Saturday, September 28, 2013

Saturday Eye Candy!

To celebrate Saturdays and that we all need a diversion or two, here are a few of my a favorite Eye Candy today from my tumblr site!

Sexy, hunky, wonderful dark features.... :)

In honor of all the sexy firefighters!  And of course Silver Fox!

Because a mature man is very sensual and erotic... ;)

Saturday, September 21, 2013

Saturday Eye Candy!

To celebrate Saturdays and that we all need a diversion or two, here are a few of my a favorite Eye Candy today from my tumblr site!

I know I'm late getting this out today.  Had to work and some personal things going on with the family etc.... But enjoy the Eye Candy!  Damn nice it is!!!!

Thursday, September 19, 2013

Sometimes He Needs to be My Only One.

Many who follow this blog know that NB and I live in different states. It's been that way for two years now. There are multiple reasons why it is what it is, and our goal is to eventually be together in one place.  It has it's challenges and it forces us to be creative and when together, to concentrate on just us.  I have been working almost 7 days a week since April and that has taken a toll, but that is coming to an end in two weeks and I'll finally have weekends free again. That will bring another shift in our relationship. A good one. Any shift in our lives has proven interesting. And we have weathered them all.

One of the outcomes of all we have gone through and living separately in a cuckold and D/s relationship is working on communication.  D/s is the foundation of who we are together and the cuckold dynamic is a thrilling spice ingredient that drives us both. But I always remember that first and foremost we are people, with emotions, needs, desires, fears and our own insecurities.

Insecurities is what I want to speak of in this post. No matter how crazed NB can get and relish any sexual activities I experience, whether he is present or not, I know his emotions are being tossed around and I've learned how to read and know when he needs to be my only lover. I can tell by his words, whether he is drawing back or open with me. Although he would never admit it, I know when he needs to feel the strength of being my primary lover.

It's like I roll a curtain over that part of our lives and momentarily concentrate on only him. There may be conversations of Mr Snow's cock and how lovely it is, or any other lover that has been in our lives. But the difference being that I'm ending with the confirmation that it's his cock that is truly mine and I love owning it. Using it however I desire and knowing he'll never deny me any request. And that is where the D/s starts to trump all else.  He is my submissive and always will be.  I thrive on his surrender to me.  I love owning that man!

The more strength and security I can bring to NB and our relationship, the deeper is his submission to me. I need him to trust me and feel safe in the vulnerability of his surrender. It is in that strength of his that he is able to journey into uncharted places.

My goal, as his dominant, is truly to inspire him to be great in everything that lives inside him. To embrace the beauty of who he is as he sees himself reflected in my eyes, smile and touch.

Sometimes he needs to be my only one.  Sometimes, I need that also.

Sunday, September 15, 2013

e[lust] edition #50 ~ Featured again! Enjoy!

So excited again to have my post Why I Need Him There as a Featured Post this month! Thank you Molly!!!  Enjoy!!!!! ~ Vista

 Photo courtesy of Down the Rabbit Hole
Welcome to e[lust] - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you're looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it'll be here at e[lust]. Want to be included in e[lust] #51? Start with the newly updated rules, come back October 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

When the sex isn't great
The Least You Can Do
I don't know how to dominate

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

Why I Need Him There.

~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~

First lesbian love
All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!

Erotic Non-Fiction

Dressing Up for Master
2 nights of great sex - Monday
Marking My Body
Let's Get It On
Better Lucky Than Good
starry night
Master's Filthy Whore
Eat Dust
We Made a Sex Tape
Incapable of Thinking
Spank Bank

Erotic Fiction

Hickory, dickory, dock...
Oatmeal and Almost Orgasms
Classroom Adventure
The Inspection
The Hood
Opportunity Knocks
Little Red
Remember Me
Scorched Flesh
Lolita Twenty-Thirteen, Part Eight
So Easily Bruised
Under the Desk

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

The Q&A's of Stainless Steel Sex Toys
Triggers and PTSD
Palate Cleanser
Relationships: Is a sexless marriage normal?
Why Premature Ejaculation is Hot
Casual Encounters on trains and at stations
I wouldn’t really class a client as a lover


Introducing Me
Why Bad Sex Toy Reviews Are Important
You never know who you’re going to meet.


I want. . .
The Grand Old Duke of York ...

Sex News, Opinion, Interviews, Politics & Humor

Penis Truths

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Strap-on Sex & Empowerment
Never Thought
Two Cocks, One Mouth, One Excited Jade
Aural Sex
Why I Stay Silent
Sub in Space
Hotter Sex Through Intellect
Nazisploitation and how it relates to BDSM
Service and Ritual
No Stupid (Kink) Questions: Episode 18 – SSC
Kink of the week: Exhibitionism
Pegging: Fun for men, awesome for women


Saturday, September 14, 2013

Saturday Eye Candy

To celebrate Saturdays and that we all need a diversion or two, here are a few of my a favorite Eye Candy today from my tumblr site!

