Saturday, January 11, 2014

Saturday Eye Candy!

To celebrate Saturdays and that we all need a diversion or two, here are a few of my a favorite Eye Candy today from my tumblr site! http://sexualdestinies.tumblr.com/

A big shout out for the new publication by H. H. & Lo from My Sex Life With Lola!  'Match, Cinder and Spark! Nymphomania and the Single Girl.' The story of Lola Down, your average nymphomaniac next door. This roman-a-clef tells the story of how she and the author, H.H., survive the trials and tribulations of life with her libido. Link below to find out more!


Sunday, January 5, 2014

So You Want to Worship Me...Start Here.


You naked, after slowly shedding your clothes to fall at your feet all the while keeping your eyes upon me as instructed. Those eyes full of lust, revealing your hunger to taste what you have been dreaming about. I can feel your heart beating from where I'm standing. It sends heat waves into my soul meeting my own desire for you. Warmth generates from it's impact, washing down my skin, heightening every nerve ending.

I know you want to touch me as you stand as still as your body can before me. Your cock already twitching with a mind of its own trying to edge closer to it's own dream destination. Just watching your desire grow makes my nipples hard with excitement and the moistness that's increasing between my legs lets me know I can only hold out so long before I need your touch.

"What do you want?" The sound of my voice adds to your intoxication over my presence.

"I want to worship you Mistress. May I, please?"

I step closer and take a tuff of your hair from the top of your head in my fingers. "Then kneel pet."

Your head now facing the tops of my breasts that are spilling generously over my black lace bra. My hands surround your face and bury it between their mounds warming your cheeks with the heat you have caused to generate from them. The rhythm of my heart picks up it's pace and I press myself further into your body.

"So you want to worship me...Start here."

Saturday, January 4, 2014

Saturday Eye Candy!

To celebrate Saturdays and that we all need a diversion or two, here are a few of my a favorite Eye Candy today from my tumblr site! http://sexualdestinies.tumblr.com/

Today's images are about things I find beautiful.......


This image and it's composition...beautiful!


His smile and relax demeanor... beautiful!


The hand of a man on his cock...beautiful!

Wednesday, January 1, 2014

Hello 2014! I'm Glad You're Here!

2013 was a bumpy ride emotionally and full of a long transition.  I knew going into it that it could go either way for NB and myself.  As uncertain as things looked for us at times, I wouldn't change one bump along the road.  These are the journeys that continue to form our character and lives. But I'm so thankful that year is now behind me!

I have somethings forming in my life that are making 2014 look very promising. Too premature to share them with you now, but will share once I know their place along my journey. 2014 will be full of changes. I'm looking at ways to expand and improve on this blog and I'll keep you updated on personal changes along the way.

Some things I learned in 2013:

1. That two people can love each other deeply, openly and yet feel and realize with grace that their journey together has run it's course.

2. That with a thankful heart we can move forward knowing that who we are today and what we potentially have to offer to another was forged in the fire of what we just walked out of.  I'd not change one thing.

3. That although it seems our heart could never open or want another, that there is someone waiting just for us around the corner. Someone we never knew existed who possesses qualities we never understood we needed.

4. Life has a way of presenting us magic at any age.

May all of our lives this 2014 be filled with the surprise of magic!

~ Vista


Sunday, December 29, 2013

A Warrior's Heart




"One life is all we have and we live it as we believe in living it. But to sacrifice what you are and to live without belief, that is a fate more terrible than dying."  ~ Joan of Arc

Since childhood I've admired Joan of Arc. I have always admired her strength, resolve and absolute confidence in who she was and what she was place here on earth to do.  And to have such insight, wisdom and confidence at such a young age... her life spoke volumes to me. I related to her more as I matured as a woman and resolved in my own heart to know the authentic 'me' and not who people and society kept telling me I should be.  This resolve has carried me through my life and has served me well.

As I step into 2014, single and uncertain of the road ahead of me, I have taken the time to listen to that voice deep inside and remind myself of the warrior who lives there. This lifestyle I've chosen fits the warrior inside me well.  It's about freedom to be and explore who you are and join those who are like minded.

I've felt the heart beat of a warrior since a child.  Maybe that is part of my dominant nature, don't know for sure. But it is a part of me. It shows itself in many ways, but mainly can be seen where integrity, clarity and honesty live.

My hope for all of you who follow this blog is that 2014 brings even more clarity and wonder in the exploration of who you are and that more people will be drawn to the beauty that lives inside you.

