Showing posts with label Domme. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Domme. Show all posts

Thursday, June 4, 2015

In Person I Found You Very Innocent.....

"In person I found you very innocent.....different from the unspeakable things you write about." Hearing these words I immediately thought of the internet porn images of dominant females and how men, especially young men have been indoctrinated in the mind set that dominant females walk around with thigh high net stockings, corsets under their clothes and a cane and whip in each hip pocket. That we bark out commands and humiliate men in a disrespectful and degrading manner as the worms they are. My perception of the men I allow into my life is far from the image of a worm.

I'm a multifaceted woman with a full life. I work a Monday-Friday job during the day, write at night and April thru September I have a seasonal job on the weekends. My treat is connecting with my friends on Fet, perving their pics and loving their writings. I occasionally get out for some impact play with friends, networking with other doms and there's the continuous vetting of curious subs. (I have yet to find a match.)

Yes I have the corsets, thigh highs, canes etc... I love it all. What I write is inspired from my life if not taken straight from a moment in time. I have said many times, "Don't let my kindness be taken as weakness." I've been told, "You're very caring, kind hearted and gentle with a sweet voice. Respectful, innocent and passionate." My response is; Thank you. But I do question the 'innocent' description.  ::Smile::  Maybe what they see is the wonder that is still in my eyes and the hope that people are honest and truthful. Does that somehow translate into me not being dominant?

A man's surrender to me must be a compelling willingness and urge on his part to trust me with his inner being. I'm a treasure hunter for the gold within. The beauty that lies underneath the male swagger. Cruelty, brutality and ruthlessness is not in my nature. And I choose to be very picky with the men I allow into my life. My dominance over them must be inspired by who they are and naturally draw out of me the desire to own, control and rule over them with a firm but gentle hand. Which is why I find casual play boring and uninspiring. It's just not for me.

So..... If you ever make it to the place where we meet in person, keep in mind you're going to meet the woman first. And this woman is looking to see if the man within you can draw out the desire in me to dominate the man who longs to surrender.

And don't let my 'innocence' fool you. ::Wink::

~Vista~

Friday, May 29, 2015

A Word to the Wise... Dommes do Talk to Each Other!

Lately there seems to be a rash of newbies and/or sensation wanking seekers making their rounds on the net. Especially Fetlife. They seem stable at first, charming, intelligent and genuine in their interest. But when you go to pin them down on their location, meeting up etc. the excuses and lies start to enter into the mix. It does become comical after a while!

A word to the wise all of you that are guilty of this. Dommes do talk to each other! Especially on Fetlife. Your steps are transparent as we see you showing up all over one of our profiles again with all your admiration and love. Your M/O calls you out. We message each other and compare notes of your sworn allegiance and devotion. We sometimes play you along to see how deep of a hole you'll dig for yourself before we expose your lies. Then marvel at how quickly your profile disappears. Only to emerge another day when you believe the dust has settled.

We are beautiful, wonderful and intelligent women that will not waste our time and energy once your lack of integrity and sincerity has been discovered. The word will spread and soon you'll be left alone with only internet porn to wank to. A lonely and sad existence.

Those of us who chose D/s as a way of life are serious and know the pleasures that can be found in a genuine union. Our lives will continue to shine.

Hopefully those who are guilty of this behavior will mature and find a life of fulfillment. Until then, know that your reputation may be preceding you the next time you approach a Domme.  ;)


What you'll never get from us.... ;)


What you'll never experience..... :)

Friday, November 14, 2014

Leading with His Cock in Tow!

                                        I love how she wraps her hand around him.

It gets them every time. At least those that have been in my presence. Walking behind me. Gingerly; awkward in their steps; feeling off balanced as my hand is wrapped around their cock and towing them behind me. Always amazed that they willingly follow along. Being pulled by their manhood. Feeling vulnerable, overtaken and directed. Along with loving the feeling of being used, desired and objectified.

Come with me pet. I have plans for you and this cock of yours that truly belongs to me. Doesn't it pet? Belong to me? To tease, arouse, deny....all for my pleasure.

Stop talking and come with me. 


Don't back up on me pet. I'm just warming up.....


Thursday, September 19, 2013

Sometimes He Needs to be My Only One.


