As I go through my week enjoying my Tumblr page I'm always looking out for what I think would make wonderful Eye Candy! I know my life is entering into another transition stage. I can feel it in my bones. There is some sadness....NB has fallen into an emotional state that doesn't fair well with who we are and have been as a couple. Maybe things would be different if we lived closer, but then again, being apart helps me in being able to move forward without running to his side.
And then there is excitement at what may be ahead in my future. I have some ideas and plans I'm personally working towards. And if another primary turns up in my life... I damn hope he's local!!! ;) At least not states away!!!!
To fight the sadness that lurks around the corners of my soul, I find solace in my pics for today's Eye Candy!
This... I need to feel this hunger from a man again!
I find this pic beautiful and peaceful...love staring at him.
I also love some meat and muscle on my men. Not too skinny. I need to feel their strength!
If you think that being 'states away' is difficult, try being an ocean and six hours time difference away.
ReplyDeleteI'm not saying long-distance with no RL contact doesn't work. It can, but it requires a lot of commitment, abolute trust, emotional strength, and imagination.
Sometimes it hurts.
That said, half a loaf is better than no bread.
Best of luck.
Wow Grumpy....that is a tough one! An ocean and six hours.... You two must be amazing to survive that. And I do agree to the half a loaf...
DeleteLife at times throws us a curve we weren't expecting and people have different ways of dealing with the challenge. My ways are different than NB's and I need to let him be and workout his challenge. It does make me sad, but I also know it's what needs to happen for now.
Thank you again for following and commenting. ;)
~ Vista