Men are Hunters ... And other fables!

Let Me Make This Very Clear!

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I was having a conversation with someone the other day and to his defense, he's very new when it comes to the D/s lifestyle.  We were talking about relationships, men and women and he made a comment which set me back and reminded me why I no longer associate myself with the vanilla world.  He said as a come back to some information I was sharing with him about a relationship, "Men are hunters."  It's probably good we were texting because he would not have wanted to see the look of disgust on my face when he said that.  My response back to him was, "That's BS!"

So, What the Fuck does that mean!  Really?!  The first thing that came to my mind was the 'cave man' hit woman over head and drag her away!  Or 'he needs to hunt you down, so play coy and don't be so easy to catch'.  I hate games and game playing is part of what is wrong in a society that has people living in the closet with their desires and existing in meaningless relationships because they got lost in some fucking role they thought they should play.  Men are not only hunters, but CEO's, plumbers, doctors, engineers.... It's a profession, career...nothing to do with relationships. To lump every man into that old patriarchal culture is BS!

Women have careers of many types including being hunters! I am a dominant woman and in the relationship/sexual arena I am the hunter. And whatever man I may be scoping out had better not play coy or any games with me.  I require honesty, vulnerability and surrender as they recognize who has them in their grip and why.  Male dominants can also be hunters.  It's about the wiring and makeup of the person, not the gender.

I hunt submissive men. It's who I am and who I'm attracted to. A beautiful man who is strong enough to know his desires and strong enough to relinquish his control of them to me. Not a doormat, but a pillar of masculinity longing to surrender.  He is drawn to my honesty, openness and trusts me with his secrets. Coyness and games from me are not what this man seeks.

It is I who captured you.

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Be thankful that I wanted you in the first place.

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Saturday Eye Candy!

To celebrate Saturdays and that we all need a diversion or two, here are a few of my a favorite Eye Candy today from my tumblr site! http://sexualdestinies.tumblr.com/

Been a busy week, but have somethings in mind I'll be posting this week.  Until then.......

Sometimes seeing them locked in lace makes my mouth water.....

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And this... Always makes my mouth water!

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KP playing for me.... Yes everything waters.... ;)

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Saturday Eye Candy!

To celebrate Saturdays and that we all need a diversion or two, here are a few of my a favorite Eye Candy today from my tumblr site! http://sexualdestinies.tumblr.com/

Some of my favorite things to admire and lust after.....

Besides a gorgeous body, the slow seduction of this gif.....Mmmmmmmmm

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Always admire a beautiful mature man.  Everything about him speaks to me......

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His naughty boyish charm...the fun I would have with him!

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Serving, Leaping, Waiting.....

KP

You awake in the middle of the night and feel me watching you. You hear me whispering in your ear of what I want you to do next for me. My words hang in the air from our last conversation. You lie still with only your cock twitching, yearning to be touched and fondled.  You close your eyes not wanting the image of me fading, knowing I'm not really there.  Or am I?  You'd rather believe that I am.

Sleep has left and you're awake with my instructions filling you thoughts. "Shave everything. Harness yourself, then pose in a way that I can show them all what is mine. "

Images flash before you of different possibilities. You rise and prepare yourself as instructed. You start to feel cold, nervous, your stomach starts to churn and fear of rejection begins to plague you. As you finish all preparation and pose you take a deep breath and pull the trigger for the shot. Pleased that your cock feeds on your fear.  And then you wait.  Feeling as if you've leaped from a high cliff into a cold body of water. You wait for my response to pull you by the balls from the deep and bring you to the surface once again.

e[lust] edition #59 ~ Enjoy!

 

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Considering Cocks
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I Kissed A Girl (& Her Man) And I Liked It
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Sex News,Opinion, Interviews, Politics & Humor

Trigger Warnings from a Girl with PTSD
To Cheat or Not To Cheat
Why Trigger Warnings Are Important
On women in the world
Pillow Talk Secrets — We Have Lift Off!

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Boundaries
Daddy doesn't want to have sex with a virgin
Female Masturbation...Healthy, Not Sinful.
Partner Play - Dealing with Dildophobia
Tired Of Being Alone Some Relationship Advice
On Hang Ups
How to (almost) pick up women
Sex Smell

Erotic Fiction

Dark Fantasy
Exhibit 'O', Pt. 1
Her cock vs his cock
The Leopard Girl
Excerpt Two from "Legacy of Desire and Blood"
The Bachelor's Prayer
Behind the bar

Writing About Writing

I'm Sheri and I Have a Shitty Author Persona

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Navigating The Waters of BDSM
Kink’s transgressions: breaking the rules
Edges, Limits and Boundaries
Feminist Beliefs vs Bedroom Preferences—help!
No Stupid (Kink) Questions: Identification
CollarMe - Return to Sender

Poetry

Facebook Fixation - a Lusty Limerick

Erotic Non-Fiction

A Pain From Long Ago
I Just Need to Fuck You!
Meet the Amazon
When I Am Laid in Earth
Undressing
Twice
The Night Club

Events
Yes, the G-Spot is Real

Happy Erotic Father's Day!

