Saturday Eye Candy!

To celebrate Saturdays and that some Saturdays I have way too much time on my hands, here is a favorite Eye Candy today from my tumblr site! http://sexualdestinies.tumblr.com/

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Another ASS shot...but oh what a beautiful picture.  I love the antique style, the coloring, the composition and hidden story behind the shot. Maybe pet and I were out walking in the woods and we needed to duck into this dilapidated cabin to get out of a sudden downpour of rain. Of course his clothes are soaked and after removing them I have him pose just for a moment as I admire his frame and decide how I want to take him this time.  :)

Let Your Passion Ignite When You Cum!

Let Your Passion Ignite When You Cum!  I want to HEAR YOU!!!!

Men!  Speaking only for myself and not understandably for ALL women; if you are with me, I really want you to let go and lose yourself vocally, bodily and with every fiber of your being when you cum!  The degree in which you lose yourself in that passion and rush of chemicals, hormones and pure ecstasy tells me a lot about your own personal freedom, comfort with yourself and degree of being uninhibited!

I can compare it to when a person laughs.  No.... seriously!!!!   I pay close attention to how a man laughs, especially when I am first getting to know him.  Does he stifle the laugh? Is it controlled?  Or does it easily flow out from the depth of his belly without him even noticing?  Does he even 'snort' at times when the laugh is coming from so deep inside?  I know I have been known to do that!  Embarrassing?  Sure... but also funny!  I'm not ashamed of my passion in any area of my life.  I desire to be free to express what I am feeling and I look for those who are in my life to be just as free.  If they aren't... then at least they want to be free!

The same is true when a man cums.  It tells me a LOT about his own comfort and freedom with his body and passion.  Does he let go of what he looks like, sounds like and does he just get lost in the rush that is moving throughout his body?  I want to see that!  I want to hear what you are going through.  And if we are coming together...I want us to blow the roof off!!  Damn it's nice!!!!

One thing I'm really excited about in meeting up with NB in just a few days is that that man knows how to cum!!!!!!  OMG!!!!  There is no mistaking what he is going through.  He feels it from his toes all the way up through his eye balls!!!! His body almost goes into convulsions!  He sweats, swears, makes sounds, shakes and takes me on the journey with him!  I get all crazy wet just thinking about it!  It tells me he's mine, he's free and wants to share all of himself with me.  It speaks volumes!!!

So men... If your woman is anything like me...let her hear you!!!!! 

In the pic below... I love the strain on his face!!!!  Yes!  I know he's gagged...but his body is still speaking!

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Cuckold Reunion ~ A Passion Returned

On October 1st I'll be reunited with my cuckold whom I'll call here on my blog 'NB'.  The 'NB' standing for Naughty Boy!  NB and I had a beautiful and full relationship, but unexpectedly he had to leave and what we hoped would only be a few months turned into many.  (Too long and complicated of a story to go into!)  We tried to hold things together but after many months we let go and I went my own way without him.  Not necessarily looking for another cuckold, yet finding many flocking to my side. But a cuckold relationship is not something you lightly walk into and my heart went out to those men I met along the way who had at one time lived and enjoyed that lifestyle and for many reasons found themselves alone.  It's hard enough looking for a compatible lover in the world as a whole.  But for a cuckold man who is deeply wired for that lifestyle and has experienced the highs and lows of it, it is very difficult to find it again.

I've had the pleasure of select lovers and pets as I've been on my own. And looking back realize that in each of them I was looking for parts of NB. With nothing now standing in our way, NB and I started talking a few weeks back about seeing each other again, if only to bring closure if we found there was no longer a connection.  After only a few days of communication we found ourselves settling back into the flow we had before, only this time much stronger.  One thing that has changed is me. Being on my own gave me a chance to find my way and own identity apart from the strength of what we had together.  NB had been a Dom and part of the BDSM world most of his adult life.  When he met me he found someone he trusted with his submissive side.  A side he had kept hidden.

A cuckold relationship was never anything I went out to find.  It found me through NB. I love men! And especially strong, complicated, interesting, intelligent men that find themselves lost in my presence!  I love to flirt, tease and control.  But I also need the love and security of a good man. A man that thrills me and 'gets' that he may not be enough for me. A beautiful, surrendered man that gets hard and crazed at the idea of me being with another. A man that gets lost in the cocktail of emotions that only a cuckold man would understand when he thinks of another man desiring and lusting for the woman he loves.  A man who knows that although the other man may have my attention for a short period of time, my cuckold knows my heart ultimately belongs to him. And yet I know his heart beats at a rapid rate awaiting my return to him.

So October 1st we will meet again, face to face and spend 3-4 days enjoying the crazy scene of Las Vegas.  A perfect reunion spot!  And if our conversations are a clue to how things will be when we are together again, then my life will be very fulfilling!  My muse and sustaining passion will have returned and I still have the key to the candy shop!!!!!