Many who follow this blog know that NB and I live in different states. It's been that way for two years now. There are multiple reasons why it is what it is, and our goal is to eventually be together in one place.  It has it's challenges and it forces us to be creative and when together, to concentrate on just us.  I have been working almost 7 days a week since April and that has taken a toll, but that is coming to an end in two weeks and I'll finally have weekends free again. That will bring another shift in our relationship. A good one. Any shift in our lives has proven interesting. And we have weathered them all.

One of the outcomes of all we have gone through and living separately in a cuckold and D/s relationship is working on communication.  D/s is the foundation of who we are together and the cuckold dynamic is a thrilling spice ingredient that drives us both. But I always remember that first and foremost we are people, with emotions, needs, desires, fears and our own insecurities.

Insecurities is what I want to speak of in this post. No matter how crazed NB can get and relish any sexual activities I experience, whether he is present or not, I know his emotions are being tossed around and I've learned how to read and know when he needs to be my only lover. I can tell by his words, whether he is drawing back or open with me. Although he would never admit it, I know when he needs to feel the strength of being my primary lover.

It's like I roll a curtain over that part of our lives and momentarily concentrate on only him. There may be conversations of Mr Snow's cock and how lovely it is, or any other lover that has been in our lives. But the difference being that I'm ending with the confirmation that it's his cock that is truly mine and I love owning it. Using it however I desire and knowing he'll never deny me any request. And that is where the D/s starts to trump all else.  He is my submissive and always will be.  I thrive on his surrender to me.  I love owning that man!

The more strength and security I can bring to NB and our relationship, the deeper is his submission to me. I need him to trust me and feel safe in the vulnerability of his surrender. It is in that strength of his that he is able to journey into uncharted places.

My goal, as his dominant, is truly to inspire him to be great in everything that lives inside him. To embrace the beauty of who he is as he sees himself reflected in my eyes, smile and touch.

Sometimes he needs to be my only one.  Sometimes, I need that also.



Wednesday, July 10, 2013

Sun and Loving Heat


Have been packing tonight to leave tomorrow to meet with NB for 4 days of sun and loving.  It's been another 6 weeks since I've seen him.  At first I was feeling all dommie and wanting to be very rough and demanding with him.  Now I find myself, as I pack, all soft inside and just wanting to feel him hold me, cuddle me and make sweet love to me.  I was starting to pack some toys, my harness and stopped. I put it all back with the exception of a few pieces of rope.  (You never know when that may come in handy.)  It's going to be very hot where we will be and I feel the greatest need I have from him right now is to connect. Not saying that there will be NO kinky activity over the next few days....But that I'm not packing any extras.

Bringing a small suitcase and planning on swimming naked and laying out in the sun.  :) We'll be at his place that has a very private backyard & pool.

As I jet off, I'm leaving you with these two great pics I found a while back.  Great messages of care and love for the female.  Love it!

Training them young.

And then she proved what comes naturally... ;)

Thursday, July 4, 2013

Eyes wide, Cock hard, Soul surrendered.

Mr Snow... What a beautiful outline you make......

The chime from my phone alerting me to an incoming text woke me before my alarm. "Morning! Can I come around 9 am instead? My cock is aching to see you!" Mr Snow.

It was 7:15 am and I could barely open my eyes to read the text.  I had been up from 2:30 am - 5:30 am on the phone with NB knowing I had Mr Snow coming by at 10 am and I would be paying for the lack of sleep! "Oh god." I mumbled half awake, looking at the time and knowing there was no way I would be ready for him by 9:00!  I'm a slow mover in the morning.  "Just waking up!" I texted back.

We compromised for 9:30. "Prepare yourself, I'm going to fuck you hard and enjoy that beautiful pussy thoroughly." He ended his last text. He had no idea what I had in mind for him this morning! I only now had to shake myself awake, get in the shower and hopefully have the energy to follow through on my plans.

By 9:15 I was miraculously dressed in my black lace top thigh highs and black corset that zips up the front. (The zipper makes it so much easier to get in and out of and the fit is nice and tight, of course.) I prepped the living room for my plans; ropes and oil hidden on the kitchen counter out of sight.  9:30 and his knock came on my door...right on time.

I seem to have this pattern, that when too much time goes by between my visits with NB, my 'dom' traits get very frustrated and need immediate attention!  This morning I needed to be in control with Mr. Snow. Good thing for him I leave next week to visit NB for 4 days!  I already have plenty of naughty dommie plans rolling around in my head for when I see him.. :)

Mr Snow's eyes widen in pleasure as he gazed upon me.  "I like this." His smile stretched from ear to ear and I could see his cock hardening beneath his cut off jeans. He reached toward me to feel my breasts over the fabric and started to reach for the zipper, but I put my hand over his.  "This stays on...for now. But these..."  my right hand moving over his hard cock outlined through his jeans, "Come off."  He smiled more and his clothes found their home once again on my hallway floor.

