Tuesday, July 31, 2012

I Crave You!

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It’s beautiful when you find someone that is in love with your mind. Someone that wants to undress your conscience and make love to your thoughts. Someone that wants to watch you slowly take down all the walls you’ve built up around your mind and let them inside.
(via chaoswithinus)
Don't be afraid.  Don't ever be afraid.  Your vulnerability that slowly spreads over your face and sends uncertainty, yet wonder to your eyes is beautiful to behold.  I love when you find that place in your soul where the words start to tumble slowly out of your mouth revealing thoughts only you have had the privilege to enjoy all these years...and now my ears are hearing for the first time.  When you realize that not only do I crave your gorgeous frame that so lusciously presses against my body when you give yourself to me, but I crave your eyes that reveal your soul and spirit that dance in your mind.

Yes .... I love to walk into the room when you are busy with a task, stop before you, waiting as you slowly look up and I say, "Naked...Now." with that wanton look in my eyes.....And you drop what you are doing, face flushes, you rise and immediately pulled off your shirt, unbutton your jeans and let all clothing drop to the floor around your feet.

But even more I love to find those uncharted pathways in your mind that are hidden so well.....covered with blankets woven from your past. Blankets you have even forgotten were there covering the origins of your thoughts...thoughts I want to touch, kiss and make love to.


Friday, July 27, 2012

Re-Post from Domme Chronicles

Submissive men: A Celebration of Beauty by Ferns

Over 100 photos were submitted to Ferns of Domme Chronicles for her wonderful idea of showing off the beauty of submissive men.  What she produced is a beautiful and wonderful tribute to the submissive men we love!  Her video shows the glorious diversity and beauty of submissive men, all stunningly different and unique.  Two of my beautiful men are featured in this video.  It's been fun for people to try and recognize different friends etc.... You'll recognize one of the images from a blog I posted earlier this year.



Below are some pics of submissive men that I love!  Click on each pic for source information.

Release........ Mmmmm


                                         My God... How I so need to yank .....that chain!

Wednesday, July 25, 2012

Tequila Avión Commercial - Thank you 50 Shades?

Do we have 50 Shades of Grey to thank for this great Tequila Avion commercial?  It really is well done and very playful! I love how they have her dressed...the tease of the candles... Well I don't want to give too much away if you haven't seen it. :)

Interesting is that the lead is a Domme and not a Dom as in the book. But if we look at the media over the last few years when it comes to commercials, women tend to be in the lead/stronger role. A lot of them I cringe at because they have the woman as some cold hearted bitch who berates her husband or whatever man happens to be in her way.  Too degrading for me.  But this commercial is delicious, funny and seductive in how it portrays the dynamic between a Domme and her sub/lover. Marvelous!


Saturday, July 21, 2012

Shaved, Trimmed or Natural

Recently I've been doing research on the sexual wiring of our brains for a section for this blog and ran across this article in Psychology Today: Wiring Sexual Tastes to Hairless Genitals...Oops!
Published on January 2, 2012 by Marnia Robinson in Cupid's Poisoned Arrow.  It had some interesting comments, especially about the desire to have hairless genitals being a  juvenile trend that is removing an evolved barrier that once discouraged adult sex with children.  Read the article to get their full report...which I mostly disagree with.

I will put it plainly out there: I AM SHAVED.  And have been for over 20 yrs!  And the porn industry had nothing to do with my decision.

My reasons are many:
 1. I love the feel of skin against skin! I'm more sensitive to touch, a mouth, finger, lips...Mmmmm
 2. I feel cleaner and prettier.

For my partner:
1.  I do not like hair on my partner's cock, balls or ass. I don't mind if the hair above the cock is  
     trimmed nicely, but I enjoy playing, sucking, licking, and yes, rimming without fighting hair that
     gets stuck in my throat etc.. Yuck! 
2.  I love the feel of a man's balls in my mouth, but I'm not going there if it's covered in hair. 
3. Yes... I'll play with his ass...but it better be prepared for me in many ways. Shaved and cleaned
     inside and out.

These are my thoughts and desires and I don't expect everyone to have the same.  And I've seen some pics of women taken recently with trimmed hair with the caption 'Bringing the Bush Back.'  I say good for those that want it. I just personally don't.  I love the look of a man shaved, clean, hard and dripping with desire... a great trigger for me.

As for this article in saying it somehow removes the barrier between wanting sex with children...Please!  My little 4 yr old grandson runs around my house naked, his tiny hairless balls and cock scrunched up like a nickle and I have no desire for him!  Ewwww!!!

My desire is for a man! Period!

