Thursday, February 28, 2013

Transitions and Additional Heat!

This year is proving to be an interesting year so far and it seems to already be filling with many uncertainties. A lot of changes are coming my way in the next few months and NB is going through his own transition...moving across the state into a beautiful new home that eventually, if all goes well, I'll be someday occupying with him. Until then with so many changes ahead, which I dread, I need to find some stability and direction to lean on for this year. I'm a visionary and need some idea where I am headed. And with the time between my visits with NB getting unpredictable, I decided I needed to find a local lover to calm my ever hungry appetite.  Of course NB knows all about this and is supportive.  It relieves him of some measure of guilt, I suppose, in not being as available to me as I would like at the moment.  Also it feeds his cuckold wiring to know I'm looking to find another locally to warm and satisfy my needs.

A few weeks ago I started my hunt and joined a web site I thought would fit my needs.  I'm not looking to replace NB at all.  I love that crazy, kinky man as I've loved no other in the past!  But I need to find someone exciting to occupy my time while we go through the transition this year.  I was overwhelmed with the response to my ad and waded through the 300 + emails I received in the first 48 hrs.  I narrowed it down to 11 possibilities and met with them over the following weeks. I met some really fantastic men, had great conversations and finally after almost giving up hope met one that seems promising.

Taking into account my background and lifestyle it was going to take someone that had a certain erotic curiosity, openness and one that I found physically attractive and drawn to intellectually. (One whose demons would play well with mine.)  When we first met, we sat over coffee for 4 hours.  A very good sign.  We had no idea that much time had past.  We both felt very at home with each other and had many things in common. I'm bringing this up because it looks like he may be around in my life for a while and of course may occasionally be part of this blog, with his full approval.  He is reading through my blog, finds it intriguing and is looking forward to see what will develop as we go along.

For the purposes of this blog I'm calling this new man in my life RT.  It stands for some things we have briefly discussed that he is, at this time, a little reluctant to explore. ;) I think those initials will bring a smile to both of our faces.

Unfortunately he had to go out of town right after we met, but we are using this time apart to get to know each other better through email. And of course this erotic, kinky part of my life is blatantly exposed on my blog!  ;)  Gives us plenty to discuss.

So, welcome RT to my life and whatever experiences we find that we'd like to share here on Sexual Destinies. I'm looking forward to the journey.  

Tuesday, February 26, 2013

"Be still!" Taking What is Mine!

I know you're waiting for me. Still warm from the steamy shower, lying on the bed, heart racing a bit, naked and longing to feel my touch.  I approach you, wrapped in a warm soft towel and spread it and myself along your extended body. You start to reach up to embrace me and I stop your hands in mid air.  "No. Be still. Only I get to touch tonight." 

You're mine. My object of desire. My source of sexual arousal and I'm going to explore and use you for my ultimate pleasure this night. I feel your body tense up at first, knowing the self restraint I'm requiring.  We've been down this path before and it's glorious torture for you. I feel your cock twitching beneath my bare cunt and I purposely slide my mound up along your shaft. You can feel the slickness that has already formed along the folds of my labia as I share my desire for you. You close your eyes tight fighting the urge to touch me.  

My hands smooth up your torso, feeling along every line, muscle and curve. I move my body further up until my breasts are against your mouth that has opened instinctively.  I allow you to take each nipple and suckle for just a few moments, then slide my wet sex up against your mouth to taste briefly my desire for you before moving back down along your torso again.  I touch your nipples, gently at first, then twist them a bit, then bite and tease with my tongue while I reach down and stroke your longing, hungry cock. Already pre-cum is dripping from your slit.  

You start to speak, "Shh...".  I put one finger against your lips.  "Shh. Be still I said."  You moan and I smile, knowing I have only just begun.

Saturday, February 23, 2013

Friday, February 22, 2013

The Sound of His Voice

There is nothing more erotic to me and switches me from a non sexual mood to feeling the moisture starting to accumulate between my legs, then to hear the voice of a very masculine, alpha male who is in charge and in control throughout the day, slipping from that strength into a submissive, vulnerable surrender. And when the man who owns that voice is one you know so well intimately, the change can happen in a matter of mere minutes because you know just what to say to trigger his deepest need.

I've heard NB's voice calm and also stern and authoritative. I've heard him talk with clients, associates, family and servers in a restaurant  It's a confident, assured voice.  One people listen to and are sometimes entertained with.  I know his voice well.  But the voice I love the most, is the one only I hear.  His submissive voice. That one belongs to me and speaks volumes of our bond.