I let him stand there for a few moments, naked and exposed in my sight.  I ran my hands up along his chest, down his back, along his firm ass and ended on his rigid cock. He was silent but his body spoke of his pleasure at being examined. I couldn't resist and bent down and lightly licked along the shaft to the tip of it's head making him shiver and groan.  I already could taste the essence of precum starting to leak out of his slit.

I had pushed back my coffee table away from the couch making room for me as I led him to sit on the blanket I had draped along it's fabric.  He leaned back against the couch, still silent, somehow knowing to continue to follow my lead.  "Good boy," I thought to myself.  I went to the kitchen and first reached for the white rope I had set aside for his hands.  Also the lavender oil I love so much.

"I'm going to tie your hands together, just continue to follow me."  "Yes"... was his only response, smiling.  After securing his hands and having him place them above his head, resting on the back of the couch, I reached for the oil.  This was all new to him.  He had never been treated as an object of sexual affection and celebration of who he was as a man.  Most men have not.  They are the conquers, hunters, reveling in their conquest.  But this morning Mr Snow was my captive one. And he was liking it.

I softly spoke to him of the beauty of his form as I smoothed the warm scent over his body. Running my hands along the inside of his thighs, just lightly brushing along his ball sack and up along his shaft that was standing at full attention.  Hands continued to run up his sides, chest until he was lost in the warmth of my touch. I then got up and reached for the red para chord I had used on him once before. His smile widen more and his cock twitched. "Yes, I like that chord." He announced.

He closed his eyes as I wrapped the chord around his ball sack and then the base of his shaft....tightening as I went but making sure it wasn't too tight.  I wanted him to come later.  But for now...I wanted him to feel the intensity of his erection.  With his eyes still closed, he felt the warmth of my mouth wrap around his hardness.  His cock stiffened even more to my amazement. The skin on his shaft stretched so tight. Precum doing it's best to escape out of it's hidden place. "Don't you cum." I ordered. "You'll cum when I say so."  He nodded his head as I felt his thighs and ass tighten.

I took more oil and slicked it over his tender stretched head, making him moan deep to his core. I then moved up on the couch and straddled him, lowering myself upon his cock.  A slow, pleasure/pain "fuuuuccckkk" tumbled from his open mouth. "Shhhh...don't cum."  I reminded him. His eyes opened as I unzipped the first few inches of my corset, setting my breasts free. He moved toward them as I eased the left into his hungry mouth. His hands still obediently above his head. "Good boy." I thought to myself again.

I started to move my hips up and down along his shaft whispering "Don't cum." His frustration and desire vibrated over my nipples as he sucked, groaned and moaned through his battle to obey.


Tuesday, May 7, 2013

Underlying Hunger.....

We had been talking for weeks, nothing too steamy in the exchanged emails.  But yet there was something in his words that spoke of hunger. Deep, submissive hunger. He was curious about his submissive side but had not found the right domme to trust with those hidden desires. Yes, his hunger was underlying his words and I had to meet him. 

The time came to meet for coffee and I felt the chemistry burning through me the moment he hug me 'hello'. It was that intangible feeling that runs through you when you know you have meet a match on some level.  We talked for an hour then went back to his place for more privacy and cool drinks on his patio ... it was a hot day.

We were standing in his kitchen drinking our cold drinks making small talk. (I hate small talk by the way.)  I could tell he was a bit nervous so I put my drink down and told him to hold me. That was all that was needed. His mouth started to relax around my lips after the first kiss and I could feel his cock starting to bulge through his pants as I pressed his lower body to mine. My hands started to explore what he had to offer me and before long his clothes were off and in a pile on the floor. Mine were still in place. 

He's a triathlete, so his body is lean and toned. Not really my type. I like my men to have some meat on their bones, but my god...what an amazing cock stood before me attached to that lean frame!  8 1/2" and thick!  I walked around him, examined his ass cheeks that were tight and stood behind him pressing my body against his while I reached around and started to stroke his cock. We eventually made our way back to his bedroom.....he and his hunger following behind me, his cock tightly held in my hand as I led the way.


Thursday, April 25, 2013

Hungry for Your Submission and Surrender.