Preferably a minimum of  6" length and 5" girth.  A 7" length and 6" girth is perfect!  Swoon!  And I don't want any hair getting between me and my desire! Yes.. I am picky! :)  

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Monday, July 16, 2012

e[lust] edition # 38

Photo courtesy of Lucy and Alex of A Couple of Wankers

Welcome to e[lust] - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you're looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it'll be here at e[lust]. Want to be included in e[lust] #39? Start with the newly updated rules, come back August 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ Top 3 ~

Wrong On Every Level - "If you wouldn’t ask them to borrow $20 bucks, how the fuck is it ok for you to ask them to fuck you? Oh right, it’s not."

Good Girl - "She nearly melted into me. When I finally released her, she exhaled–she had been holding her breath."

The Three Minute Game - "The timer went off and I breathed out, both a sigh of relief and disappointment that it was over."

~ Featured Post (Picked by Lilly) ~

Bitch- "I don’t let her run the show…but she’s always around. She’s in the background saying: Bullshit"

e[lust] Editress: Dangerous Lilly

All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!

Kink & Fetish

Bondage Blowjob
Filling you up
Learn the rope of knots: Square knot
Public tease
Swinging in Paris
Switch: Between Dom & sub – A BDSM Interlude

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

A Porn and Masturbation Trifecta
Deal breakers
Deborah Sundahl’s Class & Female Ejaculation
How my pussy has changed
On Rejection
Outgrowing One-Nighters (At Least in Part)
The Good, the Bad, but Never the Ugly

Erotic Writing

4 O'clock in the Morning
At the Campsite
Brutal Passion
Cold Hot Cold
I want to spoil you
I'm a Bootlicker, and That's Okay
I'll Take Two Please!
In the Soft Morning Light
Lolita Twenty-Twelve
My orgasm
Peter and Sophie on Holiday
Slow tease
Sodden Sheets
The Guide
The First Time Again
Week Night Sex

Wednesday, July 4, 2012

To Surrender You Must Talk to Me!

Communication is important for the success of any relationship. Whether it's a business partnership, casual friends, boss and employee or lovers. The ability to share your thoughts, ideas and concerns help clear away assumptions and bring clarity to whatever subject is between you.

We have all been in relationships where a word is spoken or a look given and based on past history with that person or not we immediately find a reaction rising up. Now we may not act on that feeling, and hopefully if it causes us conflict we'll bring that up so there can be a discussion.  I have found that many times what I thought was meant, actually was not to be taken that way and what could have turned into an offense or hurt was now dissolved through clarification.

I find this to be especially critical in a D/s relationship. What attracts me and keeps me in the D/s world is the honesty and vulnerability that can be expressed without judgement.  A place to embrace who you are and find those who will compliment you along your journey.

As a dominant female there is nothing more beautiful to me than the submission of a strong, virile man not afraid to open up his soul and bring you along on a journey of discovery.  To know that he feels safe with you and trusts you with his deepest secrets that even family and close friends don't know about.  To be that safe place where he can be free to be the fullness of who he is without judgement or criticism.

But in order to achieve that place there must be communication.  I'm not a mind reader and if I was, I still would have to make my way through the maze of your thoughts to get to what you are trying to say to me.  I don't know how you feel, what motivated you to search for me and find me or what you want from our partnering unless we talk! 

To surrender you must talk to me. Take that step, even if it is a baby step, and start to share what is on your mind. Show me that you are serious about your surrender and not just looking to fulfill a fantasy. I'm not expecting novels or even chapters of a book. But an honest quest to embrace the fullness of you and be celebrated in that fullness.  Even if it takes years to unfold...let our time together be productive...even if it is only the beginning of your journey and I am only your first guide.

Talk to me.

Sunday, July 1, 2012

I'll Take Two Please!

It's still early afternoon for me, but in the middle of the night for him when his text comes across my phone. Twenty minutes of natural, easy texting going back and forth and the sexual connection building as it always does with him.  I know it's late and he needs to sleep.

Pet: "Yes, I'm pretty tired, but I'd like to fall asleep with one of our stories."

Me: "Yes. It's about you living through me, feeling what I'm feeling. Seeing another man want and hunger after me. Take me in front of you. You standing there off to the side, naked, hands down, unable to move...waiting for my instructions."

Pet: "OMG Mistress. Yes. So feeling what you are feeling, soaking in the passion, watching you kiss him deeply, rubbing his cock..."

Me: "We are standing in the middle of the room. I've instructed him to remove his pants after you watched me unbutton his shirt, run my hands over his chest and glide his shirt off his shoulders to the floor. I turn and look at you..."

