Saturday, August 31, 2013

Saturday Eye Candy!


To celebrate Saturdays and that we all need a diversion or two, here are a few of my a favorite Eye Candy today from my tumblr site! http://sexualdestinies.tumblr.com/

Muscles, Ink, Asses and Bulges..... Enjoy !  I did choosing them!

Muscles, Ink, Ass


Muscles, Ink and a sweet Bulge


Muscles and a sweet Bulge

Friday, August 30, 2013

Why I Need Him There....



Insatiable.  I guess that word is as good as any in describing my hunger for hot, sexy men. I do love men in general.  But what gets me warm, wet and my nipples standing erect is a beautiful, hot, sexy, hungry, submissive man dripping with desire for me. I love to play with the ebb and flow of the energy between us and the resulting ravishing of each other's body and soul.  To top that all off is the psychological orgasm that builds in my mind if NB is right there to witness the exchange and maybe be forced to be involved in humiliating ways of service to prove his undying devotion to me. When he is right there, my arousal is fed by his discomfort, angst, his layers and levels of submission and increased humiliation.  Me, very much in control and him, lost in being out of control. A sharing of intimacy that goes deep into the psyche of who we are as individuals.

Along with that exchange is also the component of keeping NB off balance.  Never knowing when someone new may be walking into our lives or surprising him with an arrangement that will bring a new level of humiliation that I know will feed his submission, bringing him to levels of physical, mental and sexual torture.  Jealousy, anger, hurt and pain aren't enough to stop the arousal that takes him over the edge. He wants to pull the other man from me, yell at the top of his lungs to 'Get Out' but he can't. His own cock betrays him and drips with pre-cum as his seed fights for release.

After all is said and done there is Aftercare.  As much as I enjoy all that takes place before, it's showing NB affection, touching, kissing, holding, caring and concern for his well being that feeds and binds us together. Bringing to him emotionally and physically my love for him. He trembles under my touch and buries himself in my flesh trying to hide within me, thrusting his cock deep inside me to restore our connection. Reassuring our bond in his body, mind and soul. His warm lips wrapping around my nipple as he suckles to find comfort and nurturing from me once again. His world momentarily having spun out of control, slowly finds it's balance, settling his racing heart.

Yes, cuckolding is so much about the torment the man goes through, but it's also, for us, about the way his need feeds me. How his overwhelming desires fuel my own and empowers me in a way I have never known before. The trust NB has in me to let go of all his fears, to face what lives inside him, free from any condemnation from me, is a strength and power exchange I find intoxicating.  Honesty, transparency and the freedom to share our deepest, darkest secrets with each other and sometimes play them out... Yes... I need him there.  In the end, it's all about our love and commitment to each other.



Saturday, August 24, 2013

Saturday Eye Candy!


To celebrate Saturdays and that we all need a diversion or two, here are a few of my a favorite Eye Candy today from my tumblr site! http://sexualdestinies.tumblr.com/

I do love B/W photos.  Sometimes they bring a 'softer' side to things. I find these following pics very sensuous and full of passion.


How I feel when I hold him......


A hand placed just so.....


How I love to find him waiting for me....

Wednesday, August 21, 2013

Fire Fighters! Damn Sexy!

Well... I must admit...I adore sexy male fire fighters! They live their lives on the edge, risking their safety for ours and you just can't deny that these testosterone, adrenaline junkies need some 'on the edge' type of release!

Below are some carefully picked images from my folder from one of my FF. This is the adorable, lovely Silver Fox. I haven't written about him, but he's been in my life for over a year now. Hard to believe. Our relationship, sadly, is long distance. But we're both hoping soon that will change and the distance won't be such a problem.  And yes, NB knows all about Silver Fox.  Silver Fox is often the topic of many of NB's and my fantasies.

Silver Fox loves to be objectified, sending me many naughty pics of him in compromising positions and sharing many of his desires and fantasies with me in the dark evening hours.  Along with details of many of his threesome adventures.  : )  Yes, Silver Fox plays well with another man in the mix.  No homo-phobia with this delicious morsel!  Which endears him even more to me.

He's hungry and very submissive.  Also picky, which makes his devotion to me intoxicating.  I have his permission to post these pics and know it will make his week!  Much love to you SF!  You always warm my heart and make me smile.

XXOO ... Your loving Vista

Impressive!

Mmmmmmm

I love that ass!!!!

Just another peak at this delicious morsel!

Saturday, August 17, 2013

Saturday Eye Candy!


To celebrate Saturdays and that we all need a diversion or two, here are a few of my a favorite Eye Candy today from my tumblr site! http://sexualdestinies.tumblr.com/

NB left yesterday morning.  Having my usual domme drop.  These pretty men bring me some sunshine.


