Saturday, July 27, 2013

Saturday Eye Candy!

To celebrate Saturdays and that we all need a diversion or two, here are a few of my a favorite Eye Candy today from my tumblr site!

Feeling much better than I was last weekend! Just hit a wall....but feeling life return along with a hungry appetite!  See my post on Thursday. :)  I'm back!  Still need some bondage and ass play, but NB will be here soon and until then I have my favorites, (RT & Mr Snow) to keep me company. Life is good.

God... But he looks so delightful!

Look what I found tangled in my net... ;)   I'm keeping him!


One of my lovely subs accused me of objectifying him .... He's right!

He loves it, by the way.  They all do.  ;)

Thursday, July 25, 2013

Triggers, Asses and Subby Places.

"Just lie there on your back. Don't move unless I say so." I stared at him as he closed his eyes and a smile started to spread across his face.

"And no fantasizing!" I slapped his cock and his eyes sprung open.

"You are to only concentrate on my touch, what I am doing to your body and how it's reacting. You are not to drift off into your normal, nasty little perverted thoughts!"  I had to hold back my own smile knowing how I love those nasty, little perverted thoughts of his and even encouraged them.

"Yes, Mistress." He answered in his breathy submissive tone. He closed his eyes again as I started to run my fingers lightly over his bare chest. I was straddling his hips and could feel his cock pulsing under me. My juices flowing over him creating a delicious warm lube of pleasure. My hands explored the landscape of his body that I know so well.  Every muscle, crease, wrinkle and mole. Hands slipping around his inner thighs, teasing his balls lightly, pussy still enjoying his strength beneath me.

Time became a slow hush as I deliberately and slowly brought his nerve endings to attention. Whispering, "Follow my touch.", as I moved over him. He was becoming hypnotize as I reached for his tender nipples and lightly ran the tip of my fingers over them, making them stand at attention. Then I slowly started to pinch. Softly at first, then harder as his tolerance began to build between pleasure and pain. I moved off his cock and to the side, still playing and pinching one nipple as my other hand ran along his inner thigh and grabbed at his tender balls.

"Keep those eyes closed and follow my touch. Only think about what I'm touching and respond to that."  I already had the lube close by and lubed up my free hand. Then I went for my main target. Fingers gently working down his balls, along his perineum until I found his sweet spot and started to massage his opening. One, then two fingers easily slipped in as he gave way to my intrusion. I watched the expressions of pleasure start to sweep over his face as he continued to slip deeper under my touch.

My other hand moved from his nipple to his shaft, gently touching in a rhythmic flow up and down and under his balls. "Just breathe baby. And feel."

Then he felt the first dildo slip along his opening teasing it to surrender. He took it well, as I had been training him to do. But tonight I was going to graduate him to a bigger size. This was only the beginning. After a few minutes he felt it leave his warmed up and eager hole and his eyes opened in disappointment.

"Close those eyes. I'm not done yet! " I commanded. Quickly he obeyed and I reached for the next size beside me.

"Trust me." I whispered as I readied it along his opening. He clenched instinctively at first. I touched his ass cheeks and rubbed them.

"It's me." I kissed his round globes and tried again. This time he gave way and welcomed the new toy. Thighs up, spread wide and pulled to his chest. I loved having him on his back so I could see the expressions of pleasure, concern and sometimes anticipation of pain as I worked the dildo gently, further along his canal.

I took my time. Watching his reactions, facial expressions, breathing and body responses.  "Feel me."  I kept saying.  Keeping his attention on me and my touch and not on his thoughts that I knew had a tendency to wander off to his favorite perverted fantasies. He stayed with me. Followed my commands until, when I thought he had enough, I finally moved the dildo out of him. He winced and sighed as he felt it finally leave. I moved things off to the side and curled my body up next to his. His eyes still closed.

"You did really well, my love. That was the biggest yet! But your ass needs to rest."  I started to kiss his face, lips and closed eyes lids.

"Mistress..." Eyes still closed, he started to speak.

I ran my fingers through his hair and leaned my ear close to his mouth. "What is it?"

"Can we go bigger next time?"

Damn!  He's so greedy!!!! ;)

Saturday, July 20, 2013

Reflections, Thinking and Examining Emotions.

I seem to be in a bit of a funk and I'm taking the time to examine where I am in my life at the moment and if I'm content to continue down this path or make some changes.

I came back from a wonderful 3 1/2 days of sun, attention, loving and great sex with NB.  It was really a fabulous time and enjoying each other's company with no concrete plans in place. We concentrated on 'us' and I felt we made even more headway in the foundation of who we are together. And then I came home and my emotions crashed. Looking back it's been a long time in coming.