To all of my lovely, sexy, sensual, delightful male followers!  Happy Erotic Father's Day!  No matter what your shape, tone of body, age, height, weight, sexual orientation etc..... May you ALL today enjoy the lustful look and playful, naughty ways of the one you desire today!  And if no one, by chance, is there to objectify and use you for their pleasure, then know that this one adores you just the way you are.

Stand before me... Take off Your Clothes.  ~ Vista

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Saturday Eye Candy!

To celebrate Saturdays and that we all need a diversion or two, here are a few of my a favorite Eye Candy today from my tumblr site! http://sexualdestinies.tumblr.com/

Something to make you smile today! He's so damn fun to watch! 

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When His Thoughts are to be Your Offering.

A Warm, Sensuous Offering.

Objectification of the male.  It's never right to generalize anything, or any one gender.  But I will say this....I am surprisingly finding more males than I had ever thought, desiring the sensation of being objectified by a woman.  A strong, lovely, sexual woman that makes them hard and dripping at the very thought of her.  I thought more about this last night after sharing emails with one of my followers about this subject.

Speaking from my own experience I have found men, whether straight, vanilla men; some dom types that have only played that role because all they met were submissive women or bi men, which I find more open and love to be objectified, at some point love having the attention on them and someone else in charge.  The sensual energy that builds as they wait for words of direction. The nervousness that makes their heart pump to extra beats and washes their skin with a hot blush.  The power received as they let go of their own and surrender their body to your touch and observation.

At some point, if the willingness is there, they find a freedom, acceptance and celebration for who they are. For some it may feed their tender egos, for most I have found it calms and centers them in their own being. The beauty of a centered submissive man is that he understands his strength and the offering he is delivering to the one he desires.

The beauty of KP is he understands who he is and desires to reveal that to one who understands in return.

Making Himself Ready.

His Vulnerability, Beauty and Submission.

He ponders his last submission to me and wonders if he should show more. He longs to be exposed, his frame welcomed in any form. Is he enough? His arousal tells him to keep going.....

This boy, this young man that fuels my mind and desires, feeding my passion and imagination. I can almost taste and smell the vulnerability that radiates through his images.  I can hear his breathing as he strokes himself to the edge and displays his work for my approval. 

What is buried deep within you boy, that you feel drawn to reach out to me, to touch me and open your soul to me? Is it that need that lies inside us all to be exposed before another and not judged? To be seen as though transparent and celebrated for the authentic beauty that is your own?  Anyone can take a naked picture, but yours, yours are a story wanting to be told.  Yours ask, "Do you like me? Do you want me? Do I please you? Am I enough for you to desire me? "

If you were here I would show you my approval. I would celebrate your openness and encourage you to go further in your vulnerability to me. I would have you reenact each image you have sent me and relive the erotic rush that warmed me. If you were here......

I can hear his breathing...

...as he strokes himself to the edge and displays his work for my approval. 

Saturday Eye Candy!

To celebrate Saturdays and that we all need a diversion or two, here are a few of my a favorite Eye Candy today from my tumblr site! http://sexualdestinies.tumblr.com/

Three wishes.  What I want to find in my bed.

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I Just Need to Fuck You!

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Sometimes I look at you and I want you silent...completely silent.  Breathing...soft moanings are allowed, but words...no words this time.  Only speak to me through your eyes and your responses. All day my mind has been traveling over the images that are etched in it's memory.  And those arms... those ripped arms that wrap around me when you surprise me from behind and press that bulge up against my ass.  My hand reaching back and running my fingers under your ball sack, back and forth from your ass to your base.  Feeling the thick warmth of your breath against my neck.

My hands have been itching to touch you, feel the texture of your skin and the smoothness of your shaft beneath them.  My mouth waters as I remember your taste and girth passing through my lips.  The muscles in your chest rippling as you breathe while my fingers explore you; readying you to be taken.  Reminding you again how addicted you are to me. Your thighs twitching and balls rising tight as I lightly run my fingers along your member feeling the pre-cum trickling out of your slit.  You try to hold on, you know you must hold on, I need to savor you, every breath...every movement...every moan.  I watch your cock head glisten with desire. I can still taste you on the roof of my mouth. You start to close your eyes but I demand you to look at me.

Desire builds, pulsing, rising and reaching for you. I want to feel you inside me, but the need to possess you is stronger.  The need to see you on the edge over and over until you're reaching your ass and hips off the bed craving for me to enter you.  Legs quivering, breath catching and your eyes begging.

I'll take you and never forget how the countenance of your face looks when you've given me everything. And for that moment I'm satiated.  Until my hunger and lust for you rises again.

Priming you for my pleasure.

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