Nice.  Just plain nice. 

This I want to find waiting for me when I get home at night.

Yes! A thousand times... Yes!   Let me hear you! 

Thursday, September 12, 2013

Drama is Not What I Seek!

Let me make this very LOUD and CLEAR!  I really hate drama and actually run from it and people who try to bring it into my life. Life all by it's lovely, unpredictable self brings enough drama, strife and misunderstandings every day without any aide from me. Maybe when I was young and foolish I let it influence me, but with age, hopefully, comes wisdom and I'd like to think that I've learned that peace helps me sleep better at night than the overwhelming physical repercussions of drama.

You may be asking why in the world would I choose to be in cuckold relationship with all it's emotional ups and downs?  Why?  Because it's basically built on honesty and communication. Lies, cheating behind someone's back creates drama. I'm a very pragmatic person, black & white about the things of life. Yes, passionate with the right people and partners. I love life and living it to the fullest. Which is another reason there is no room in my life for the draining qualities of drama.

Passion, yes. Intensity, pushing limits, yes! But lack of communication, hidden agendas.....No room!

I've lived a lot in my life. Experienced a lot. And know what draws me and what repels me. I'm not afraid of confrontation, but only if it is needed. Other than that, I won't waste my energy on anything I deem foolish. I love deeply and may want you passionately, but I won't fight for you. I believe in our lives being celebrated. I will celebrate you being in mine and you'll know it. And I expect to be celebrated in return. If I feel you no longer value me in your life, I will not fight to get you back. If you can't see my value on your own, then why bother.

I may mourn for a season which is healthy and needed. But I won't permanently live there. I have lost too much in the past through foolish mistakes or trying to please others. As you grow older you hopefully learn that doing what pleases you will attract those who want you near. You are authentic and will attract authentic people.

Drama is building on past hurts, emotions of pain that dig up painful memories and we find ourselves and others reacting to incidents from the past instead hearing the words of the ones now present before us.

I seek peace, wholeness, honesty and clear communication. I try each day to live fully in the present. Today will never come again. I wish to go into tomorrow whole and healthy.

I'm trying. I guess I'm just hoping others will try also.

Saturday, September 7, 2013

Saturday Eye Candy!

To celebrate Saturdays and that we all need a diversion or two, here are a few of my a favorite Eye Candy today from my tumblr site!

Today where I work on weekends for a time, a young man, maybe late 20's, came through my line. He had brown/sandy colored hair, large blue eyes, was wearing a brick colored t-shirt that fit perfectly over his well defined chest and arms.  Add to that, tight jeans that hugged his ass just right and an aura of sexuality about him that instantly caught my attention and aroused me!  I wanted to run out of my booth, pull him off to the side and enjoy devouring him for hours.  I think there was something about him that reminded me of 'cub' that I haven't seen in many months, but has been begging to see me and I've been putting him off.  I think the combination of him texting me for the past two weeks and a movie I saw last night called 'Adore' with Naomi Watts and Robin Wright about two mothers/friends who have love affairs with each other's son was still playing in my mind when this god like specimen of young sexuality walked toward me. I couldn't help but smile warmly and compliment him on his obvious well defined chest which made him blush slightly and smile warmly, almost knowingly back at me. There was an energy I don't feel often, but do pick up from very sensual individuals. My god but he was beautiful.  I immediately texted NB, (who is still out of state) about the young man and my reaction to him, and he texted back 'LOL .... I love this!'.  In the midst of this I received an email from RT wanting to see me tomorrow morning. And I can't see him because I'm working again!   Torture I tell you!  I'm being tortured!  ;)

This sight soothes my soul... Mmmmmm

How I imagine this beautiful young man looks like beneath those tight clothes... sigh!

Always in the mood for a pic of a firm ass.  Bring it!!!

Monday, September 2, 2013

The Art of Kissing

Kissing. Two mouths coming together, two pairs of lips touching, exploring. When you kiss me, invite me in; tenderly; warmly. Let your passion and hunger for me speak, awaken and then stir my hunger for you. Your lips are not hard and pursed, but soft and slightly open telling me of your desire for me. You don't aggressively take me, gnashing your teeth against mine, but follow my pace and build upon my own desire for you until our bodies are pressed against each other; your cock, caught as wedged wood between us and my wet pussy grinding against your leg. Limbs wrapped tightly around our bodies, pressing, rubbing, yet holding back penetration until the kissing has my pussy fucking anything flesh it is touching and the slit of your cock is heavily dripping pre-cum as your seed begs for release.

When we do finally allow our aching hunger to be satisfied through deep penetration, we break for only a moment to take in the sensation of fulfillment and resume again. Kiss me in this way...always.