tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4876198802606039333.post7677894269499323542..comments2023-07-06T07:48:46.131-07:00Comments on Sexual Destinies: Drama is Not What I Seek!Victoria Vistahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08143933697570288131noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4876198802606039333.post-37688511047737961192013-09-15T09:29:56.121-07:002013-09-15T09:29:56.121-07:00No. Nothing happened. ;) Just a momentary breakdo...No. Nothing happened. ;) Just a momentary breakdown in communication that happens at times in relationships and among family members. I have some people in my life that tend to thrive on drama. :)<br /><br />NB and I are fine. I do know when he is reacting to something I actually said and meant or being triggered into a past situation because of a comment I make. These are things we all work on. Being present with the person we are with, hearing them and not a voice in the past. <br /><br />It's work. No matter what the relationships, to have a honest and transparent relationship. I think we all deserve that in our lives. I believe that's why I choose to have this relationship with NB. It's work, but forces you to be transparent or else it will break down.<br /><br />My best to you two!<br /><br />~ VistaVictoria Vistahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08143933697570288131noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4876198802606039333.post-35514620289728896452013-09-15T04:51:09.142-07:002013-09-15T04:51:09.142-07:00Did something happen to provoke this post?Did something happen to provoke this post?Lolahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05167452380561174136noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4876198802606039333.post-34770593897258727052013-09-13T00:07:09.757-07:002013-09-13T00:07:09.757-07:00I've always seen myself and the description of...I've always seen myself and the description of the word 'pragmatic' as dealing with things sensibly and realistically in a way that is based on practical rather than theoretical considerations. A 'matter-of-fact' or Black & White way of thinking in most things and areas of life. As having a pragmatic approach to a problem rather than an emotional dramatic one that isn't based on facts but on opinions and/or past wounds.<br /><br />If only we could see things more clear when we are younger. But such is mankind and the way of life.<br /><br />~ VistaVictoria Vistahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08143933697570288131noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4876198802606039333.post-15001771417045828142013-09-12T23:34:36.680-07:002013-09-12T23:34:36.680-07:00Wise words. I was born into a family and a cultur...Wise words. I was born into a family and a culture in which drama was a way of life. It made for a lot of unhappiness as a child, and a lot of confusion as a young man.<br /><br />One of the good things about getting older is that you achieve a degree of serenity.<br /><br />May I be very presumptuous and question your use of the word 'pragmatic'?<br /><br />Pragmatism is normally what's used to temper fixed ideological 'black and white' belief systems, not to support them.<br />Grumpyoldswitchhttp://tonybeckett2.tumblr.comnoreply@blogger.com