e[lust] #36

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~ Top 3 ~

The Cheshire Cat - Alice felt whiskers tickle her skin and was wracked with sobs of fear. "Oh, little girl, don't cry. You can stand much more than you think you can."

Vaginal Overexposure? - I see a lot of vaginas. A lot. One of my favorite things to tell Vincent and his friends is, "I see more vagina that you ever will!"

Marionette - "I'm writing out a fantasy of mine, but I'm not sure what to do with some of it. I'm hoping you can help me figure it out." "Yes Ma'am."


~ Featured Post (Picked by Lilly) ~

Journeys - These insecurities are at the root of my fears. I don�t know how to combat them, how to turn those tapes off in my head.


~ e[lust] Editress ~

I've found a new secret to my G-spot - This g-spot thing might be hard to find since it can�t be mapped, but believe me it is real and with time, exploration, a good clitoral orgasm and a willing set of fingers and/or dildos you CAN find it.

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"The Invitation" by Oriah Mountain Dreamer

I ran across this beautiful prose today and being a little OCD at times, I researched to make sure I had the original prose.  I did find that there are some other versions out there and some that say this young Canadian women is an indian elder.  A misconception.  I have added her book that came from this prose to my Amazon book list.  I highly recommend this life giving book for your own library.

"The Invitation" by Oriah Mountain Dreamer

copyright © 1999 by Oriah Mountain Dreamer.

It doesn't interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for, and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing.

It doesn't interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love, for your dreams, for the adventure of being alive.

It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon. I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrow, if you have been opened by life's betrayals or have become shriveled and closed from fear of further pain!  I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine or your own, without moving to hide it or fade it or fix it.

I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own; if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful, be realistic, or to remember the limitations of being human.

It doesn't interest me if the story you're telling me is true. I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself; if you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul; if you can be faithless and therefore be trustworthy. 

I want to know if you can see beauty even when it is not pretty, every day, and if you can source your own life from its presence.

I want to know if you can live with failure, yours and mine, and still stand on the edge of a lake and shout to the silver of the full moon, "Yes!"

It doesn't interest me to know where you live or how much money you have. I want to know if you can get up after the night of grief and despair, weary and bruised to the bone, and do what needs to be done to feed the children.

It doesn't interest me who you are, how you came to be here. I want to know if you will stand in the center of the fire with me and not shrink back.

It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom you have studied. I want to know what sustains you from the inside when all else falls away.

I want to know if you can be alone with yourself, and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments.

But I like to look at a penis!

Today I ran across an article titled: Why Penis Pictures Aren't Pretty and I know this has been discussed by many women and men.  Well I'm here to throw in my 'two cents'!  I will first state that I do not welcome unsolicited 'penis' pics from men I've never met! But I will admit to enjoying many 'penis' pics posted on tumbler sites that I thought were amazingly done! And I happen to think the man in my life is wonderfully equipped! There are many pics on my Fetlife profile to attest to that!

I do understand what most of the complaints are about. Men randomly sending pics of their penis to a woman to hopefully impress her. I agree that is poor taste and shows a lack of discernment toward the woman and her desires. BUT...Overall.. I love a great cock shot.  Especially if presented in an artistic way. I am a woman very attracted to the male form and a man's penis is a wonderfully delightful play toy at the right time! ( I have been known to tie up my submissives's balls in paracord and recently we had great fun with what is called 'The Helicopter'! )

A man's penis is also an erotic ever changing body part that brings me great and ever increasing satisfaction!

Are they pretty?  I'd say that beauty is definitely, in this case, in the eye of the beholder.  But I do think most are beautiful!



My Submissive - Lovely!

How I met my submissive man was on a BDSM site and one of his videos was highlighted on the home page. Now there are some pretty sad videos on the web and there should be a class on how to tastefully shoot a video of a man masturbating. ( I admit to being a bit of a voyeur on this subject! ) I clicked on his video and was impressed by his movements, style and almost poetic way he presented himself.  After watching multiple times I finally email him my approval of his work...and well...here we are together! Since then I love the random cock shots he'll send through the week! :)

Below is a pic I have always loved.  To me it celebrates the beauty of the male physique. Mmmmmm... Gets my heart racing... Now where is that man of mine!!! LOL

Strap-On Play ~ Sometimes You Just Have to Laugh!