Woke up with aggression still pumping through my veins.  Saw this pic this morning on my Tumblr dashboard.  Yes... need this!!!!

Remember...You said yes.


Monday, April 8, 2013

Yes I Can...No He Can't!


Is it fair that I can have any man I find enticing and NB must always and forever be faithful to me? Probably not to most people, but alas, we are not most people!  It's very fair to me because we both get what we want. NB has no desire for another woman.  He needs to be in love, sexually stimulated, addicted and with a woman who can fulfill and challenge his desires.  I need a man who loves my drive, passion, need to be in charge, allows me freedom to explore others when the opportunity arises, challenges my mind and loves me as I love him with all my heart. I need the thrill of seeing how crazy he gets thinking of another man bringing me pleasure and sharing all those lovely details with him as he ravishes my body.  He also understands that he is the one who satisfies my soul and heart.

The thought of NB being with another woman makes me go very primal.  You don't want to see that. That man belongs to me.  I alone decide where his sexual pleasure comes from.  I have invested my life and heart into him, he is my best friend and I own him through and through.  Every other woman pales in comparison of what we have together and I plan on keeping it that way.

Our lives are erotic, complicated and ever growing and increasing in what we desire to explore and learn together. So is it fair that he must always be faithful while I am able to roam at my pleasure? Yes...very fair.  It is what we both need.  And that is what really matters.  Us.

Wednesday, March 6, 2013

Vegas, Ownership and Naughty Things!

Finally NB has worked through the tremendous load he was carrying and most of the hard parts are behind him.  Things have calmed down enough that he can see straight again and he planned a trip to Vegas for us next week!  I'm a happy, happy domme!  And happy that I'm still able to get away quickly. That may be changing in the near future. But, what counts is that after almost 2 months apart we'll have 4 days and 3 nights being naughty together in Vegas!  We both need this badly!  These long stretches are hard on both of us.  And then when I get back RT will be coming back into town.  ;)

I do love how NB is responding to RT coming into the picture. There really is nothing like the deep seeded needs of a cuckold man as his soul and heart run through a cocktail of emotions at the thought and knowledge of another man enjoying the woman he loves. Hard to explain to those who are not wired that way.  It seems like such a contradiction.  But for those men who truly have this wiring it's a crazy high and low all mixed into one.  And for the woman he loves it bonds him even closer to her.

I have this need for 'ownership' of those things I love. Not in everything. My children, that I love tremendously, I have no problem with them living their own life and being independent.  I'm very independent and come from a long line of strong and independent people, mainly women.  But there is something about a cuckold man that you love; his openness, vulnerability and the trust he puts in you concerning this very deep need that lives inside him and thrills him.  Something, at times, that is hard for him to understand and explain.  But when a man, or anyone for that manner, puts their trust in you that much with their darkest secrets and desires I tend to hold them even closer to me.  I become a protector, nurturer and a great mother bear if I think harm is coming his way.  I can torture him all I want, and gladly, but I'll wound you deeply if you even look at him wrong without my permission. "Ownership" .... that man belongs to me.  I'm the keeper of his secrets and desires. That is an intimacy that we both crave. No matter how dark the road is where I take him, his hand will always be held by mine.  He'll never be alone.  This feeds me and him. When he tells me I own him or I tell him he is mine and only mine...we both are comforted and warmed.

Vegas always brings us both pleasure in many ways. This trip I know will be filled with stories of the emails that have been going back and forth with RT.  Pictures that have been shared and all the erotic things we desire to do to each other.  All the while I'm enjoying the craziness washing over NB and his need to drive himself even closer to me. With all the research I've done on this subject, some say it is the drive in a man to take back what belongs to him after another man has invaded his territory. Whatever the driving cause is, I'm sure for those 3 nights there will be very little sleep. And I'm not complaining!

I read this prose below ... Can't remember where.  I paraphrased it and sent it to NB back in February. It says so much of our journey....

How far in the dark will I lead you?
As far as you wish to go.
Will you get lost?
You'll be with me.
Will you find your way back?
That's up to you.
You may want to stay in the darkness...
But you'll be with me.


Tuesday, January 1, 2013

Wednesday, December 19, 2012

Holiday Fever and Dominance!