NB and I have been through a lot in the time we have known each other.  When we are together things are perfect, smooth and relaxing. And also very exciting. But these last few times when we have gone through long weeks of being apart, I've been starting to feel the strain on my emotions. I'm not one to over think and dwell on things I have no control over. I probably error on the side of denial, hoping things will eventually work themselves out as I think on the positive aspects of my life. But the heart has a mind of it's own and it's own time table.  Mine finally got the attention of my brain.

So I'm stepping back and giving myself a break, taking a deep breath and seeing what it is I really want out of my life. What path do I want to be on and where do I wish to be this time next year. There are many factors to consider, NB being a very big factor. But I'm not feeling excitement and very adventurous at the moment. I recognize a crossroad and I'm going to stop and ponder the signs ahead.

I'll still be here, not going anywhere. But I'm not going to being seeing Mr. Snow (as sexy and lovely as he is) or anyone else for that matter until I understand where I am and where I want to be. In fact to prove the funk I'm in, I was going to share with all of you a very kinky and thrilling time NB and I had together. So emotionally and psychologically deep and hot!  But.... decided to keep that between the two of us.

Stay with me!  Erotic sexy stories will still flow here, just based on fiction and not real life for a time.

The main thing I have always tried to get across in this blog is that we pay attention to who we are, stay authentic, don't fall into the trap of routine and doing what we think is expected of us. Stay true to who we are. We are the only ones living in our flesh and hearing the thoughts rolling around in our brains!  Always be true and good to yourself.  That is what I'm doing right now.

Love you all!

~ Vista

Saturday Eye Candy!

To celebrate Saturdays and that we all need a diversion or two, here are a few of my a favorite Eye Candy today from my tumblr site!

Is this revealing my frustration at the moment?  ;)

A sight that always brings a smile to my face....

Yes... A tell tale sign of where I'm at for the moment!

Tuesday, July 16, 2013

e[lust] edition #48~ Enjoy!

 Photo courtesy of It Girl Rag Doll

Welcome to e[lust] - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you're looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it'll be here at e[lust]. Want to be included in e[lust] #49? Start with the newly updated rules, come back August 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~

A Submissive's Day
An Open Letter to Modern Female Feminists
Rape Porn: Rapists by Proxy?

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

Innocent Dark and the Sweet Talk of the Storm

~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~
Sex Toy Stories: Fifty Shades of Pink

All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!

Erotic Non-Fiction

I'm fucking you, whether you're wet or not.
Positions Filled
Second Wind
Snippets of bambi
Sir Knows Best
A Taste of Rub & Tug
Feels Like the 6th Time
Call of the Wild
Falling Violently in Lust with Suzanne
Submitting to His Will
Venus' Orgasm

You don't hit me hard enough spanking
Mirror, Mirror on the Wall
Swingers club, group sex & a queue of men



Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Description of my orgasm(s)
Casual Dating
Mormon Sex Symbols


The Big Ugly Self Portrait Challenge
Blogger is dumping adult bloggers; what now?

Erotic Fiction

Perfect Spring Day
Lolita Twenty-Thirteen, Part Six
Lights Out
I Am Watching
Wicked Wednesday: Karma

Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor

There is No Smiling in S&M - Usually
Break the boxes
Your Guide To The Perfect Sex Toy!
Age Inappropriate

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Ass Worship: Errant Oral & a Brave Submissive
Tell Me You Want Me.
Embracing My Strap-On
Talking About Kinks & Fetishes With Vanillas
Thoughts: Age and BDSM

Writing about Writing

Flat-chested Heroines


Wednesday, July 10, 2013

Sun and Loving Heat

Have been packing tonight to leave tomorrow to meet with NB for 4 days of sun and loving.  It's been another 6 weeks since I've seen him.  At first I was feeling all dommie and wanting to be very rough and demanding with him.  Now I find myself, as I pack, all soft inside and just wanting to feel him hold me, cuddle me and make sweet love to me.  I was starting to pack some toys, my harness and stopped. I put it all back with the exception of a few pieces of rope.  (You never know when that may come in handy.)  It's going to be very hot where we will be and I feel the greatest need I have from him right now is to connect. Not saying that there will be NO kinky activity over the next few days....But that I'm not packing any extras.

Bringing a small suitcase and planning on swimming naked and laying out in the sun.  :) We'll be at his place that has a very private backyard & pool.

As I jet off, I'm leaving you with these two great pics I found a while back.  Great messages of care and love for the female.  Love it!

Training them young.

And then she proved what comes naturally... ;)

Saturday, July 6, 2013

Saturday Eye Candy!

To celebrate Saturdays and that we all need a diversion or two, here are a few of my a favorite Eye Candy today from my tumblr site!

Shower time with EW!  These pics were sent to me by my friend EW from Fetlife.  A local bottom and yummy he is!  He has been chosen as my Eye Candy for today's blog on this site and on my other blog.

