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Today I read on a forum I follow this question: "Okay ladies, how do you feel about fucking your man with a strap on. Turn on or turn off?" The question was from a 25 yr old male switch obviously looking to see what kind of interest he could stir up. It was very interesting to see the break down of answers he has received so far today. Out of the so far 10 responses, 3 were 'turn off', 3 were 'unsure' and 4 were 'turn on'! You can guess where I was....LOL... 'turn on'!
Here is what I found interesting. Of the 3 that were 'turn off' they classify themselves as submissives. Of the 3 that were unsure one classified as 'switch', one as 'slave' and one as 'submissive'. Of the 4 that said 'turn on'! One was classified as 'hedonist', two as 'switch' and then me...'domme'.
I had never thought about it this way, but the break down makes perfect sense. I have talked with men who have had submissive girlfriends and have tried to get them to use a strap-on on them and it was a failure. The fact is, it's just not in their natural 'tool box' to want to fuck your ass! Now a switch, as the name suggests, can swing both ways depending on the mood. And of course I know very few dommes that would turn down using a strap-on on a lovely inviting ass! For me, I can't play with just anyone...there has to be a relationship for me involved. I have to want to take that ass! But when that is established...hot damn it is good fun!
Here is what I posted: Turn on! There is something so incredibly powerful about taking your man that way! Especially when he is on his back, legs up, thrusting deep into him, watching his face, playing with his cock and balls, teasing and driving him over the brink! Damn! It's good!!!!
I adore the pic above! Just look at the mixture of pain, agony and ecstasy on his face! The rope and nipple clamps add that extra touch! I love her hands wrapped around his cock, watching her strap-on slide in and out of his ass, controlling every movement knowing full well the place she is driving him to! Damn I'm so happy I'm wired this way!!! YES!!!
For what it's worth, I (HH) love to see Lo in her strap-on. To play with her that way and kiss her when she has a giant hard-on. Not crazy about being had that way though.
ReplyDeleteThank you for the comment HH! Yes... I agree...most sexually dominate men are not crazy at that thought. I do find it interesting and fun that you do love seeing Lo that way.
DeleteBeing sexually submissive to a woman and surrendering his most vulnerable area to her is very much a psychological power play. Especially for a man who is naturally very dominate and commanding outside of the bedroom. This is what makes it so exciting and erotic for me! For this powerful man to allow and desire me to penetrate him and have him in such a humbling position can be a real power struggle in his mind. But the sensation of the dildo rubbing against his prostrate and my hands massaging his balls and running up the shaft of his cock bringing him to such an overwhelming orgasm wins out.
Don't you agree that for most of us who are sexually dominate...it's the power of bringing those we love and care about to a place they can't bring themselves to that is the driving erotic force that brings us pleasure. It's grand!
Take care!
~ Vista
That's a definite big turn on.
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Yes! Hope you have that in your life!
Delete~ Vista