To me the holidays are about re-connecting.  To myself, and to those I choose to fill and share my life.  It's a time of reflection on the past year.  My choices and if I find myself where I thought I would be. I look at what I may need to change to make sure next year starts out on a better footing or what do I need to keep doing and improving on to ensure things continue in a mainly harmonious way.  Some wait until New Years...not me.  I want a plan before that first day dawns!  I want to wake up that morning and know that the day is not happening to me, but that I am happening to it.  ;)  I'm not naive and know that sometimes, life has it's own way.  I make adjustments for that.  But damn if I don't want the upper hand most of the time.

NB will be arriving on Thursday for 5 days. Most of that time here will be split between me and visiting family. We'll both spend Christmas Eve with our families and Christmas day together.  I'm looking forward to a calm and reflective time together.  Spending leisurely evenings, just the two of us, consumed in each other and strengthening our foundation and connection.  As much as we both enjoy having other men involved in our kinky life it will all lose it's appeal if our foundation fades away.  That's my stand and he knows if we fade, so do I and our lives together.

I can feel my dominate nature rising up as the day of his arrival approaches. He's been doing a lot of traveling for business and our communication has been lacking.  I'm feeling the frustration and have plans for our first night together to not do a lot of talking but just having my way with him to deal with and release all that frustration!  I need to feel his surrender, his vulnerability and see his weakness as he is bound before me and watches me use him for my own delight.  Mmmmmm Yes... That will be a good start!

I'm starting to feel better already just thinking about it!  Seduction, passion, lust, wanton energy..... Taking what is MINE!   ;)  Mmmmmmmm

A lot of this......


And a lot of this!!!!!! 


Monday, November 5, 2012

Transitions ~ Preparing for the Beauty and Lust ahead!

It's been a calm two weeks with NB back in CA handling some personal business along with work. I'm not very patient when it comes to transition times in my life.  I hate 'lulls' and just desire to move ahead to my next destination. 2012 has all been about transition and I'm feeling like shouting from the roof tops, "Enough is Enough!".  I know I still have some waiting time ahead as NB finishes going through his own transition and as I tell myself it will soon be over and we will eventually be settle into somewhat of a normal routine for our lives.  I sometimes wonder if there is such a thing! ;)  Our lives will never be what others describe as normal.  And that makes me happy.

Until then...I busy myself with work on my writing and research I've been doing for the past few months on a new page for this blog that will cover and give resources on information on the incredible wiring of our brain, how fluid it is, how magnificent it can heal and re-wire itself and how it all is connected to our sexually.  This was my original intent when I started this blog.  To dig deep into why we have the urges we do, and why somethings can't be explained away by childhood trauma, abuse etc.  I was never sexually abused as a child and for that I am thankful.  But I did suffer loss as a child.  My mother died when I was 10 and being the oldest of two children, that loss seemed to amp up the dominate nature that was already showing itself.

So as I've explored more into my own sexuality, I have gone on a quest to find answers and am hoping once this page is done and functioning it will help my readers on their own journeys of understanding themselves and those in their lives better.  The excitement of seeing that accomplished keeps me going through this transition period I find myself in.

I am thankful for those who follow along with this blog, taking a peak into my life, mind and soul and I desire the most life has to offer to enrich your lives.

I so love this image below!  It expresses how I feel about sexuality, BDSM, D/s relationships and wanting to ravish myself in all life has to offer. A beautiful submissive man, bound, surrendered and the woman just ecstatic at everything he has given to her and represents! You Go Girl!!!! Grab life and indulge yourself!



Thursday, October 11, 2012

Vanilla Pets and 50 Shades

Since NB has come back into my life I've had to re-evaluate some of my pets and see who will fit with our cuckold dynamic and who needs go their own way.  One of my pets that I haven't talked much about is Cub.  Cub is an adorable young man (hence the name Cub) that I met about 5 months ago and have had a few intimate lovely times with over those five months.  As adorable as Cub is, he's very vanilla.  The most Taboo thing he has ever done is to be with an older woman - me. He prefers older women and there were a few before me, but he had no idea what he was walking into that first time we met for coffee and his lovely cock was telling him already he needed me.

After many months of talking, I finally agreed to come to his place and it was very exciting.  He was filled with anxiousness, anticipation and a bit intimidated that this woman who was coming over knew what she wanted and how to go about getting it.  He had always been the one in the lead and I intrigued every little horny part in this young man.  After his nerves calmed down with his first orgasm...he settled into the role of a gracious lover and all was well by the time I left.