 

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Saturday Eye Candy!

To celebrate Saturdays and that some Saturdays I have way too much time on my hands, here is a favorite Eye Candy today from my tumblr site! http://sexualdestinies.tumblr.com/

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Yes...I do love well placed ink on a very well formed torso! It can be like makeup on a woman drawing attention to amazing assets. Notice the lines along his collarbone, elbow and down that lovely line running towards his hidden cock.

I'd tie him, spread eagle, between two posts and with my fingers and tongue trace every lovely beautiful design.  Mmmmmm.

Danger - Low Hanging Fruit!

Low hanging fruit!  My friend found the source! This pic is from the February 1989 issue of Manscape 2.

I just had to post this because it made me smile.  So many different scenes played through my mind as I looked with admiration.  What if there is a cat in the yard and it decides the 'low hanging fruit' is his toy for the day!  Can you imagine the pain from getting a swat from the paw of a cat!  Can you say, "Cat Scratch Fever!" Or what about the sting from a Yellow Jacket! Or a dog thinking it's a bone!  Ouch!

And what if I'm the cat lying leisurely on a blanket underneath the hammock. Lazily raising my fingers up to that cock and giving it gentle swats as I watch it grow.  :) Mmmmmmmm

Thank you friend for sending me this lovely treat today!

e[lust] edition #40 ~ Enjoy!

Photo courtesy of @iSlut_ of A Slut's Memoir

 

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The Bitch is Back - The temperature at the table drops several degrees. “Like that?,” I say. ”Is that what you want?”
On Women Who Like Sex - I like sex as much as any man I know. I am not a weirdo, I am not a slut, and I am not in any excessive danger.
Secret Secretary- There she was in the reception room on my couch, lying on her back, legs spread, skirt hiked up over her torso, her hands frantically feeling between her legs.

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Thoughts: Regarding Limits In BDSM
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Begin rant Communication Breakdown
Family Planning
Great Expectation
My Fantasy
Rituals, Symbolism, Kink, and of course ME

Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor
How You Know You Are On The Rag
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Anal Slut
Belted
Flogger Use and Safety from a Beginner
Janet's Magical Toybag
Protest Much?
Property of Seven
Playing With Fire
Please
Tonight I am going to fuck your (slave) ass
The Long-Anticipated Gangbang Post
Welcome To The Club

Erotic Writing
Almost Broken
Alive
A Bad Habit
A Sinner Sits for Sacred Sunday Service
BBQ & Beer
Birthday Sex
Cap D'Agde -spit roast with a stranger
Dirty Talk
Lolita Twenty-Twelve, Part Five
Matched
Oral at a Sex Party
once in a while
Revelation
Random memories: First love
Saturday Morning Pussy
Stress Reliever – Lubed Fingers
The shopping assistant
The Sting of the Crop
You

Saturday Eye Candy!

To celebrate Saturdays and that some Saturdays I have way too much time on my hands, here is my favorite Eye Candy today from my tumblr site! http://sexualdestinies.tumblr.com/

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I do love the combination of black and white and the abandoned, old building.  The emptiness, loneliness and vulnerability of the picture.  I can imagine leaving my pet there, not telling him when I'll be back.  Leaving him with an instruction to think about what I'll do with him when I return.  Then standing off to the side where I can watch him.  He shifts from leg to leg, leaving his hands up against the wall, ears alert to any sound or movement, muscles contracting, breathing and waiting for my return. I stand motionless, taking in the lovely sight, my breath moving with his.



BDSM Emblem Meaning

 

Today while updating my tumblr site I ran across this image and meaning for BDSM. Many may see this image and not understand the meaning and background.  So for those who have not .... here you go! ~ Vista

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What does the BDSM Emblem mean?

The BDSM emblem has no “obvious” symbolism because it was created to be enigmatic. To the vanilla observer who would be put off by BDSM, it is merely an attractive piece of jewelry. Thus, we can wear it freely as a friendly salute, nod, and wink to other BDSMers we should happen to pass on the sidewalks and in the hallways of our daily lives.

To the insider, however, the Emblem is full of meaning.

The three divisions represent the various threesomes of BDSM. First of all, the three divisions of BDSM itself: B&D, D&S, and S&M. Secondly, the three-way creed of BDSM behavior: Safe, Sane, and Consensual. Thirdly, the three divisions of our community: Tops, Bottoms, and Switches.

It is this third symbolism that gives meaning to the holes in each unit. Since BDSM is at the very least a play style and at its greatest a love style, the holes represent the incompleteness of any individual within the BDSM context. However “together” and “whole” individuals may be, there remains a void within them that can only be filled by a complimentary other. BDSM cannot be done alone.