It's a quiet, soft and humble voice.  It speaks of surrender and respect for who we are as a couple. It's bathed in our passion and his knowledge that he has exposed himself to me in the most intimate of ways and the thought of how I know and understand him leaves him vulnerable and transparent in my sight. The simple word, "yes" leaving his lips is pregnant with surrender as his soul reaches out to me and places it's trust in my care.  His body heaving sighs of relief at my touch or the sound of my voice, leaving tension and worry at his feet.  How I love the freedom in his voice as it acknowledges the sensations washing over his frame, freely expressing to the world his pleasure.

Yes... I will never tire of the sound of his voice.


Saturday, February 16, 2013

Saturday Eye Candy!

To celebrate Saturdays and that some Saturdays I have way too much time on my hands, here are a few of my a favorite Eye Candy today from my tumblr site!

Not my normal Eye Candy, but so damn funny seeing all those legs up in the air, asses waiting to be rimmed, cocks and balls dangling! 


 Had to post this...Just because I find it very hard to pass up a good ass pic!  Enjoy!

Friday, February 15, 2013

e[lust] edition #43 ~ Enjoy!

Becks and Her Kinks
Photo courtesy of Beck and Her Kinks

Welcome to e[lust] - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you're looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it'll be here at e[lust]. Want to be included in e[lust] #44? Start with the newly updated rules, come back March 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

P.S. Thank you for your patience while we find our way around here at e[lust] if we have made any mistakes (and surely we have) we will do our best to get it right the next time around.

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~
misconceptions of dating polyamorous women
Compromise in D/s relationships
Writing Challenge - The Journey

~ Featured Posts (Molly’s Picks) ~
To shave or not to shave?
Of Human and Whore

All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Non-Monogamy and Sex Toys – Safe Sharing Tips
A Man's Case for Being an Asshole
Thyroid function and sexuality
Property Renewal
SilverHubby: "On Being Fucked by You"
Pain In My Ass
Think Different
Open vs Poly
Escaping the Individual
To shave or not to shave?

Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor
Is your sex toy review breaking the law?

Kink & Fetish
Good Boy

Erotic Writing
Take me in
A Naughty Nurse Setup!
Afternoon Delight
Sexy Single
Tender is the Night
Butch on Butch
A change of plan
Anal: The Final Frontier
When He Comes In My Mouth
Morning Surprise
Lolita Twenty-Thirteen, Part One
My dirty fantasy
The Peace of Wild Things
Camping Conquests
Collar & Lead
Eat Me
Shhh! Come Here!
The End of The World - Almost
Restraints For A Good Girl
Of Human and Whore
Silver Fox, Mynx, and the Hunter – Part VI: Take Two
A Story For Sir

Thursday, February 14, 2013

Another Big V ~ Day.

NB is on the East coast for business this week, so my Valentine Day has been very uneventful. There is always next year to hope for more improvement.

So... since I find myself alone, again, on what is suppose to be a romantic and love filled day I've decided that instead of 'V' standing for Valentine it will stand for Voyeur this year!  That makes me far happier.

So in the great Voyeur spirit of this day...enjoy this lovely morsel of masculinity!

Saturday, February 9, 2013

Saturday Eye Candy!

To celebrate Saturdays and that some Saturdays I have way too much time on my hands, here are a few of my a favorite Eye Candy today from my tumblr site!

Today's pics make me very happy!   ;)

Yes Baby, all you can wear today are your boots.  You and the boys have fun!

I love a man who smiles with contentment at bondage!

Chains!  Hot Wax!  Hot Male Frame!  I'm in!

Wednesday, February 6, 2013

Angry Sex!

Sometimes....When emotions run deep and inner struggles are too complicated to express with words, 'Angry Sex' is the best remedy.  I'm not referring to violent, land him in the hospital sex, but passionate, controlled and the "I want to fuck the shit out of you" mind set!  What better way to release all the pent up adrenaline rushing through your veins.  Getting your heart rate up, getting deliriously lost in the synergy between both of you and ending in great orgasmic release! Sweat, fury, tears...somehow catharsis for the soul.

Saturday, February 2, 2013

Saturday Eye Candy!

To celebrate Saturdays and that some Saturdays I have way too much time on my hands, here are a few of my a favorite Eye Candy today from my tumblr site!

Once again celebrating the beauty of the male form. Mmmmmmmmmm