The second time we met I tried to introduce him into some very light bondage.  Now I love bondage, and wrapping rope around a very athletic, manly frame.  All along I had been talking with him, slowly easing him into more alternative ways of looking at sexual intimacy and his curiosity was there.  I went slowly to not set off his fight or flight mode and overload his vanilla cortex.  I was willing to put in some time to bring him along, hoping he would eventually find those triggers that make BDSM real, authentic and so satisfying!  Well although he looked wonderful in the body harness I had him wrapped in...I could tell it was doing nothing for him, which in turn does absolutely nothing for me!!!!  Ugggggg!!!!   I left that time already mentally crossing him off my 'pet' list feeling that it just was not in his wiring to step beyond his comfort level.

Then NB came back into my life and suggested I needed to give Cub one more chance and see how he would respond to the cuckold dynamic.  Ha!  I laughed!  "He'd run to the hills!"  But that same day Cub sends me a text...horny, hungry and wanting.  Hmmmmm.....

So last night I grabbed some paracord, massage oil, apricot lube and a butt plug just in case this cub was feeling adventurous and off I went to his place.  Now we had been discussing all day about anal play, which he had no experience in.  Another disappointment to me and my lovely strap-on!  But if I could relax him enough I wanted to be prepared with the plug.  ;)  Also I was going to tell him about NB and how things were going to be now and gage his reaction for possible future play.

The evening was all about getting him into a very submissive state, which didn't take long. I love having him strip before me while I'm still dressed, then walk around him and examine how well he has been treating himself.  After some bites and strong slaps on those round hard ass cheeks he has, and running my hands along his sides, down his chest and inner thighs I led him, cock in my hand, to his bed.   After binding his cock and balls with my paracord, oiling up his young frame and much torturous teasing and edging and finally bringing him to a place of climax it was time to talk about what laid ahead.

This is where 50 Shades of Grey comes in!  A great opening into the direction I wanted to lead him.  I asked him if he had heard of it.  Yes he had, but not read it.  I told him my take on it and how ridiculous of a book it was.  He said he wasn't surprised I felt that way, since he knew I was in the lifestyle but every other girl he knew swooned over it!  Ha! They all want to be bedded by Christian Grey!  My god... wait until the movie comes out!  What a mess!

Anyway....it was a great lead for me to explain to him more of my life and introduce the topic of NB, me and cuckolds.  I wish you could have seen his eyes and the expressions on his face.  I know his head was swimming as I lightly explained how the cuckold dynamic works for us. NB is faithful to me whereas I can have whomever I want, when I want. etc......  He smiled at that and I could see he was pondering how this could really be.

Well....after more discussion and leaving Cub with much to think about, I know it's just not in him to flow in the direction my life is taking now. Will I see him again?  I know I can, but I have no desire to.  It ran it's course.  Vanilla and kink can't walk together for very long unless one moves toward the other.  And for me vanilla was never and will never fill the need inside this Domme.

On the bright side my other pet who has been overseas (he was one of the Saturday Eye Candy shots! 8-25-12), will be home next month!  He knows about NB and is excited for the three of us to get together!  Oh he makes my heart beat so fast!  He is crazy, kinky, open and completely surrendered and willing to fill whatever place I have in my life for him. Pure music to this Domme's ears!

I leave you with this image below that reminds me of Cub's surrender last night.  He was delightful and maybe someday will come over to this side since he's had that first taste!

Click pic for source

Wednesday, September 12, 2012

Your Ass ~ My Strap-On = Power!

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Today I read on a forum I follow this question: "Okay ladies, how do you feel about fucking your man with a strap on. Turn on or turn off?"  The question was from a 25 yr old male switch obviously looking to see what kind of interest he could stir up.  It was very interesting to see the break down of answers he has received so far today.  Out of the so far 10 responses, 3 were 'turn off', 3 were 'unsure' and 4 were 'turn on'!  You can guess where I was....LOL... 'turn on'!
 
Here is what I found interesting.  Of the 3 that were 'turn off' they classify themselves as submissives. Of the 3 that were unsure one classified as 'switch', one as 'slave' and one as 'submissive'. Of the 4 that said 'turn on'! One was classified as 'hedonist', two as 'switch' and then me...'domme'.
 
I had never thought about it this way, but the break down makes perfect sense. I have talked with men who have had submissive girlfriends and have tried to get them to use a strap-on on them and it was a failure.  The fact is, it's just not in their natural 'tool box' to want to fuck your ass!  Now a switch, as the name suggests, can swing both ways depending on the mood. And of course I know very few dommes that would turn down using a strap-on on a lovely inviting ass! For me, I can't play with just anyone...there has to be a relationship for me involved.  I have to want to take that ass!  But when that is established...hot damn it is good fun!
 
