Online Dating – Vanilla or Edge.

These days, people are busier than ever, and they find themselves, romantically, lonelier than ever. Technology has expanded our world not only in commerce but also socially.  And this is a good thing.  Online dating and social networking has connected long lost friends, shared job leads, kept families in touch and played Cupid in bringing together like minded people for dating relationships.

Searching for like minded people is the key point to keep in mind when entering the maze of different online dating sites that fill the Web. It will help you to narrow down your choices. One of the first choices that you need to make is remembering how you are sexually wired.  Even if you are looking initially for a very casual relationship, the end result of any great connection with someone (and isn’t that truly what you eventually want…a great connection) will always result in an intimate relationship.

Be honest with yourself and if you’re not sure how ‘Edgy’ you are sexually wired then choose both a ‘Vanilla’ dating site along with a more ‘Edgy’ one. Keep your options open.  You never know who you may find on that ‘Vanilla’ site!  I know that’s where I found my kinky love of my life!  LOL 

The world really is a candy store!  Just know what you are looking for, write your profile to truly reflect that, and you’ll draw the one you are searching for!  I know for me it was one sentence that my man wrote in his profile that grabbed my attention and was the clue to his deepest desires.  And I was the only one who picked that up!  That clue began our honest communication and built a true intimacy between us.

Be true to you!  Be real in what you are looking for in a relationship. Whether a causal one or long term. Whether a ‘Vanilla’ one or ‘Edge’. The person you are looking for is looking for the real you also!