I'm excited about the coming year. Have courage for the things and people still yet to appear in your life.

~ Vista

Saturday, December 28, 2013

Wednesday, December 25, 2013

Merry Christmas for Those Who Celebrate...

I must admit that most of the time I can be 'bah humbug' about the holidays.  It's really not about the meaning, but about the hustle and bustle it involves.  Let alone all the emotional charged happenings it evokes.  It has been an interesting Christmas day around here so far and hopefully will end well with those I love around me.

I'm keeping in mind the upbeat reasons to concentrate on this time of year, like those who have great meaning in my life, putting aside any differences we may have and just rejoice that they are there.  So whether it is Christmas or any other holiday you are celebrating this season ... enjoy those you love and I hope they are around you!

~ Vista








Sunday, December 22, 2013

I Remember the 'Little' Side of Him.




These images came across my Tumblr page yesterday from Submissive Guy Comics. (Use link below pic to access his site.) 

I immediately thought of NB and his 'little' side. It was magical and beautiful for us both. NB is 6' 3" and I'm 5' 4" !  A big difference when we stood next to each other, but I loved the feeling of being physically overpowered by him knowing who had the dominant power in the relationship.  He would often hold me and comment on how small I was in his arms. I believe he loved the paradox himself.

The 'little' side of him had nothing to do with being child like. But everything to do with feeling absolutely safe in my presence, releasing whatever burdens he was carrying and finding strength in my embrace. It had to do with opening up the most vulnerable places in his soul, exposing his weaknesses and failures and in return receiving my unconditional acceptance and love.  

My heart toward him during those special intimate times was protective, nurturing and I could feel the love pour out of my spirit and soul washing over any insecurities he was battling.  Ultimately, when his strength had return, his hands would start to roam, along with mine, and we would end up with me reminding him who he belong to. ;)  All of that beautiful strength and surrender owned by me. 

These are memories and reflections I take with me into the new year.

~ Vista

Saturday, December 21, 2013

Saturday Eye Candy!

To celebrate Saturdays and that we all need a diversion or two, here are a few of my a favorite Eye Candy today from my tumblr site! http://sexualdestinies.tumblr.com/

Life continues to be interesting around here. Had some good conversations with NB this week. No, we aren't back together, but neither of us has lost the deep love for one another and Christmas without him ... is just not Christmas.

I hope all of you have someone lovely to snuggle to during these holidays. They are the real gift in your life. My son asked me if there was anything special I wanted for Christmas. I told him all I wanted was his undying love for me, his mom.  And that I'll always have.  That is something money can't buy.

Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays and may 2014 bring us all joy.







Tuesday, December 17, 2013

e[lust] edition #53 ~ Enjoy!

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Welcome to e[lust] - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you're looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it'll be here at e[lust]. Want to be included in e[lust] #54? Start with the newly updated rules, come back January 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

Do Not Consent
Found poem – UR so SXY
Kink is not a dirty word!

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

Being not doing; a thought about labels.
Take It For Daddy

~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~


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All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!

Sex News, Opinion, Interviews, Politics & Humor

The negative impact of media exposure on sex

Poetry

Christmas Eve

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

SexyLittleIdeas - Childfree Environmentalist
Thwack
Bisexuality (It's complicated)
The Goodbye Kiss
Our Contraception Journey Part 8: Mirena IUS
Silencing Their Demons
My Sex Education
Optimism
Can't tell the diff between vanity & artistry


Erotic Fiction

“Pick a hole.You know what happens next.”
A feast for the senses
This Is Me. This Is Her. This Is How We Fuck.
Trust Me
Every Last Drop
Superotica Advent Calendar
Blissemas Erotica: Of the Santa persuasion…
Larry Does Things, Differently

Erotic Non-Fiction

A Letter To Little Marie
Floating and Tingly
Another Kind of Gratitude
Thick Cocks and the Art of the Silent Blowjob
"Your cum is in my hair."
Finding Out
Jigsaw
Melding Pleasure and Pain
Personal: DSL Experiment Week #2
The Blowjob

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Hello Ma'am
Placed Around My Neck
Being a Babygirl
The Wanderings of a Sadistic Mind
The Big Mistake Even Good Submissive Men Make
CollarMe...WTF?
Dermarollers: Kinky, Sadistic, and Fun!
Crawling & Kneeling