Turtles

Well it started out hot, passionate and romantic! I had company over but they had left for the night, not to be back until morning. My delicious slave and I decided we were in the mood for some great D/s play but in wisdom decided to play in my bedroom and not the living room if by chance my company decided to return unexpectedly.  A little hard to explain and quickly shuffle out of the living room a naked man, (as beautiful as he is), bound and me found in mid strike to his ass with the riding crop! :)

So the bedroom it was, and the electricity, passion and erotic tension was building beautifully. His beautiful ass was just beginning to blush when we both heard the front door open!  We both dove to shut my bedroom door. I laughing and he suspended in humilation and shock at the possibility of being seen! "Quiet!" I laughingly commanded.  And again we proceeded in regaining the mood ever conscious of my visitor only being a wall away.

Strap-On play was the goal of the night and the tension and mood was quickly returning. I had just purchased a new dildo, larger than what he was use to, but feeling confident he could accommodate it. Me with harness and new dildo ready, my slave positioned himself on my bed, on his bound wrists, knees spread and ass in the air waiting. :)  I knew he was keenly aware of the visitor in the next room and wanted to remain as quiet as possible.

Slowly I prepared his tight opening with my lubed fingers, the lube cool on his skin but his tight canal welcoming my touch and probing. Then I slowly stroked his ass cheeks, his shaft and balls increasing his pleasure. As I gently and with great care started to insert my new toy into his canal I was meeting with resistance.

"Relax." I leaned against the small of his back and whispered toward his hearing. "Relax." As I stroked his cheeks and used my fingers to open him more. I started to insert again and heard faint whispers coming from his turned head.  But couldn't make out what he was saying.

"Do you want me to stop?" I asked.

He shook his head. "No. I'm ok." But I could see a worried look spreading across his face.

"Maybe I should use the other one." I suggested. Getting concerned...knowing we could try some other time.  He shook his head, so I proceeded to maneuver the dildo further.

"Awwww." I heard him release quietly.

"You ok?" I asked, then heard him whisper something but couldn't make it out.

Three times I had him repeat it when I finally heard him say with a strain..."Too big!"

Call me cruel, but I broke out laughing!  Something about this strong alpha male, bound by the wrists, trying to muffle his moans in the sheets to not be heard, then finally releasing, "Too big!" struck me so funny!

I slowly and gently removed the dildo from his canal and told him to stay put while I changed dildos.  I was determined to have his ass that night! When I returned from the bathroom with the dildo I knew he could take, he was laying on his side in a fetal position on the bed. I'm sorry men, but that struck me funny again!  I started to laugh so hard, and feeling bad for him, I released his wrists from the rope.

I told him to lie on his back. My favorite way to take him. I like fondling his cock and balls in between pounding that lovely ass. Then watching the expressions on his face... Mmmmm. I thought for sure this would get me back into the right mood. I was wrong!

As I started to slide the smaller dildo into him I could feel the laughter starting to bubble out of my throat. The look on his face was ease, knowing he could take this one, but that was not what got me laughing again! He is the most humble slave, loving, considerate, willingly accommodating  the kinky requests I have for him with not much thought for himself. He has truly put his safety in my hands.

So here he was, calm, at ease, lying on his back, legs up and spread, his hands holding his thighs in place, eyes closed, waiting .... just surrendered and waiting.  He looked so precious to me and then I laughed as a picture came to my mind of a turtle on his back unable to move.  I lost it at that point! The laughter started to roll out of me, all the while he is trying to get me to be quiet because of my visitor.  I no longer cared!!!!  All I could see was this gorgeous turtle before me surrendered!!!!

He started laughing also as I finally was able to verbalise what I was seeing as snot ran out of my nose onto his chest, my body heaving back and forth and tears now running down my face.

Yep!  No turning back now!  The moment of passion was long passed and we ended the night in each others arms, with intermittent laughter over turtles.  His new nickname now!

I love the look on his face! Priceless!