Here is what I posted: Turn on! There is something so incredibly powerful about taking your man that way! Especially when he is on his back, legs up, thrusting deep into him, watching his face, playing with his cock and balls, teasing and driving him over the brink! Damn! It's good!!!!
 
I adore the pic above! Just look at the mixture of pain, agony and ecstasy on his face!  The rope and nipple clamps add that extra touch! I love her hands wrapped around his cock, watching her strap-on slide in and out of his ass, controlling every movement knowing full well the place she is driving him to!  Damn I'm so happy I'm wired this way!!! YES!!!
 


Thursday, April 19, 2012

LOST IN SUBMISSION




He had smelled, tasted and touched every part of his Mistress’s body. Servicing her, pleasing her, yet she still had denied him entry. He had served her well over these past six weeks, but he had only felt the pleasure of masturbating before her. Releasing himself as she sat across from him, legs spread, displaying her pink pussy lips. He would watch as her fingers slid in and out of her wet opening, massaging her clit, matching the rhythm of his own hand on his cock. His eyes following every movement those fingers made as if her wetness was the last drink of a thirsty dying man.

But tonight as he followed her through the hallway to her prepared room his thoughts were consumed with the promise she had made him. Tonight he would have her fully. He stared at the sway of her bare ass in front of him as she led his naked body by the leash attached to the harness surrounding his balls and cock. His hands tied again behind his back. Her body adorned with lace topped black thigh highs, 6” black heels, and a black leather strapped harness that wrapped around her breasts and under her torso. Her dark wavy hair falling loosely down her back. Once again he was willingly helpless, vulnerable and at her mercy.

As they approach the room she prepared for their night she feels his eyes studying the movement of her muscles along her legs and ass. She slows her pace, coming to a full stop. Her slave is now standing a breath length behind her.  She can feel the hardness of his cock pressing against her bare ass. She hears the panting of his breathing already excited and aroused for the evening events.

She reaches back and gently strokes his shaft without turning around. Then slowly takes her index finger and runs it across the head of his cock and down his shaft now drenched with precum. She turns her head back to look into his eyes as she brings her finger to her mouth and licks up every drop. His breathing picks up momentum, his heart and stomach aching with anticipation. She turns and continues walking towards the room she has prepared.

He imagines in the room a comfortable bed for them. A room where he can show his pleasure for her fully, properly. She opens the door and what he finds is a high back stationary wooden chair, secured to the floor with rope lying beneath. Directly above it, rope hanging from a ring attached to an open beam in the ceiling. Nothing else. Even though bare in appearance, the room has a warm feel with rustic colored walls and accenting draperies.

His heart starts to sink, thinking she has made other plans for them. He becomes nervous, sweat forming now along his chest and forehead.

She has him sit in the chair and unhooks her leash from his harness. Her hands smooth over his thighs, moving down his legs and with the rope, secures his ankles to the legs of the chair before she rises. She takes a long moment to study him.  Assess his body language, his cock erect and already suffering. She walks around him and leans her warm body against his back. She starts to untie his hands, leans forward and whispers in his ear. 

“Don’t worry my pet. I have not forgotten.” Then she leans over to his other ear as she removes the rope that had him bound. “You’ll have your Mistress tonight.  As promised.”

Coming back around him, she stands before him. With rope still in her hand she moves forward and straddles him resting her wet ready pussy upon his cock and stomach. Her breasts gently pressing against his chest.  His anxious hands waiting by his side for direction.

She pulls herself up on the chair to reach for the rope hanging from the ring. Her body resting against his for balance. He can smell the wet scent of her pussy against his face and aches to reach out his tongue and taste her but remains still. He’s been trained well. A sheen of perspiration continues to build over his body. His mind begging for a taste. To just softly lick her juices that are covering her lips. His head swimming with emotions and desire.

“Bring your hands up to me pet.”

He surrenders his hands that want to touch her, hold her close to him, and she ties them with rope again and secures his hands above his head with the rope hanging from the ring.

Bound for her pleasure, she moves slowly back down his body, feeling the heat from his shoulders, chest, stomach and finally reaching his aching hungry cock.

He moans and squirms as she begins to fondle his cock and balls. Massaging them, stroking his hard shaft wet with precum. She moves her hands along his inner thighs and then along his perineum and circles his anus with her fingers.