Feel free to comment and enjoy!  And ladies, he has a virgin ass that would love to get pegged.  ;) Virgin, if I don't get to it first!  ~ Vista

Thursday, July 4, 2013

Eyes wide, Cock hard, Soul surrendered.

Mr Snow... What a beautiful outline you make......

The chime from my phone alerting me to an incoming text woke me before my alarm. "Morning! Can I come around 9 am instead? My cock is aching to see you!" Mr Snow.

It was 7:15 am and I could barely open my eyes to read the text.  I had been up from 2:30 am - 5:30 am on the phone with NB knowing I had Mr Snow coming by at 10 am and I would be paying for the lack of sleep! "Oh god." I mumbled half awake, looking at the time and knowing there was no way I would be ready for him by 9:00!  I'm a slow mover in the morning.  "Just waking up!" I texted back.

We compromised for 9:30. "Prepare yourself, I'm going to fuck you hard and enjoy that beautiful pussy thoroughly." He ended his last text. He had no idea what I had in mind for him this morning! I only now had to shake myself awake, get in the shower and hopefully have the energy to follow through on my plans.

By 9:15 I was miraculously dressed in my black lace top thigh highs and black corset that zips up the front. (The zipper makes it so much easier to get in and out of and the fit is nice and tight, of course.) I prepped the living room for my plans; ropes and oil hidden on the kitchen counter out of sight.  9:30 and his knock came on my door...right on time.

I seem to have this pattern, that when too much time goes by between my visits with NB, my 'dom' traits get very frustrated and need immediate attention!  This morning I needed to be in control with Mr. Snow. Good thing for him I leave next week to visit NB for 4 days!  I already have plenty of naughty dommie plans rolling around in my head for when I see him.. :)

Mr Snow's eyes widen in pleasure as he gazed upon me.  "I like this." His smile stretched from ear to ear and I could see his cock hardening beneath his cut off jeans. He reached toward me to feel my breasts over the fabric and started to reach for the zipper, but I put my hand over his.  "This stays on...for now. But these..."  my right hand moving over his hard cock outlined through his jeans, "Come off."  He smiled more and his clothes found their home once again on my hallway floor.

I let him stand there for a few moments, naked and exposed in my sight.  I ran my hands up along his chest, down his back, along his firm ass and ended on his rigid cock. He was silent but his body spoke of his pleasure at being examined. I couldn't resist and bent down and lightly licked along the shaft to the tip of it's head making him shiver and groan.  I already could taste the essence of precum starting to leak out of his slit.

I had pushed back my coffee table away from the couch making room for me as I led him to sit on the blanket I had draped along it's fabric.  He leaned back against the couch, still silent, somehow knowing to continue to follow my lead.  "Good boy," I thought to myself.  I went to the kitchen and first reached for the white rope I had set aside for his hands.  Also the lavender oil I love so much.

"I'm going to tie your hands together, just continue to follow me."  "Yes"... was his only response, smiling.  After securing his hands and having him place them above his head, resting on the back of the couch, I reached for the oil.  This was all new to him.  He had never been treated as an object of sexual affection and celebration of who he was as a man.  Most men have not.  They are the conquers, hunters, reveling in their conquest.  But this morning Mr Snow was my captive one. And he was liking it.

I softly spoke to him of the beauty of his form as I smoothed the warm scent over his body. Running my hands along the inside of his thighs, just lightly brushing along his ball sack and up along his shaft that was standing at full attention.  Hands continued to run up his sides, chest until he was lost in the warmth of my touch. I then got up and reached for the red para chord I had used on him once before. His smile widen more and his cock twitched. "Yes, I like that chord." He announced.

He closed his eyes as I wrapped the chord around his ball sack and then the base of his shaft....tightening as I went but making sure it wasn't too tight.  I wanted him to come later.  But for now...I wanted him to feel the intensity of his erection.  With his eyes still closed, he felt the warmth of my mouth wrap around his hardness.  His cock stiffened even more to my amazement. The skin on his shaft stretched so tight. Precum doing it's best to escape out of it's hidden place. "Don't you cum." I ordered. "You'll cum when I say so."  He nodded his head as I felt his thighs and ass tighten.

I took more oil and slicked it over his tender stretched head, making him moan deep to his core. I then moved up on the couch and straddled him, lowering myself upon his cock.  A slow, pleasure/pain "fuuuuccckkk" tumbled from his open mouth. "Shhhh...don't cum."  I reminded him. His eyes opened as I unzipped the first few inches of my corset, setting my breasts free. He moved toward them as I eased the left into his hungry mouth. His hands still obediently above his head. "Good boy." I thought to myself again.

I started to move my hips up and down along his shaft whispering "Don't cum." His frustration and desire vibrated over my nipples as he sucked, groaned and moaned through his battle to obey.