The resemblance to a three-way variation on the Yin-Yang symbol is not accidental. As the curved outline of Yin and Yang represent the hazy border between where one ends and the other begins, so do the curved borders here represent the indistinct divisions between B&D, D&S, and S&M.
The all-embracing circle, of course, represents the overlying unity of it all and the oneness of a community that protects its own.

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Your Ass ~ My Strap-On = Power!

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Today I read on a forum I follow this question: "Okay ladies, how do you feel about fucking your man with a strap on. Turn on or turn off?"  The question was from a 25 yr old male switch obviously looking to see what kind of interest he could stir up.  It was very interesting to see the break down of answers he has received so far today.  Out of the so far 10 responses, 3 were 'turn off', 3 were 'unsure' and 4 were 'turn on'!  You can guess where I was....LOL... 'turn on'!

 

Here is what I found interesting.  Of the 3 that were 'turn off' they classify themselves as submissives. Of the 3 that were unsure one classified as 'switch', one as 'slave' and one as 'submissive'. Of the 4 that said 'turn on'! One was classified as 'hedonist', two as 'switch' and then me...'domme'.

 

I had never thought about it this way, but the break down makes perfect sense. I have talked with men who have had submissive girlfriends and have tried to get them to use a strap-on on them and it was a failure.  The fact is, it's just not in their natural 'tool box' to want to fuck your ass!  Now a switch, as the name suggests, can swing both ways depending on the mood. And of course I know very few dommes that would turn down using a strap-on on a lovely inviting ass! For me, I can't play with just anyone...there has to be a relationship for me involved.  I have to want to take that ass!  But when that is established...hot damn it is good fun!

 

Here is what I posted: Turn on! There is something so incredibly powerful about taking your man that way! Especially when he is on his back, legs up, thrusting deep into him, watching his face, playing with his cock and balls, teasing and driving him over the brink! Damn! It's good!!!!

 

I adore the pic above! Just look at the mixture of pain, agony and ecstasy on his face!  The rope and nipple clamps add that extra touch! I love her hands wrapped around his cock, watching her strap-on slide in and out of his ass, controlling every movement knowing full well the place she is driving him to!  Damn I'm so happy I'm wired this way!!! YES!!!

 



Saturday Eye Candy!

To celebrate Saturdays and that some Saturdays I have way too much time on my hands, here is my favorite Eye Candy today from my tumblr site! http://sexualdestinies.tumblr.com/

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Yes, by now you have come to realize I have a great fascination for a nice firm ass on a man.  I ran across this shot this morning as I was updating my tumblr.  I absolutely love the 'rosey' glow on his ass and so want to run my hand gently over it and feel the warmth.  I also love the underwear pulled down ... nice touch!

Happy Saturday!

Heart Reflections - Endings and Beginnings

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Sometimes, and come to think about it, many times, life and relationships do not go the way you thought they would in the beginning. Whether Vanilla or Kinky, we are still people with flesh and blood, hearts and souls, desires, needs and wants.  And the older we get, sometimes lots of baggage that can't seem to get unpacked! I've been taught and hold true to this life fact: To look closely at the people that cross my path in life and cherish and hold dear whatever lessons they come with. Some are meant to be friends, some lovers, some mentors and all teachers of something.

 

I find letting friends come and go in and out of my life is a natural flow that I easily accept and sometimes can anticipate our closeness coming to an end.  With lovers it all depends on the dynamic and truth that lies in the relationship. If it's filled with open communication, then there is a flow and signs that things are not going in the way you thought they would.  Those relationships seem to end with closure for both parties and hearts that heal and rebound faster...willing and able to love again.

 

Then there are some that come into your life, and you see early signs that communication will be lean. But you're a risk taker in life and you shrug off the warnings and swim in the heady, erotic pleasures that are found in the relationship. When this one ends, because the communication is lean, the closure is erratic and questions go unanswered. No amount of "I wonder, should have, or what if" is going to change what transpired. The few times I've found myself without closure, it has taken me months for my heart to take the memories that so easily flood my mind day after day and finally reconcile that it is over.  But I hang on knowing that the time will come and the memories will be cherished and lessons will be understood. I'll take the gems that were forged out of the fire of disappointment and adorn my future with their wisdom.

 

Below is a wonderful saying and truth that makes me smile! Use it in your own life for those times when you wonder, "What happened?"  And you have no answers.  "The people who want to stay in your life will always find a way!" 

 

Yes!  I truly believe that! 

 

 

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Saturday Eye Candy!

To celebrate Saturdays and that some Saturdays I have way too much time on my hands, here is my favorite Eye Candy today from my tumblr site! http://sexualdestinies.tumblr.com/

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I love how the 'ink' follows the lines of his body!  Teasing my visual senses, sending erotic messages and playing with the naughty thoughts that cross my mind as I dwell along every curve. OMG!

Happy Saturday!