I know you've been waiting....Just a few more minutes of me studying you...


Beautiful body, cock and great Ink!


Nice..... ;)

Friday, August 16, 2013

e[lust] edition #49 ~ Enjoy!

So excited to have my post Triggers, Asses and Subby Places as a Featured Post this month! Thank you Molly!!!  Enjoy!!!!! ~ Vista


cheekyminx 
 Photo courtesy of Love Hate Sex Cake
Welcome to e[lust] - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you're looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it'll be here at e[lust]. Want to be included in e[lust] #50? Start with the newly updated rules, come back September 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!


~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

A pill for that?
When I Get Annoyed, Shit Happens.
The Dildo Wars- Dildology & Doc Johnson


~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

Sense, Sensibility and Censorship
Triggers, Asses and Subby Places.

~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~
There is no Freedom Without Risk

All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!


Blogging

Decisions, Decisions....
Voyeurism Rant About Blogger/WordPress & Host


Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

FIFTY SHADES OF GREY IS OFFENSIVE
Beautiful Rope Work - Easier than you think
Kinky Assumptions
As I promised...a singletail video!
Bootblacking
Chronic Fatigue and BDSM
NSA BDSM: Failure and Success
Supporting your dominant's dominance
How to Get Your Boyfriend to Spank You


Sex News, Opinion, Interviews, Politics & Humor

Rabbit Vibrators: How to measure for fitting
Acting! Thank You!
TItty Fucking
What's Wrong With Sexy Scientists?


Erotic Non-Fiction

Keep Me Nasty
No Safewords
Being on the Ropes
The Lead Up
My Birthday Spankings#BirthdaySpankingsforRei
More Like An Earthquake
Lessons
Stag at a sex party
A Fan of Fans
Let the rain come
Gangbang Club
The Polka-Dot Dress
Dinner for Two


Erotic Fiction

The (Not So) Innocent
Master's Bad Day
When She Comes
Summer Storm
Lolita Twenty-Thirteen, Part Seven
Eight Ball
A Hole in the Pack


Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

He hears me.
Why Doesn't She Respond to Cunnilingus?
I Don't Rape.
5 Reasons Straight Men Fear MFM Threesomes
Cap D'Adge and swinging
Boys & Their Toys
Anal Sex is Motherf***ing Awesome
Words of Wisdom
Seeing Red

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Saturday, August 10, 2013

Saturday Eye Candy!

To celebrate Saturdays and that we all need a diversion or two, here are a few of my a favorite Eye Candy today from my tumblr site! http://sexualdestinies.tumblr.com/

NB is here for the week.  :)  Enjoy these lovely creatures while I enjoy mine!


I love re-blogging this young man every chance I get!


The Coppertone Ad ... The Adult Version!


I don't normally go for blonde, pretty boys....But he has so much going on here!

Friday, August 9, 2013

It's not about Denial, but about Control.

The sound of your arousal explodes against my senses with electric feelings rushing down through my veins.  Having had you come inside me twice already in the last 30 mins; seeing you reclining upon the bed beside me, exhausted, your cock, flaccid and resting; I reach for you once again and hear your deep sigh.  You know I haven't had enough for the night.

Why would I desire to deny myself the enjoyment and entertainment of pushing you to your orgasmic edge over and over and eventually feel and hear your body scream and convulse through it's final release?  Your cock belongs to me and me alone.  I decide when it gets to enjoy the warmth of my warm tight walls wrapped around him or the feel of my mouth encasing your shaft as my tongue dances along it's long and thick length.

I love how you struggle to hold back, veins filling with blood, and eventually giving in and wondering if there is any more of your seed left to spill.  Then from a place you never knew existed inside you comes a deep roar as the last of that hidden seed finds it's way to escape out of your sensitive slit. By now you're 1/3 off the bed, grabbing onto the legs of the near by nightstand and holding on, your fingers tightly wrapped around it's legs.  You hear a scream and realize it's your own as you feel my mouth continue to move up and down your shaft and my hands pumping the last of your seed from your drained balls.

I look up at the exhaustion spreading over your face as you tell me you can't open your eyes. They've been held tightly for to long.  Why would I deny myself such a spectacular show of lust and passion. I'm too selfish to deny myself that pleasure.  And with each orgasm, I own you a little bit more.


Saturday, August 3, 2013

Saturday Eye Candy!


To celebrate Saturdays and that we all need a diversion or two, here are a few of my a favorite Eye Candy today from my tumblr site! http://sexualdestinies.tumblr.com/

This week went by so fast! Never got around to another post and it's Saturday again!  Happy August.  Hope your summer is going well.  ;)


Not sure what is up with the two watches....But great pic!


Just more beauty......And I love a man's hand on his cock.... 


Don't move!  Sit just like that.....As I study all of you....