Today is about submission and the motivator behind it. For some men, it's the objectification. For others into pain it's the endorphin released causing the rush they crave. Then there are those who desire to please even at their own discomfort at times. Many forms and motivators of submission. The important factor is that both dom/top and submissive/bottom understand the why and take the journey together. It's the understanding and authenticity that gives both parties involved the rush and pleasure they seek.
This is from the TV show Elementary. The male lead is a kinky masochistic detective and the woman his business partner. What is incredible about this gif is the look on his face as she is tending to a wound on his back. I haven't seen this scene yet but knowing the story line, he's an clean heroine addict so would not take anything to numb the pain of what she is doing.
Look at his facial expression! There's contentment, then a hint of a smile as he anticipates the coming pain, then the pain and deep breath as he licks his lips and bites in pleasurable agony! He is lost in her touch and sucking every detail of what she is doing to him. This is what makes me wet! Gawd!
Authenticity!
The desire to please.
Objectification.