She positions herself again straddled across his lap, settling on his wet harnessed cock. She reaches with two fingers into her pussy, drenched with her juices, and brings the soak fingers up and runs them over his lips. He trembles as he opens and receives her offering.  She loves his hunger for her and strokes his cock while he takes her fingers and greedily sucks and licks the juices off each one.

Then she leans in, removes her fingers and kisses his mouth deeply. His mouth melts into hers. A long, hungry, lingering kiss.  She takes her breasts and runs them gently across his face, his lips.  He reaches out with his tongue and licks her nipples as they slowly go across. Then opens his mouth and receives one breast, softly suckling at first, then more intensely, and driving erotic impulses down into her clit and G spot.

Her pussy gets more wet and drips along his hard throbbing cock. Now with each movement of her hips sliding across his cock he begs for the release of his hands. He longs to hold her and feel his cock inside her. Please her as he has dreamed of doing all these times they’ve been together.

She keeps him suckling at her breasts, driving herself and him into a hotter state of hunger. Then when she can no longer stand the wait she reaches up and releases his hands from the rope. Again he smells the intoxicating aroma of her sex as she releases his hands above his head. A few drops of her juices drip upon his chin and he licks it up with his tongue. He is lost in his passion and submission to her. Drunk off of her seduction.

As soon as his hands are released he grabs her ass with a hungry passion, pressing her cunt to his face and drives his tongue deep inside her. She allows the pleasure and pushes herself into him, then slowly moves her body down along his lips. He takes her hair in his hands and pulls her to him and kisses her savagely.

She responds, and then pulls away, caressing his body as she unstraddles her legs from him and moves between his knees. She slowly starts to lick her juices that have dripped along his inner thighs, his cock straining against the harness. He moans uncontrollably.

“Keep your hands behind your head, pet. Fingers laced.” She directs as she licks his trembling flesh.

She releases him from the harness holding his cock captive. Finally setting free what she is longing for. She has wanted him as much as he has desired her. With each movement she makes his cock drip even more precum.

“Oh please Mistress.” He pleads.  His eyes glazed, searching her face for a sign that soon he would feel her. “I’m so close.”

After removing the harness she starts to lick around his balls, on them, sucking them one by one, massaging them as they bulge with his seed. Her tongue moves up his shaft, licking up the essence of his precum.

She moves up his body and places her soaking pussy upon his cock.  She doesn’t move. Just sits there and stares at him intently. His lips are trembling as he fights the overwhelming urge to thrust his cock deep in her and finally take her. His body aching to be released. Her pussy becoming even more wet feeling the warmth of his cock beneath her. Her struggle as intense, only hidden from his eyes.

“You’re torturing me.” The sound of his voice pleading.

She lifts her hips and his eyes enlarge as he watches her go back down between his knees and places her mouth around his aching cock again. He fights the urge to explode. Clinching tighter his laced fingers above his head.

“Is this what you want my pet?” She taunts him.

“Mistress.” He has a hard time finding his voice. “I need all of you as you promised.”

She smiles, her heart racing, “Then free your hands and take me.”

He lowers his hands and wraps them through her hair and pulls her flesh across his. He almost cums feeling her breasts running across his stomach and chest. Her hands reach for his face as his hands grab her ass and moves her over his cock, sliding in with his direction.

He stops as he fully enters her. Moans at the feeling of her velvet ribbon walls surrounding the sensitivity of his shaft and head. Both bodies still; just letting the sensation of their unity take hold.
She then sits back upon his cock as he starts to move, moving with him. He reaches for her breasts, touching, massaging, and suckling them as the passion builds higher between them. The fullness of the feeling of him inside her sends her over the edge multiple times until he can no longer hold back and pleads for release.

“Please, please Mistress. Please let me cum.”  His voice hoarse, mouth dry.

She reaches for his nipples and rolls them between her fingers and thumbs. First slowly, then harder and when she knows the pain is at his threshold she looks into his eyes and commands, "Cum now for me pet! Now!"

A deep roar is released from his inner being. His body begins to buck, spasm as he thrusts deep within her and releases his overdue load. A long lingering deep roar continues from his soul with each wave of orgasm. She cums hard feeling his hot seed explode inside her. The throbbing, pulsating of his passion for her. His seed washing over her walls, filling her and marking her cervix with his DNA.

Although she owns him completely, for that one moment she is his.