tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4876198802606039333.post4058615543876311919..comments2023-07-06T07:48:46.131-07:00Comments on Sexual Destinies: And Then He Was Gone. Boy Update. Victoria Vistahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08143933697570288131noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4876198802606039333.post-70546257007316353432015-03-11T20:00:14.754-07:002015-03-11T20:00:14.754-07:00It worked! ;)It worked! ;)Victoria Vistahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08143933697570288131noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4876198802606039333.post-26132305064526026832015-03-11T19:43:35.961-07:002015-03-11T19:43:35.961-07:00This is just a test. I am trying Microsoft Explore...This is just a test. I am trying Microsoft Explorer as a browser to see if I can add a comment.mike38klees@outlook.comhttp://outlook.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4876198802606039333.post-44034681907645303772015-03-11T08:00:34.303-07:002015-03-11T08:00:34.303-07:00Thank you so much for your answers and comment. It...Thank you so much for your answers and comment. It's been enlightening to read here and through the emails I've received the different takes. I intend to follow up this post with my comments on what people have graciously sent to me. <br /><br />Distress? Not so much distress as just a sadness to have our communication end so abruptly. I care for that sweet adorable boy and wish him all the best. <br /><br />~ Vista<br /><br />Victoria Vistahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08143933697570288131noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4876198802606039333.post-1518683799547702612015-03-11T05:22:37.254-07:002015-03-11T05:22:37.254-07:00Strewth!
There are so many things to say about th...Strewth!<br /><br />There are so many things to say about this, but I'll stick to the essential.<br /><br />1. Of course I read your writings because they touch on my fantasies and enter a very lonely place where they help me to come to terms with myself. Would I take a chance on more if it was possible? Why on earth not? <br /><br />That said, the Internet is an odd place and I would expect a long period of correspondence by email, chat, and Skype (which you seem to have done) before taking the final step, assuming that it was desired by both of us.<br /><br />2. Sex is not an addiction to me in the sense that I'm a fully-rounded person with interests, beliefs, commitments, work, pastimes, and rich memories, and I amount to much more than my eros. On the other hand, sex is an important part of my waking and dreaming life, and once it was gone, I would feel enormously impoverished.<br /><br />This is too personal to be published under anything other than the cloak of anonymity, but I hope it helps.<br /><br />I came across this the other day at the end of 'The Great Gatsby'. It's about a man, but it contains a universal human truth.<br /><br />"...his dream must have seemed so close that he could hardly fail to grasp it. He did not know that it was already behind him, somewhere back in that vast obscurity beyond the city, where the dark fields of the republic rolled on under the night."<br /><br />Living is learning to cope with loss, again and again. Wishing you all the very best in this moment of distress.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4876198802606039333.post-86348656726833153682015-03-10T06:18:13.391-07:002015-03-10T06:18:13.391-07:00Thank you for the *hugs*. And yes "Boo, suck...Thank you for the *hugs*. And yes "Boo, sucks" is right. :(<br /><br />Gawd...just disappearing would have been torture! That he told me what was going on with him...the integrity...a character trait I saw in him from the beginning and made me risk investing my time.<br /><br />I hope my readers answer also. <br /><br />EASY to say things...harder to ACT...YES. This is why those men who do ACT are so precious.<br /><br />~ VistaVictoria Vistahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08143933697570288131noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4876198802606039333.post-61868578486206083772015-03-10T00:57:16.306-07:002015-03-10T00:57:16.306-07:00I don't even know what to think about this. So...I don't even know what to think about this. So many questions!!<br /><br />But mostly, I'm sorry for your disappointment, and I'm really glad that he had the integrity to TELL you and not just disappear.<br /><br />I do hope some of your readers answer your questions (though I guess their answers may still not reflect reality since it's EASY to say things, much harder to ACT on those things). <br /><br />Boo, sucks :(.<br /><br /><i>*hugs*</i><br /><br />FernsFernshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08120135882551792775noreply@blogger.com