Chicago, NB and My Strap-On!

This year has started out very promising. If you have been following this blog then you'll remember that NB had a very trying and emotional year last year and has been recovering emotionally from it's toll. The holidays were a struggle for him but he seems to be making great progress as this new year unfolds and I'm seeing more and more of the man I met and fell in love with a year and a half ago.  Without any hints from me, he planned a wonderful weekend for us in Chicago, (I leave Friday!) and he has been more and more his lovely, submissive, erotic, kinky, needy self!  See for me, the more his kinky and cuckold needs arise, the more excited I get.  It becomes a dance where we feed off of each other.  I can hear it in his voice when he calls. The way he answers me, addressing me as 'Mistress' and this craving of me in his voice that immediately gets me hot and wet!

Which brings up my Strap-On!  I've mentioned I'm not crazy about the idea of flying with my harness...but I'm chancing it this trip.  I'm so in need of pegging that lovely ass of his!  It's all about owning him completely which does something for both of us.  For him, it's about being owned and totally surrendering to me and giving me his most vulnerable area.  A way of proving his commitment and trust of who I am in his life.  For me, it's about owning him...every part and parcel of him.  Marking him as my own.  I love his vulnerability and growing dependency on me to meet and determine when those needs are met.  These are the things I take away from our relationship, among many other lovely benefits.  It's more proving ground, just as when we experienced our first cuckold encounter.  It's a cementing of who we are as a couple and what we are building together.

So as cold as Chicago will be (Brrrrr)....things will be lovely and hot for us.  We have no plans but to spend time together and NB showing me the town.  It's been 3 weeks.....Yep... I need that man close...now!  ;)

There will be some of this...  NB has very sensitive nipples!

http://sexualdestinies.tumblr.com/post/40718781632/cranniesinmybrain-muffled-laughter-love

And some of this!  Yes!!!!

http://sexualdestinies.tumblr.com/post/40689955362/trusseduptightly-very-nice-reminds-me-of-how