Pet: "You stare at me with lust glazed eyes just before letting him unzip your dress and it falls to the floor, unveiling your sexy firm frame to your lover.  Oh Fuck, OMG...I can feel his hunger for you and your lust for him. My cock hardens every time you moan from his kiss or touch, sending hot sparks through me..."

Me: "You see him take one of my full breast in one hand as the other hand slides in between my legs and pushes two fingers inside my waiting hungry pussy."

Pet: "Yes, Yes Mistress. I flash on what it feels like to have my fingers explore and feel your hunger. My own fingers start to twitch as I watch your hips move with the rhythm of his hand. My craving for you is even deeper, more intense, knowing I have to wait..."

Me: "I motion for you to stand behind me so I can lean against you as he leans down and suckles one of my breasts, still moving his fingers in and out of my aching pussy. I push myself into him as I use you as leverage and can feel your cock pressing against me...your precum sliding along my back and ass..."

Pet: "OMG...Leaning against me...!  Mistress, having him touching, kissing, exploring you with me watching, craving and feeling everything through you...."

Me: "You move back into a chair, sitting in a position so I'm able to back up to you and lean back against you in the chair.  I still feel your hard, wet cock behind me. You start to kiss my neck and shoulders as he lifts my legs up along his chest and enters me.  I feel his hunger along with your passion and the crazed energy flooding through you."

Pet: "Oh fuck...God yes Mistress...Every time your lover pushes into you, I feel you press back into me. Your soaking pussy and moans inviting him in deeper."

Me: "Then he pulls me forward toward him so I'm leaning more on him. My ass lifting off of you and you can see him inside me. Then he moves us both to the floor, me straddling him. You move forward as I put one hand on one of my ass cheeks, a signal to you that I want you there."

Pet: "Oh fuck Mistress.  Shall I lick your ass while you fuck him? Please?"

Me: "You leave the chair and take the juice running from my pussy and start to rim my anus and slowly move one, then two fingers inside me..."

Pet: "Gently scooping more and more of your free flowing juice to lube your sexy asshole.  It's obvious you are fully into fucking your lover, and I so can feel that heat in me too..."

Me: "You bend forward and I can feel the familiar touch of your tongue..."

Pet: "I start out gentle, staying in rhythm with you fucking his cock..."

Me: "He moves stronger, thrusting harder and I call out your name to take me..."

Pet: "When I open my eyes for a moment I can see his shaft ram deep into you.  My tongue moves in and out of your ass now.  Up and down your seam, accidentally brushing his shaft with my tongue, then back to your delicious ass.."

Me: "You thrust your ready cock into my ass and can feel his cock along the membrane..."

Pet: "Mmmmm  Oh God, thank you for letting me fuck you Mistress, oh fuck..."

Me: "I'm so full with both of you.  Feeling your cocks move in and out of me.."

Pet: "Oh God your ass feels so good. And I feel each thrust of his cock in your pussy.  My hard cock filling your sexy ass, feeling you fuck us both deep."

Me: "Then with one last thrust we all come together. I feel the warmth of your seeds filling my linings and walls. I shiver and quake under the assault.  My nerve endings are ultra sensitive and my body floating away in some unknown universe."

Pet: "Mmmmm Yes! Feeling so full and cum splashing you everywhere...Oh God... "

Me: "He holds me one last time and then slides out of me. You pick me up and take me to the bed. My lover has pulled all the covers back and has crawled into bed first.  We both crawl into bed next to him.  Me in the middle, my back to him. His legs wrap around me. You in front of me.  You and I kissing, my legs wrapped around you."

Pet: "I so love that he is in bed with us. I really do. His legs wrapped around you. After we calm some, you kiss me deeply and whisper seductively in my ear, 'Could you go and clean me up pet?' Your hands are now on my shoulders gently guiding my face lower, leaving no doubt to what you mean."

Me: "So good to me pet.  I love the three of us in bed together also. When you are done, you fall asleep at my breasts."

Pet: "Oh God, Oh God..I'm gonna cum again! I already came once and am so close to cuming again for you! "

Me: "With your mouth still pressed against my breasts, you awaken as I start to stir as his cock probes the folds of my pussy."

Pet: "Yes! Oh God yes! You're going to let him fuck you again?!"

Me: "He moves me on top of you and balances me on all fours over you. Your legs spread just enough to let him slip in between to enter me from behind.  Your mouth kissing my breasts, your hands running along my sides. He starts slowly, then watching you touch and kiss me he explodes in erotic passion and you feel the strength of his legs move along yours as he pounds inside me. My eyes staring into yours.. ."

Pet: "Mmmm...Came with you staring into my eyes. Oh fuck!  Drifting off now Mistress.... Mmmmmm."

Me: "Sweet dreams pet. "