire - Zoe Tries Fire Play
Spreading Christmas Cheer
I write a letter to The Neighbor
Humiliation
Sa'afia's punishment night (1st IV scenes)
Both ends of the spectrum
Love of Flesh; Want for Blood
First Blush
Birthday Burning

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Dear Mollena...
The Best Motivator
on liberties taken.
Submission, More Than A Feeling
Breaking Prude - The Dirty Seven

Poetry

Just Touch It
A Time To Cum

Sex News,Opinion, Interviews, Politics & Humor

Shoe Fetishism - RZ

Sunday, January 12, 2014

And When I Take You.....

You lying naked on your back upon the bed, eyes watching every move I make as I walk around its frame.  Looking, reaching out to lightly touch you; struggling against the urge to take you now instead of prolonging what we both need. I've instructed you not to speak, but to only follow my movements and respond, fully concentrating on the feel of my touch.

I climb onto the bed and kneel between your legs. With a bottle of lube in my right hand I pour a stream of its cool liquid along your shaft and balls, cupping my left hand beneath you to catch the slippery substance and rubbing it along your crack and anus. Your eyes widen and tell me you want to speak. 

"Shhhh." I remind you. "Just feel me."  

I want you lost in the sensations I'm building inside you. Lost, intoxicated, owned and ruined for any other. 

I reach for the dildo on the bed to my right and start to apply lube to its shaft and head. Your face flushes and your breath picks up as you follow my fingers gingerly preparing my instrument of ownership over you. I know your mind is flashing on previous encounters and remembering the sensation of that dildo sliding into your ass for the first time. How you at first bucked against me and your sphincter muscles resisted entrance. But then with tenderness and coaxing you finally received what you had been asking me for. Full penetration. Now you're addicted and your body already starts to prepare for intrusion as you watch me lube the cock I'll fuck you with.

"Take me. Do what you want with me. Make me yours."  Were your words and desire toward me when we first met and felt the amazing connection between us.  I wanted to take you fully then, but knew there was a process to make it worth while and leave you ruined as a result. Beautifully ruined with me forever imprinted on your body and soul. I knew then I needed you as mine alone.

With the dildo ready I run its head along your opening, teasing and coaxing it to open for me, while my left hand runs along your shaft.  My eyes are staring into yours. Watching the expression on your face as you give in to your hunger to feel it's fullness within you. You slowly relax and the head pops through your opening as you take a breath simultaneously.  

As you're getting close to the edge I pull out slowly, leaving you wanting. I wipe the dildo off, stand and slip it into the O ring in the harness firmly fastened around my hips. Your eyes still following my movements as I once again apply more lube to the fasten cock.

"Do you want me to fuck you pet? You may speak now." 

Your throat is dry, but you find the words to answer. "Yes please. Please fuck me Mistress." 

"Hard and fast or slow and tender?" I'm smiling as you know I'll do what I want.

"Whatever you want Mistress. Take me please. Fuck me please." Your voice pleading for me to return inside you.

I climb back onto the bed and position myself again between your legs. You instinctively hold your legs up to allow me easy access. With cock now attached to my harness I again take the wet head and play with your opening. This time it easily finds a welcome to the intrusion. As I slip in you moan and I press deeper until fully inside. I slowly move my hips to create the rhythm you need and your body gives itself to me. You close your eyes and I know your slipping away in pleasure. 

I lean over you while still moving inside you, my breasts pressed into your chest, I grab your throat and take your ear in my mouth. 

"Who do you belong to?" I whisper. My hand lifting away from your throat slightly for you to answer.

"I belong to you, always, forever." You whisper back, eyes still closed. 

Your body with each thrust moves in unison with mine, asking for more. We melt into each other blurring the definition between us. I continue to penetrate you feeling your cock pulsing beneath me.

"When I take you, it's forever." I whisper into your ear. 

You swim lost in your submission to me. Beautifully ruined forever.



Saturday, January 11, 2014

Saturday Eye Candy!

To celebrate Saturdays and that we all need a diversion or two, here are a few of my a favorite Eye Candy today from my tumblr site! http://sexualdestinies.tumblr.com/

A big shout out for the new publication by H. H. & Lo from My Sex Life With Lola!  'Match, Cinder and Spark! Nymphomania and the Single Girl.' The story of Lola Down, your average nymphomaniac next door. This roman-a-clef tells the story of how she and the author, H.H., survive the trials and tribulations of life with her libido. Link below to find out more!


Sunday, January 5, 2014

So You Want to Worship Me...Start Here.


You naked, after slowly shedding your clothes to fall at your feet all the while keeping your eyes upon me as instructed. Those eyes full of lust, revealing your hunger to taste what you have been dreaming about. I can feel your heart beating from where I'm standing. It sends heat waves into my soul meeting my own desire for you. Warmth generates from it's impact, washing down my skin, heightening every nerve ending.

I know you want to touch me as you stand as still as your body can before me. Your cock already twitching with a mind of its own trying to edge closer to it's own dream destination. Just watching your desire grow makes my nipples hard with excitement and the moistness that's increasing between my legs lets me know I can only hold out so long before I need your touch.

"What do you want?" The sound of my voice adds to your intoxication over my presence.

"I want to worship you Mistress. May I, please?"

I step closer and take a tuff of your hair from the top of your head in my fingers. "Then kneel pet."

Your head now facing the tops of my breasts that are spilling generously over my black lace bra. My hands surround your face and bury it between their mounds warming your cheeks with the heat you have caused to generate from them. The rhythm of my heart picks up it's pace and I press myself further into your body.

"So you want to worship me...Start here."

Saturday, January 4, 2014

Saturday Eye Candy!

To celebrate Saturdays and that we all need a diversion or two, here are a few of my a favorite Eye Candy today from my tumblr site! http://sexualdestinies.tumblr.com/

Today's images are about things I find beautiful.......


This image and it's composition...beautiful!


His smile and relax demeanor... beautiful!


The hand of a man on his cock...beautiful!

Wednesday, January 1, 2014

Hello 2014! I'm Glad You're Here!

2013 was a bumpy ride emotionally and full of a long transition.  I knew going into it that it could go either way for NB and myself.  As uncertain as things looked for us at times, I wouldn't change one bump along the road.  These are the journeys that continue to form our character and lives. But I'm so thankful that year is now behind me!

I have somethings forming in my life that are making 2014 look very promising. Too premature to share them with you now, but will share once I know their place along my journey. 2014 will be full of changes. I'm looking at ways to expand and improve on this blog and I'll keep you updated on personal changes along the way.

Some things I learned in 2013:

1. That two people can love each other deeply, openly and yet feel and realize with grace that their journey together has run it's course.

2. That with a thankful heart we can move forward knowing that who we are today and what we potentially have to offer to another was forged in the fire of what we just walked out of.  I'd not change one thing.

3. That although it seems our heart could never open or want another, that there is someone waiting just for us around the corner. Someone we never knew existed who possesses qualities we never understood we needed.

4. Life has a way of presenting us magic at any age.

May all of our lives this 2014 be filled with the surprise of magic!

~ Vista